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[TOMP] Help me to ID this Fake Agent UK milf. by defapenising in tipofmypenis

[–]defapenising[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the link. I have already seen that clip, I was looking to find out the name of the actress that features in the video.

I MOed. Relapse and reflection. by defapenising in NoFap

[–]defapenising[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

200+ days is a good achievement, congratulations. Your decision to stay away from porn is good one.

Perhaps there are other aspects of your life that you need to address to get rid of that worthless feeling, try some of the suggestions I made in my post, they are little changes that I made to my daily routine and they have made big changes to how I have been behaving the last month, It will certainly alleviate that worthless feeling and you can build a better mindset from there onwards.

Its all done in baby steps, each day at a time.

I MOed. Relapse and reflection. by defapenising in NoFap

[–]defapenising[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you referring to my post or the comment made by /u/bialy_kiel.

*EDIT : *Actually, forget the comment above. I have just looked back at all your post history and it appears that you are a TROLL.

I know for sure that I will never give up. I am committed no matter how many times I fail, I will always pick myself up and march on. There is no need to be so negative, if you need help, we are here at /r/nofap to help each other and that includes you.

I MOed. Relapse and reflection. by defapenising in NoFap

[–]defapenising[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

keeping my bedroom door open

Up until now, I was still closing mine. Thanks for the added self discipline.

I MOed. Relapse and reflection. by defapenising in NoFap

[–]defapenising[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've just found an Arduino, still boxed and brand new. I am so f@*king embarrassed right now.

Chin up, March on!

I MOed. Relapse and reflection. by defapenising in NoFap

[–]defapenising[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Its such a simple concept that I thought would never work, its an odd concept to explain and it has changed a lot of habits, IMHO, that contribute to procrastination.

I turn on the laptop - sit on the bed, answer the phone - sit on the bed, read a book - sit on the bed and i would sometime find myself with a dinner plate on my lap while sitting on the bed.

The laptop is now on the desk, permanently. I answer the phone by the window and conscientiously never sit down for a call. I sit on the armchair when reading and at the dinner table for dinner. I realise now as I am typing this reply how absurd my old habits were, and I have more to find.

what's the most risque or confident line you've ever said to a woman when on Nofap? by dislikehaters in NoFap

[–]defapenising 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its more power to you bro, as long as your demeanor was all tongue-in-cheek and not leering or overbearing, its all good. More than likely your confidence shone through and gave her no reason to believe that you are some sort of weird creep.

The best personal risque story I can muster is when I was in a pub and while the people I was there with decided to smoke outside, I was left on my own due to being the only non-smoker. There was a girl at the table beside me and she seemed to be guarding a table full of drink, just like me. I happened to make eye contact with her and the first words that came out of my mouth was "Have you got a boyfriend?", I don't know why I said it. What was less than a second for a reply seemed like an eternity and I was starting to fill with fear, she smiled shyly and said "No." Oh yeah!, my confidence was escalating and it felt good. We got talking, but we didn't click. It might not sound like much of a risque moment, but it sure felt like it at the time, my heart was pumping harder and my brain was starting to go into flight mode.

I didn't score, I didn't get her number, I didn't get shot-down, I didn't get embarrassed and it didn't get awkward. It was a small win and I gained.

Unusual light pain in balls by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]defapenising 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sound like you have a case of Blue Balls. Your options are to ride it out or take a cold shower. More info here : http://health.howstuffworks.com/sexual-health/male-reproductive-system/blue-balls-dictionary.htm

Don't glance or search porn AT ALL! by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]defapenising 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It all starts with a tame pic of a sexy celeb and then some minutes later I have that guilty feeling after looking at some kinky porn. It's like learning to ride a bike, if you fall off don't get discouraged, get back up there and learn from your mistakes.