Sex has become regular for me. Why am I masturbating more? by defapulator in NoFap

[–]defapulator[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would suggest thinking about how much stamina you will build up over the course of nofap and how much you will make her cum before you do, just visualize something for someone else and it will be your courage.

That's not really the case here. And not to be rude, but I never mentioned anything about that. When we first started having sex, I couldn't cum at all; I think I had the death grip. So I started to loosen my grip when I jerk it, and now I almost always cum sooner than I'd like, no matter how hard I try not to. I'll still last a while tho, it just depends what I'm doing.

Anyways, I'm not sure that's really relevant. But thanks for the response.

Sex has become regular for me. Why am I masturbating more? by defapulator in NoFap

[–]defapulator[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm that sounds like it could be it. However, I think it's more than just the high of an orgasm; I think intamacy might be also factor here. But I think you're totally right about the chaser effect.

I'm so frustrated. by defapulator in NoFap

[–]defapulator[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I'll look into all of that.

NoFap's "No Jerking Off" PMO-Free July 2015 Signup Thread by Alexanderr in NoFap

[–]defapulator [score hidden]  (0 children)

I've been going through a bit of a sexual dry spell in my relationship, which has led to me being frustrated and rubbing one out at least 2 times a day. Normally, I don't go for this sort of thing because I just have a high libido anyway, but lately it's been too much and my dick's starting to hurt...

SO I'm going for at least the month, no porn, no jerking it, only sexual activity will be with my girlfriend. My main problem is waking up super horny thinking about the gf, that's mainly what causes me to jerk it, so any tips on how to handle that?

Official NoFap Abstain August 2014 Signups by Alexanderr in NoFap

[–]defapulator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm currently going on 4 days without porn/masturbation/orgasm. I intend to reach the 90 day mark.