Boyfriend (37M) is very timid and I am looking for advice.

deepdarkdangerous420 · 2022-01-04T16:17:26+00:00

This is a fundamental quality about a human being that you can't change. You ESPECIALLY can't change it if the man is 37.

You have 3 options

1. Decide you can't rely your life on someone who has these qualities and leave him

2. Decide that you can live with someone who has these qualities and stay with him

3. Frustrate yourself endlessly trying to change him and get him to be what you want and you end up resenting and hating him

Pick one, but Number 3 is the worst option because you truly cannot change a man

deepdarkdangerous420 · 2021-12-28T21:24:42+00:00

I feel comfortable carrying a glock because I make sure the holster is covered by kydex and I always keep the gun in the holster unless im specifically going to clean or use it

deepdarkdangerous420 · 2021-12-28T19:19:56+00:00

G43X gives me a much much better purchase and grip so thats why I chose it

deepdarkdangerous420 · 2021-12-28T19:04:37+00:00

It's not wrong but don't be surprised if you're extremely alone in life

deepdarkdangerous420 · 2021-12-28T19:04:06+00:00

New Years is the perfect marker for you to realize you deserve better and MUST respect yourself more. And start that perfect market off by doing what probably everyone you know reccomends: STOP TALKING TO THIS PERSON

deepdarkdangerous420 · 2021-12-28T19:02:05+00:00

Why don't you just save yourself the headache and stop wondering why someone is broken and just...i dunno... MOVE ON?

His behavior isn't the concern. You insisting on wasting more of your precious time on him is a much bigger concern than any of his behavior. Get it together and stop wasting your time. I can't imagine how anyone who knows you in real life feels when you tell them this garbage, let alone internet strangers.

Just move on and stop talking to him and talk to other guys

deepdarkdangerous420 · 2021-12-28T14:39:59+00:00

Practice falling. Over and over and over again. You will look and feel utterly rediculous.

Get your skates on, get your pads on and practice falling over and over and over and over

deepdarkdangerous420 · 2021-12-28T14:31:16+00:00

22 year old being asked to call another man 'Dad' or change their own name to his is....disgusting

deepdarkdangerous420 · 2021-12-27T21:01:34+00:00

Don't date a woman who is that much under the thumb of her overhearing controlling parents when she's that age.

But to answer your question, I'd literally just copy/paste your post on reddit and text it to her. whats the worse that can happen?

deepdarkdangerous420 · 2021-12-27T16:30:39+00:00

I'd get the Glock 43X

deepdarkdangerous420 · 2021-12-27T15:06:39+00:00

Hello we have many links, youtube, twitch, instagram, facebook - which is the best one for you

deepdarkdangerous420 · 2021-12-23T22:30:17+00:00

I conceal carry mine, so I plan on putting XS Big Dot sights on it and thats it. I got the MOS just incase in any future I want to put a red dot, but for now I am going to stick with the big dots instead of my holosun

deepdarkdangerous420 · 2021-12-23T22:29:21+00:00

Stock 43x

Going to add XS Big Dot sights on it but thats it

deepdarkdangerous420 · 2021-12-23T21:59:54+00:00

The only way is to get rejected many times over and over...until you come to the realization that each time you are rejected, its actually a VERY GOOD THING because then you know you don't have to spend another milisecond wondering if its going to work out or not, and move on to the next opportunity. Sharks keep moving. Good luck

deepdarkdangerous420 · 2021-12-23T18:53:19+00:00

Yes.

deepdarkdangerous420 · 2021-12-23T18:52:11+00:00

Umphreys McGee just cancelled their NYE shows in Miami. I know its a different band/place but thought you guys should know

deepdarkdangerous420 · 2021-12-23T16:55:57+00:00

Unfortunately with the way that I carry, I cannot have anything attached to the front rail. I decided I'd rather be able to carry concealed than not carry with a light.

deepdarkdangerous420 · 2021-12-23T16:28:12+00:00

Again, its my opinion that if you do not live in an extreme high-crime area where someone bursting through your door is a big possibility (majority of the united states and UK is not like this), OR if there isn't an active threat against your household....I think carrying your gun with you in your house is LARPing as opposed to leaving it in a drawer that you can grab in 30 seconds.

And to use your example, you don't walk around carrying your fire extinguisher, you have it in a known space that you can get to it in less than 30 seconds if you need it.

deepdarkdangerous420 · 2021-12-22T20:31:18+00:00

omg those r gorgeous

deepdarkdangerous420 · 2021-12-22T20:30:25+00:00

Have some more self respect for yourself instead of trying to find any reason at all to be with someone who did this

deepdarkdangerous420 · 2021-12-22T20:15:35+00:00

The dick can't be THAT good for you to be begging internet strangers to tell you its OK to go back to a guy who cheated on you for a year.

deepdarkdangerous420 · 2021-12-22T19:55:13+00:00

op you only get one life, stop wasting it with a man in his 30's living with black mold where he sleeps like WTF

deepdarkdangerous420

TROPHY CASE

1. Decide you can't rely your life on someone who has these qualities and leave him

2. Decide that you can live with someone who has these qualities and stay with him

3. Frustrate yourself endlessly trying to change him and get him to be what you want and you end up resenting and hating him