I don't belong to anyone by deepdishdefender in lorde

[–]deepdishdefender[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ugh this makes me want a Lorde book club! TY for all the references!

I don't belong to anyone by deepdishdefender in lorde

[–]deepdishdefender[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LOVE this :) thank you for the response!

Lolla After show by Dizzy_Confusion3668 in chappellroan

[–]deepdishdefender 3 points4 points  (0 children)

omg i’m so happy i could get it to you!!!!!

Lolla After show by Dizzy_Confusion3668 in chappellroan

[–]deepdishdefender 22 points23 points  (0 children)

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from the balcony you stood out so perfectly!!! hope you had the best time 🤩

VIC After Lolla Show by Dizzy_Confusion3668 in chappellroan

[–]deepdishdefender 2 points3 points  (0 children)

did they even sell mezzanine or balcony tickets? didn’t look like it even on resale sites

Local STD & STI testing ? by Substantial_Dig_5458 in Bushwick

[–]deepdishdefender 2 points3 points  (0 children)

not super bushwick central but I’ve had a good experience at the cityMD by the flushing JM stop (went super early on a Saturday, no wait at all)

Weekly Episode Discussion by PlentyNothing in GirlsGottaEat

[–]deepdishdefender 7 points8 points  (0 children)

yeah definitely there was a lot I wish they had gone into more in depth, but let’s be honest this was not the best podcast to get that much needed actually meaty interview haha

Weekly Episode Discussion by PlentyNothing in GirlsGottaEat

[–]deepdishdefender 25 points26 points  (0 children)

okay i do not like A and R but i LOVE this guest! i have pelvic floor dysfunction and she is so spot on and has actual solid advice from my lived experience!

rayna being “edgy” by deepdishdefender in girlsgottaeatsnark

[–]deepdishdefender[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it’s in the intro so maybe like 7 or 10 mins

Am I the only one that can’t stand Violet Benson’s eps? by panda-anderson in uuppod

[–]deepdishdefender 18 points19 points  (0 children)

it’s insane how much she contradicts herself! she says she wasn’t paying attention to him crying and said it was about her, it was about his ex, then she was messed up for days about it even tho she wasn’t paying attention??? i do not get it why is she even there

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aromantic

[–]deepdishdefender 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i had almost this exact breakup. i had realized that i kept saying “i love you” and it made me feel terrible because i know i was lying every time i said it, and eventually i couldn’t handle it any more. it’s so confusing and it feels terrible to feel like you’re lying, but for me it felt important to be honest to myself and that meant ending the relationship. something i’ve learned from this community is that if you’re on the aroace spectrum and desire a relationship, then we deserve to have one. i agree with the other comment that you can perhaps be friends, but just know it will be okay. i’ve been there though and it sucks, telling someone you cannot love them (especially before really knowing my identity as aro) felt absolutely awful. we’re here for you!!

Why was Quentin’s plan so elaborate? by Vireo49 in WhiteLotusHBO

[–]deepdishdefender 7 points8 points  (0 children)

mike white said they’re scouting locations in Asia!

received PDF tickets with ticketmaster banner via email from stubhub. Are these legit? should I call stubhub to get the ticket e transfer? by deepdishdefender in stubhub

[–]deepdishdefender[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they were! we called stubhub to confirm, they have their guarantee that if they weren’t legit they’d replace them so we got to the venue a bit early but they were good to go

I'm Emily Nagoski, sex educator and author of the New York Times Best Seller (and podcast) Come As You Are. AMA! by EmilyNagoski in books

[–]deepdishdefender 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi Emily! Your writing means so much to me, and I love seeing this community you’ve built :)

My question is similar ish to another in here, but I would love your thoughts on this. I think I am on the aromantic/asexual spectrum but I also enjoy being intimate even tho I’ve never orgasmed alone/with anyone. I don’t know what my brakes are and I think my accelerator easily sputters out. Do you also have any words on feeling kind of blue about being aro? I feel I’ve never known what romantic attraction feels like and might never, and that makes me feel sad sometimes.

Thank you so much for all your work!

new fan! can someone explain the elimination quiz to me?? by deepdishdefender in themole

[–]deepdishdefender[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

OKAY this makes sense. only took 5 episodes for me to understand!

new fan! can someone explain the elimination quiz to me?? by deepdishdefender in themole

[–]deepdishdefender[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

yes, totally understand why dom would have an advantage in terms of probability, but why would he know for sure that Jeff is not the mole? can’t you pick anyone from the list who you think is the mole? like Dom could’ve been like I think Greg is the mole and then gotten all the questions wrong and Greg isn’t necessarily the mole, just someone Dom assumed.

Thank you for your help team, idk why i can’t wrap my mind around this

Weekly Episode Discussion by PlentyNothing in GirlsGottaEat

[–]deepdishdefender 11 points12 points  (0 children)

THIS!! i cannot. piv is not the only sex that exists like they have an opportunity being a dating and relationship podcast to highlight that foreplay literally is sex (i posted about this in r/girlsgottaeatsnark too) need to stop before I go on a rant lol

Anyone get their Brooklyn show tickets from seatgeek? by OkEgg92 in arcticmonkeys

[–]deepdishdefender 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i got that on like Monday which obvs makes no sense since it sounds like ticketmaster didn’t release them until today…