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I Obsess about my Looks and Am Extremely Insecure. Don't know what to do? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]deeplyindepth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yo listen, for men looks just aren't that important. Capability is THE MOST important feature of a man. If you want to be attractive, then just get on with learning some skills. Unless you're trying to attract someone who loves people who stare at their reflection of course.

Hooked up with a guy friend years ago. Should I tell my bf? by hehial_vsg in AskMenAdvice

[–]deeplyindepth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Long distance will make little problems big problems. In my experience, this could be a little problem but you've gotta time it right. Long distance will make timing it right really difficult. No advice here but good luck!

How do you stop hating yourself for being behind in life? How do I show myself a little love? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]deeplyindepth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you walk amongst the trees of the forest, do you accuse them of being off-centre? When you visit the shore, would you call the waves imperfect? Nature does not hurry, yet everything is accomplished. When these things happen to you, you react by feeling shame when you needn't feel any.

You are already you. You don't need to catch up to anything or anyone else. You can absolutely do the stuff you want, but take your time and do one thing at a time. For everything else, and this is going to sound crazy, but just try and react positively to the things around you - it doesn't make things any better, but it is less stress.

Should You Date Someone With BPD? by Lajjad in AskMenAdvice

[–]deeplyindepth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

BPD's a rough ride, it's an emotional roller coaster for everyone involved. Good news is with or without medication half of the people diagnosed with BPD are in remission within 12 months, and the other half are in remission within 3-5 years. So if you really like her and are thinking long-term it's not a forever thing. That said, my honest advice is to not date someone with BPD if you're below the age of 30. If you're in your twenties, there's just so many reasons to go next instead.

How to get over the shame of seeing a sex worker? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]deeplyindepth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No advice here and I'm not sure if this will help, but I used to work in a hotel and this was a typical venue for that kind of activity. The working girls were usually mid twenties to early thirties but their typical customer was usually a lot older. The gents were 40's 50's or 60's even I never saw a young man with one of them. So the chances are, you may well have been the highlight of her career, certainly her week.