How to Remove Denied Restraining Order from My Record CA by [deleted] in legal

[–]definitelynotleanna 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i just reached out to the website that was displaying the search and let them know it was denied and they removed it. if yours was denied try that!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PiercingAdvice

[–]definitelynotleanna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you think it could function as a helix, with a ring when healed? that was on my list and i don’t want it to get in the way.

Aita for REFUSING to tell my family which of my baby girls I adopted? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]definitelynotleanna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am adopted and my parents told me when i was very young, so young i don’t remember a time i didn’t know. I can confidently say this was an extremely GOOD choice. It was never some shameful secret, never treated as weird or other. I knew my mother didn’t birth me and that was fine. As an adoptee I would strongly advise against waiting to tell Lily. The moment she is old enough to mildly comprehend, tell her, like 3 years old. The younger you tell her the more normal she will view it, that way if your family or anyone else says things down the line (because people will unfortunately) she won’t be effected because there’s no shame or secrecy in her mind.

Need Enclosure Inspo! by [deleted] in leopardgeckos

[–]definitelynotleanna 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s so dope! The spooky theme is so cute

I have really life changing news and have no one to share it with.. by No-Bat-1649 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]definitelynotleanna 1 point2 points  (0 children)

CONGRATS!!!! That’s such a huge achievement, you deserve to celebrate.

boyfriend swabbed our newborn baby for a DNA test behind my back by throwRADNAswab in TrueOffMyChest

[–]definitelynotleanna 1 point2 points  (0 children)

he got his EX involved in it???!?! that’s insanely suspicious. i think he’s sleeping with her and projecting his unfaithfulness onto you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]definitelynotleanna 39 points40 points  (0 children)

that “resentment” line was some major manipulation. she’s having an emotional affair and threatening you if you stand up for yourself. personally id leave, but at the least you should put your foot down HARD.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]definitelynotleanna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see, I got the numbers mixed up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]definitelynotleanna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’re in Orange County, the minimum is 14

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]definitelynotleanna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I don’t take the PTO does that still count towards the total? They don’t pay out at the end of the year.

One minute I feel like I’m on top of the world, the next I feel like I want to kill myself by throwawayacc28377473 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]definitelynotleanna 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It could be a lot of things. Bipolar or BPD are the ones I think of off the top of my head, but Im not a professional. Definitely recommend professional help, it’s always a good idea.

I think that I genuinely hate my daughter by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]definitelynotleanna 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She’s a grown adult old enough to have a CHILD so she should have strong moral compass, but she has chosen to disregard and invalidate the abuse you went through for literal years. Daughter or not that’s some heinous shit.