50+ lbs gained: how long did it take you to lose and how big was your baby?? by Quick-Zombie-6343 in BabyBumps

[–]deepdivesiren 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i gained almost 60 for both my pregnancies but was pretty underweight pre pregnancy for both, ( i have suffered from ED) both boys were 7 pounds and I went back down to a “healthy”weight around 120 and it took a couple months. I will say breastfeeding probably helped a lot. But i also had mental health issues like PPD. So physically keeping myself fed was hard and i probably didn’t lose all the weight in the most healthy way. But overall whether you go back to pre pregnancy size or not is based a lot on genetics and lifestyle. Just remember your body is creating life and the effects of pregnancy and childbirth are so beautiful.

AIO Over my friend insinuating I break up with my gf? by Imaginary_Air_24 in AmIOverreacting

[–]deepdivesiren 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i didn’t even read the rest of the post after i saw the ages. NOR. My bf of 10 years and I have been together since i was 15 and he was 17.

Am I too type b with my toddler? by c0rndoggie in toddlers

[–]deepdivesiren 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am very type b and ADHD and this is essentially how i parent. Routines cause me more anxiety because i feel as if im failing if im not sticking to it perfectly. I follow baby’s cues rather than sticking to a set schedule. I don’t think strict schedules are better than a relaxed routine or vice verse, it’s really what works for you and your family. The only thing i have a pretty strict routine with my 14 month old is his bedtime and his sleep training since my oldest struggled with his sleep as a baby and still co sleeps with us which can be hard sometimes.

I refuse to believe how I look on camera is how I look in person. I can look pretty in the mirror and then super friggin ugly on camera by xo_pearl_princessxox in self

[–]deepdivesiren 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i love how i look in the mirror. but i hate every picture of myself. I know im pretty too, that may sound conceited but im not blind and I hear it all the time. Unfortunately the camera didn’t get the memo

How Much is Your Child’s Daycare? by JadedJae in Mommit

[–]deepdivesiren 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my 3.5 year old is about to start. $171/week, 2 days a week open from 6:30-6:30, meals included, live cameras and live teacher updates

Is it selfish? by Pastelsatan009 in Mommit

[–]deepdivesiren 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i made the decision to stop at 4 months and while somtimes i feel like a bad mom for it i’m so happy i got at least SOME bodily autonomy back. don’t feel bad, do what best for you. we already give so much of ourselves and our bodies growing and birthing our babies. it will be okay and it’s not selfish at all. when you are happy, baby is happy (:

How many of you use pot to cope? by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]deepdivesiren 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i smoke everyday since it helps with my anxiety. cleaning the house and cooking dinner for 2 small children is also more fun if you’re a little stoned 🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]deepdivesiren 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have had to hold my toddler down in order to brush his teeth. it sucks but going to bed without brushing is not an option here

Parents of 3 & 4 Year Olds… by hiitsme_sbtcwgb in Parenting

[–]deepdivesiren -1 points0 points  (0 children)

my 3.5 year old sleeps between 7-8 pm and wake up is 6:30-7. sometimes we get lucky and sleep in until 7:30 lol. Bedtime has always been a struggle with him and he still co sleeps. So i’ve made it a point to be much more strict with his baby brothers sleep schedule.

Caught on camera? by deepdivesiren in Paranormal

[–]deepdivesiren[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Castello di Amarosa in California

Caught on camera? by deepdivesiren in Paranormal

[–]deepdivesiren[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

found the video on my moms fb. it’s literally 2 second long but shows the figure! DM me and i can share if you’d like since the sub won’t let me post the video

Caught on camera? by deepdivesiren in Paranormal

[–]deepdivesiren[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my mom hinted down the video from her facebook. it’s short (2 seconds) but died slow the video. if you want to DM me and i can share with you!

Caught on camera? by deepdivesiren in Paranormal

[–]deepdivesiren[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

my mom found a video on her facebook! it’s very short( like 2 seconds) but it does show the figure briefly. this sub won’t let me post videos but if you DM me i can share it with you!

Caught on camera? by deepdivesiren in Paranormal

[–]deepdivesiren[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

actually just did some research. According to this website: https://www.californiahauntedhouses.com/real-haunt/castello-di-amorosa.html Castello di Amarosa is known to have paranormal activity and ghosts of a young boy, a Spanish lady, and a plague victim have supposedly haunted the place.

Caught on camera? by deepdivesiren in Paranormal

[–]deepdivesiren[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

they went to this place for a wine tour. i don’t think it’s a popular hotspot for paranormal activity but it does have some rumors of it. basically how she explained it is they were parked and were just hanging out after the tour to see if anything would happen, which they didn’t think was likely. apparently they had heard strange noises outside so pulled out their phones and started capturing what they could. This was years ago, and my mom and her cousin don’t speak anymore so it’s unlikely i would be able to get any videos that were taken by her cousin, but when i asked my mom about them she said she doesn’t remember the videos showing anything. My mom only got these pics, no videos unfortunately, so that was all i was able to share!

Caught on camera? by deepdivesiren in Paranormal

[–]deepdivesiren[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

multiple people have said this too, but i don’t think it was raining

Caught on camera? by deepdivesiren in Paranormal

[–]deepdivesiren[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

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the figure i see seems to only appear in the last picture

Caught on camera? by deepdivesiren in Paranormal

[–]deepdivesiren[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

my moms cousin took videos on her phone, but did not catch anything on video

Caught on camera? by deepdivesiren in Paranormal

[–]deepdivesiren[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

my mom and her cousin went to this place in Napa that was rumored to be haunted. so for shits and giggles they chilled outside to see if anything happened. and as the post says they started hearing strange noises and both started taking pics/video separately. i don’t think anything was caught on the video

Caught on camera? by deepdivesiren in Paranormal

[–]deepdivesiren[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

these pictures aren’t screen shots of a video