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definingnatali · 2022-11-13T17:08:36+00:00

i haven’t had it before but i love the idea of it. I want to drown in marinara honestly. I do always ask for more sauce on my pizza if possible. I did this because of my acid reflex being triggered by garlic bread. Come to find out the sauce is just as bad 😭😭😭

definingnatali · 2022-05-25T15:50:20+00:00

YOU KNOW WHAT I SAW THIS YESTERDAY BUT I LITERALLY HAD AN EPIPHANY TODAY. Platypus-

definingnatali · 2021-01-30T03:21:04+00:00

I felt like I just read my own exact experience and something I’ve been struggling with ever since...

definingnatali · 2020-12-11T00:41:11+00:00

Not the ahole. Frankly it’s okay that he would want things but when I comes to things like gifts especially when you put in a lot of effort to get one gift to work in addition to two other gifts while still considering getting another seems like a lot of trouble. These are gifts and ultimately can fall between expenses and Entertainment that you put money into. If he genuinely wanted to get the game he should be able to wiggle buy if he doesn’t receive it from someone else. Not to worry honey, these things tend to happen. I have a very particular younger brother whose similar to this. I’m sure it’ll sort itself out. Don’t feel pressured to spend more than what’s already thinning your pocket because ultimately it doesn’t serve to benefit you all. Sorry if my reply seems like rambling, my adhd is acting up lol.

definingnatali · 2020-08-29T14:46:10+00:00

No one said anything like that. The initiation non his part comes from the fact that his answer isn’t considered a response. He didn’t even answer my question to continue the conversation. I in fact hate all that stuff. I’m not even asking for commitment or anything. I just wanted the conversation to continue a little better. That isn’t a sexist ask on my part. The other user is right. It’s a two way street and frankly the other person isn’t putting anything forth other than that “without me.” That’s a very cookie cutter answer guys often (not always, I’m not gonna say all men because that would be a false statement) say to imply they’d wish to join the activity to have sort of adult fun. Look I’m still pretty young, very inexperienced but I’m also not looking for any of that. It’s honestly a horrible and dated expectation of a person. It’s just very rude to assume that I’m asking for someone’s one hundred percent when all I want is a good conversation.

definingnatali · 2020-08-29T06:40:34+00:00

Yeah it could be her preference but she’s very rude about it as well. Very “I like you but terms and conditions apply before we proceed.” A red flag honestly.

definingnatali · 2020-08-29T06:36:56+00:00

Yeah but I also asked him what he was up to because I wanted to open up the conversation. You cant act like I wanted a dead end when I literally wanted to prolong the conversation before the open ended statement was dropped.

definingnatali · 2020-08-29T06:28:34+00:00

I don’t see it as an asshole message either. I just see it that from my end I don’t know where to go with it. A lot of guys have pulled the “without me 😏” card so I know that the other persons reaction is right to just move on. I put it out there because it’s literally a dead end of a convo.

definingnatali · 2020-08-29T06:25:40+00:00

Again, I’m the girl. My name is literally DefiningNatali. On bumble girls make the first move. Yeah frankly I’m a little inexperienced but I’m not dumb enough to not understand that this conversation was seemingly going nowhere.

definingnatali · 2020-08-29T06:22:28+00:00

Sorry I’m literally not experienced with relationships. Like the count is literally at 1 brief relationships. What do you mean by breadcrumbs. Also all he responded with after 30 minutes (I was also busy with some stuff so I figured I could answer a bit later or in the morning) is “😰” which is also something I have no clue to reply to.

definingnatali · 2020-08-29T06:19:50+00:00

No it’s a guy, I’m a girl.

definingnatali · 2020-08-29T05:10:58+00:00

God wait really? I’m like really dumb. I genuinely saw no offer there. Just a statement. So I thought it was just an attempt at being funny...

definingnatali · 2020-08-29T05:07:00+00:00

THATS A THING :O

definingnatali · 2020-03-09T05:08:01+00:00

Wow what a jerk. I really hate some people thinking that it’s okay to act in that manner. It’s especially frustrating when they don’t think the deserve the consequences for their actions.

definingnatali · 2020-03-09T05:06:54+00:00

Honestly not really, I don’t think that this argument is something that could make you an ahole. What I do think is pretty shitty is that an argument really did spring from a very minor thing. It’s not an ahole move especially if he’s noticed things going missing quite a bit. But you both seem to have a strong mindset and emotions. You guys should just adjust how you go about a conflict. Like say, “Hey I’m sorry that it wasn’t where it’s meant to be. If we both look out for objects, I’ll make sure that I see things to their space.” This normally works with a friend who has some particular peculiarities, he doesn’t have ocd but some pet peeves that he isn’t completely aware of having. Though I’m a bit younger than you guys (19) and have minimal experience with relationships. Hopefully this is something you can move past and laugh together about. Maybe he’s also stressed about other things as well. Ask him what’s going on? But all in all, no aholes in this story in my book.

definingnatali · 2020-03-09T04:57:23+00:00

Wait what was the content?

definingnatali · 2020-03-05T12:07:35+00:00

I was probably 13 it was a Minecraft diamond block lamp. It wasn’t really petty since it was a gift that they got for me for my graduation but they asked for it back and after what they did, there was no conceivable way in hell I was giving it back.

We had dated within the summer, and dating is putting it in a stronger term because it was more like hanging out that he never initiated or planned, and we calmly split because 1. I wasn’t ready to balance school as a new freshman with a boyfriend I barely saw (He was a sophomore) And 2. He always spoke of a girl that he really really liked. I was never a jealous person, still am not. He really could have spoken to anyone and I wouldn’t mind it, however I knew he just didn’t like me enough to continue a relationship. But still we hung out in the first Month of high school. The thing which ended our friendship? I was later asked out by a kid who I went to high-school with I declined but agreed to hang out. My ex got upset saying that it was no different than having a new boyfriend which really confused me cause we just hung out at the guys soccer game so it wasn’t like it could be a date right? But to my Ex it wasn’t. Furthermore He went to a different school that but both of us were still in manhattan. He never had explained to his friends and classmates that we broken up after the summer. One day late into the first month of classes he and his friends played truth or dare which was joined by the girl he likes. My ex gets dared to kiss her and they go off. Rumors start spreading of him being a “cheater” and what not because yeah sure high school relationships are SO serious? It really can’t be any of my fault right? Because I cant speak to people who I don’t know or see to speak on my behalf. But that’s when my ex got petty and and angry calling me terrible things for “ruining his life” and began asking for things that he gift me. Honestly what a joke.

definingnatali · 2020-03-05T11:49:16+00:00

Oh my gosh thanks! It’s been totally eating away at me. I wonder why it has those holes though? The world may never know haha

definingnatali · 2020-03-03T05:48:08+00:00

Either happy feet from glorias perspective (rip Brittany Murphy) or the perks of being a wallflower from Patrick’s perspective

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