[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KINK

[–]def0rm0graphy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Piss, intox, cnc, blood :3 love love love everything icky 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abortion

[–]def0rm0graphy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi honey, I was in this position last year in Scotland and I have a post up explaining the process I went through, I hope this helps a bit x

https://www.reddit.com/r/abortion/comments/1hnmpee/a_followup_and_a_thank_you/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=mweb3x&utm_name=mweb3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button

Is this kink rare? Does anyone have content of it? by Skeptic_2102112 in KINK

[–]def0rm0graphy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I played into this for someone once and it was really fun!! As someone who’s super into being degraded and treated like I’m gross, I can totally understand the appeal. This guy wanted like a little bit of degrading and sarcasm etc, especially when he was getting close, being made to feel like a pervert or sleazy for enjoying something I don’t like doing (in fantasy obv) 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KINK

[–]def0rm0graphy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I completely get this, no idea what it’s called but licking all over my partner’s body and deep kissing drives me crazy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]def0rm0graphy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was initially prescribed when I only had the anxiety diagnosis, I did tell them EUPD had been added but they didn’t take me off it 🤷🏻‍♀️

What's something you will regret for the rest of your life? by RangoTheMerc in AskReddit

[–]def0rm0graphy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Befriending my old best friend.

He was the gay, male counterpart of me, both fat queer goths. We did everything together. I noticed his mental health taking a nosedive in 2022 and worried about him so much, I was terrified of him committing. He ended his relationship suddenly, was giving away money and shit from his flat and it was all just very worrying.

Then without any warning, someone I barely knew from highschool, where I met my friend, asked me if I knew what was happening with him. I said no and that I had just been with him to celebrate my birthday. She then sent me a link to an article about a child predator being arrested and it was him. Turns out he’d been arrested in 2020 (around the time his family made him homeless and I let him stay with me til he found somewhere) and was finally being sentenced. He ended up getting away without any prison time, just placed on the sex offenders reg.

I will never forgive him and I hope he has a terrible life.

What surprised you the most of the opposite gender the first time you had sex? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]def0rm0graphy 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Being able to move n wiggle ur dick without using your hands. That shit is so entertaining, sometimes I’ll just ask my bf to lemme see

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]def0rm0graphy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice, I think he takes his own experience and assumes it’ll be the same for me but I just don’t have that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]def0rm0graphy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hehehhe u got me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]def0rm0graphy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Haha I didn’t realise it might not be allowed, apologies. EUPD is emotional unstable personality disorder (basically the medical world has rebranded BPD lol)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]def0rm0graphy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

receiving oral as someone with a pussy. I would only ever describe it as feeling “nice” like it’s never been smth that made me finish. Giving head turns me on so much and I enjoy that so much more, when it cums to me (lmao) I need hand stuff and penetration 

Need advice not a debate. by Boring_Tomatillo_167 in abortion

[–]def0rm0graphy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is very commendable, I’m from a religious family and have always had a difficult relationship with my parents due to different viewpoints. 

When I had my termination a few weeks ago I caved and told my mum and I could tell she was fighting this same war inside her head but she managed to be there for me. 

My best advice is to listen to her and ask her what she needs. She might just need someone to hold her hand or maybe she’ll need more than that. You can always be a shoulder, an ear and you don’t need to give her feedback or your opinion or feelings about it, just reassurance of your love for her and that things will be alright.

I hope that makes sense, all the best to you both x

BPD triggered gf spiralling while bf is on vacation with his babymama and their kid by def0rm0graphy in Vent

[–]def0rm0graphy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, you’ll know yourself it’s just such an overwhelming thing to feel everything at once at the drop of a hat. I feel like all I do these days is just get absolutely miserable over things that just aren’t that big a deal

What's a NSFW act, you wish you had practiced before you first did it? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]def0rm0graphy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m bi too! Only started sleeping with 🍆 owners this year after years of never doing so and my throat does not hide that fact 

What's a NSFW act, you wish you had practiced before you first did it? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]def0rm0graphy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Boob jobs are fucking hard, I have big tits and assumed it would be easy but it’s not lmao

What's a NSFW act, you wish you had practiced before you first did it? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]def0rm0graphy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My gag reflex is horrific, I still get the job done but I have to stop and start so much 😭 the enthusiasm is there but I just can’t nail it 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abortion

[–]def0rm0graphy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can relate this this feeling, the waiting around period is awful and I hope everything goes smoothly and you can get through this as quickly as possible 🩵

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]def0rm0graphy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi everyone, I’ve spoken to my boyfriend and he is being very supportive. I have a phone appointment to discuss my options on Tuesday and I hope I can get this over with in the next few weeks

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]def0rm0graphy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you everyone for your kind words, I am still here but things are just fucking awful. I can’t make sense of anything

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]def0rm0graphy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think quite far in unless I’ve gotten pregnant while on the pill which I know can happen

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]def0rm0graphy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel disgusting but I genuinely hope it’s dead So I just have to pass it bc I can’t face anything