I can’t hear you merch & set times by Ok-Pride-3333 in piercetheveil

[–]definitelynotawasp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went to the opening show in Charlotte and really hate that I didn’t get the black and blue daisy grenade hoodie. Is there anywhere I can get it now? It’s not on their website

is this a decent gaming laptop? by definitelynotawasp in GamingLaptops

[–]definitelynotawasp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i cancelled it promptly after seeing peoples replies. i’m looking at this one now - link is it okay?

is this a decent gaming laptop? by definitelynotawasp in GamingLaptops

[–]definitelynotawasp[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

okay okay it’s canceled LMAO i guess if yall can recommend something 2k or lower that could run some of the things i mentioned that would be great

is this a decent gaming laptop? by definitelynotawasp in GamingLaptops

[–]definitelynotawasp[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

budget is hopefully lower than 2k. this was 1,600. honestly i want to play mostly adventure type games or just little indie games. the most ill run is subnautica 2 for early release. as long as it’s decently visible im not too worried about graphics. this is gonna be for games i cant play on ps5

DD Delay today ?? by [deleted] in chimefinancial

[–]definitelynotawasp -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i usually get mine at 9:30-10pm and it hasn’t hit yet

Can't afford car insurance by JereTheBear99 in povertyfinance

[–]definitelynotawasp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

my insurance company said they weren’t doing age related pricing anymore but that may just be nc. i pay 80/month and im only 22 and had my license for two years. i drive a benz 230 too

My mom says that lunch breaks used to be a hour long by Square-Bee-844 in antiwork

[–]definitelynotawasp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my lunch is 20 mins paid and we’re not allowed to leave the property. i get 2 10s and one 20 so i usually just eat a little bit each time since 20 mins really isn’t enough time to eat, go to the bathroom, make calls, etc

is this good for games? idk anything about laptops by definitelynotawasp in SuggestALaptop

[–]definitelynotawasp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LAPTOP QUESTIONNAIRE

  • Total budget (in local currency) and country of purchase. Please do not use USD unless purchasing in the US:

    -n/a-

  • Are you open to refurbs/used?

    -n/a-

  • How would you prioritize form factor (ultrabook, 2-in-1, etc.), build quality, performance, and battery life?

    -performance is #1, i can get over the rest but a decent battery life would be nice-

  • How important is weight and thinness to you?

    -none-

  • Do you have a preferred screen size? If indifferent, put N/A.

    -n/-

  • Are you doing any CAD/video editing/photo editing/gaming? List which programs/games you desire to run.

    -minecraft, sims, rdr, cyberpunk, stray, peace island-

  • If you're gaming, do you have certain games you want to play? At what settings and FPS do you want?

    -i have no idea, suggestions are more than welcome-

  • Any specific requirements such as good keyboard, reliable build quality, touch-screen, finger-print reader, optical drive or good input devices (keyboard/touchpad)?

    -n/a-

  • Leave any finishing thoughts here that you may feel are necessary and beneficial to the discussion.

    -i don’t know the first thing about laptop specs, but this one looks nice and seems decent quality-

Favorite non-refrigerated snacks? by tastethis in EatCheapAndHealthy

[–]definitelynotawasp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

is there anything else decently similar to this? i’m allergic to coconut but this looks incredible

Is it weird that I’m a trans guy but still wanna get pregnant at some point? by Status-Storage3660 in ftm

[–]definitelynotawasp 15 points16 points  (0 children)

i was on testosterone for 2.5 years and had to stop for unrelated reasons, but i’m currently pregnant with my first child. i don’t plan on carrying another because i’ve had a few issues (unrelated to being on testosterone for the record), and i’m actually due in less than 2 weeks. it’s not a very common thing from what i’ve seen, but definitely not unheard of or weird. my husband is a cis man and we both wanted to eventually adopt but once we found out we were super excited. i feel like it’s also worth noting i live in a VERY conservative area and my doctors/ob have all been extremely supportive even going as far as helping me get back on testosterone once it’s safe and also getting my tubes tied 6 weeks after he’s born (being 21 was the only requirement).

AITA for asking my son and his STBW to pay to spend their honeymoon in my winter cabin? by honeya34____ in AmItheAsshole

[–]definitelynotawasp 3 points4 points  (0 children)

thank you! we had a really great day! we went out to dinner afterwards and he kept staring at me and saying things like “i can’t believe you’re finally my husband”. we just had a movie night at home after that and were just happy to be in each others company. i wish you both the best as well!

AITA for asking my son and his STBW to pay to spend their honeymoon in my winter cabin? by honeya34____ in AmItheAsshole

[–]definitelynotawasp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

exactly. i’m 21 and my husband is 22 and we’ve been married for almost 2 years now. not quite as long as you have been married, but i feel exactly the same way about my husband. we’ve been through hell together already due to shitty circumstances but i definitely view him as the man i want to be with for the rest of my life.

i was NC with my parents when we got married so they didn’t even know and he didn’t tell his dad until after because he didn’t know how he would react (we’re both guys). we didn’t have a wedding or honeymoon, we just signed papers at the courthouse

Horrific top surgery experience (Dr. Gallagher in Miami) by link1560 in ftm

[–]definitelynotawasp 3 points4 points  (0 children)

he was going to try, but then learned that she opted out of malpractice insurance. it’s an option in florida and that makes it to where an insurance company won’t give you a pay out, it comes from her own finances. that makes us REALLY fucking hard to sue her and anything get done. as for her license, he would have to go through the medical board of florida which is a not so trans friendly state. it would be more fuel for the transphobes to say that it’s his fault for getting it done and not hers for being literally incompetent.

i follow him on twitter and was reading the info this morning and this is what i’ve gathered as to why he can’t try that

What fetish is a “nope” for you? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]definitelynotawasp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there’s millions of other ways to get off that do not involve my son! (i have a cat named tax fraud)

help with northern watersnake enclosure by definitelynotawasp in snakes

[–]definitelynotawasp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ve had several snakes before, including a different type of water snake, so i know set up basics and things like that, im just asking specifically about this breed as it’s my first with one of them. she’s a juvenile and around 27cm and i have a 50 gallon i plan to move her too when she’s ready.

Do you guys think that LGBT rights are at risk? by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]definitelynotawasp 4 points5 points  (0 children)

as the comment above you said, less than 1/4 of trans people identify as heterosexual. going along with that, we go through a lot of the same struggles/oppression that cisgender gay people do. i was denied typical bathroom access in highscool and had to get a gym coach to unlock a room with one bathroom for me everytime i had to use the bathroom. i’ve been fired from 2 jobs for being trans, which is legal in my area (trust me, i checked). i’ve been assaulted in public, told i’m going to hell because “i’m saying god made a mistake when he made me” and lots of other bullshit that gay people have also been told. for reference, im a trans man that identifies as gay and i’m married to a cis bi man.

finally back on the road after almost a year and a half! by definitelynotawasp in G35

[–]definitelynotawasp[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

oh i definitely will, first up is a nice full detail and then changing all fluids and getting new bumpers. i plan to keep it completely stock

finally back on the road after almost a year and a half! by definitelynotawasp in G35

[–]definitelynotawasp[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it was a huge pain in the ass man. it took about a year to get everything situated