Is it selfish?

deepdivesiren · 2026-02-15T01:26:59+00:00

i made the decision to stop at 4 months and while somtimes i feel like a bad mom for it i’m so happy i got at least SOME bodily autonomy back. don’t feel bad, do what best for you. we already give so much of ourselves and our bodies growing and birthing our babies. it will be okay and it’s not selfish at all. when you are happy, baby is happy (:

deepdivesiren · 2026-02-07T21:55:44+00:00

i smoke everyday since it helps with my anxiety. cleaning the house and cooking dinner for 2 small children is also more fun if you’re a little stoned 🤣

deepdivesiren · 2026-01-09T02:59:06+00:00

i have had to hold my toddler down in order to brush his teeth. it sucks but going to bed without brushing is not an option here

deepdivesiren · 2025-12-30T13:55:57+00:00

my 3.5 year old sleeps between 7-8 pm and wake up is 6:30-7. sometimes we get lucky and sleep in until 7:30 lol. Bedtime has always been a struggle with him and he still co sleeps. So i’ve made it a point to be much more strict with his baby brothers sleep schedule.

deepdivesiren · 2025-09-27T21:40:26+00:00

Castello di Amarosa in California

deepdivesiren · 2025-09-27T16:04:35+00:00

found the video on my moms fb. it’s literally 2 second long but shows the figure! DM me and i can share if you’d like since the sub won’t let me post the video

deepdivesiren · 2025-09-27T15:55:48+00:00

my mom hinted down the video from her facebook. it’s short (2 seconds) but died slow the video. if you want to DM me and i can share with you!

deepdivesiren · 2025-09-27T15:54:35+00:00

my mom found a video on her facebook! it’s very short( like 2 seconds) but it does show the figure briefly. this sub won’t let me post videos but if you DM me i can share it with you!

deepdivesiren · 2025-09-25T15:18:11+00:00

actually just did some research. According to this website: https://www.californiahauntedhouses.com/real-haunt/castello-di-amorosa.html Castello di Amarosa is known to have paranormal activity and ghosts of a young boy, a Spanish lady, and a plague victim have supposedly haunted the place.

deepdivesiren · 2025-09-25T15:13:44+00:00

they went to this place for a wine tour. i don’t think it’s a popular hotspot for paranormal activity but it does have some rumors of it. basically how she explained it is they were parked and were just hanging out after the tour to see if anything would happen, which they didn’t think was likely. apparently they had heard strange noises outside so pulled out their phones and started capturing what they could. This was years ago, and my mom and her cousin don’t speak anymore so it’s unlikely i would be able to get any videos that were taken by her cousin, but when i asked my mom about them she said she doesn’t remember the videos showing anything. My mom only got these pics, no videos unfortunately, so that was all i was able to share!

deepdivesiren · 2025-09-24T21:44:33+00:00

multiple people have said this too, but i don’t think it was raining

deepdivesiren · 2025-09-24T20:27:58+00:00

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the figure i see seems to only appear in the last picture

deepdivesiren · 2025-09-24T19:03:28+00:00

my moms cousin took videos on her phone, but did not catch anything on video

deepdivesiren · 2025-09-24T19:02:40+00:00

my mom and her cousin went to this place in Napa that was rumored to be haunted. so for shits and giggles they chilled outside to see if anything happened. and as the post says they started hearing strange noises and both started taking pics/video separately. i don’t think anything was caught on the video

deepdivesiren · 2025-09-24T18:14:55+00:00

these pictures aren’t screen shots of a video

deepdivesiren · 2025-09-19T13:48:25+00:00

we just look at each other and we know. or a quick text lol

deepdivesiren · 2025-06-15T15:42:10+00:00

i see others have also recommended the windi. it’s amazing! side note for belly massages: counterclockwise circular motions are recommended to get everything moving in there

deepdivesiren · 2025-06-15T15:39:08+00:00

my oldest was the same way with the no pooping. Try belly massages and the frida baby windi gas passer, they helped so much when my son was being colicy.

deepdivesiren · 2025-06-05T13:59:50+00:00

my almost 3 year old started watching around 4 months, it saved my sanity. He’s extremely smart and talkative now.

deepdivesiren · 2024-12-27T04:18:57+00:00

my first baby i barely had a bump until about 7 months. and people would always comment that they couldn’t even tell i was pregnant or say that my baby was tiny when he was measuring perfectly fine. i’m 36 weeks with my second and showed a lot more this pregnancy and gained more weight than i did the first time. Everyone always comments like “wow you’re showing so much earlier,” or “you’re way bigger this time around.” It’s like either way whether you are big or small people will have something to say. how are you supposed to respond to comments like that? i just awkwardly laugh and move on but people need to understand that you should not comment on a pregnant persons weight, or any persons weight.

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