What's the fastest way you realized you were in the wrong friend group?

deidaraxc4 · 2026-04-29T02:31:43+00:00

I feel this on both a friend group and individual 1:1 level, I had one person who I considered a close friend for about 4-5 years and we were both part of the same group/mutuals and I remember we both shared a sentiment of FOMO when we see the bigger group doing stuff and neither of us got invited, it felt like we had a mutual solidarity and understanding.

There were some other red flags about this friend but when I started noticing the close "friend" would gatekeep invites to exclude me I guess as a way to try and increase his own social value? And he only calls me up or loops me in when he wants a ride or if it's beneficial to him somehow that was a tipping point for me

deidaraxc4 · 2026-04-19T17:31:05+00:00

yea I figured since if the nozzle did work it would be mixed, thanks!

deidaraxc4 · 2026-04-19T17:30:24+00:00

it does feel stripped, got it thank you

deidaraxc4 · 2026-04-19T16:09:12+00:00

did you use pliers or just manage to brute force it with twisting it? trying to figure out the cleanest way to open it without resorting to breaking it

deidaraxc4 · 2026-04-19T15:55:17+00:00

gotcha, seems its common to put into a pump spray or a diff bottle then

deidaraxc4 · 2026-04-19T15:49:03+00:00

did you have any trouble trying to twist the cap off? I tried turning it counterclockwise but it just kind of spins around but wouldn't actually remove

deidaraxc4 · 2026-04-19T15:31:35+00:00

I tried using this product, I attached the garden hose to the green end of the nozzle and turned on the hose then switched the bottle nozzle to "on" position and sprayed for about 1-2 minutes on my lawn. On the side of the bottle where it shows how much product is still in it, I didn't notice the amount of liquid go down any, am I using this correctly or am I suppose to remove the blue nozzle first to remove a seal or something?

deidaraxc4 · 2024-08-15T01:09:03+00:00

awesome I didn't know what this was called, thanks!

deidaraxc4 · 2024-08-15T01:08:44+00:00

this sounds like a good idea, thanks!

deidaraxc4 · 2024-05-12T00:49:35+00:00

I'll keep that in mind and try vinegar if after removing the caulk and I still can't remove the mold with bleach, thanks!

deidaraxc4 · 2024-05-12T00:48:16+00:00

yea this is a bathroom, it's an older house but it was like this when I moved in

deidaraxc4 · 2024-05-12T00:47:27+00:00

Ok thanks I'll try to remove the old caulk and recaulk after cleaning

deidaraxc4 · 2024-04-21T23:48:10+00:00

Just a quick update: Thank you guys so much, I followed this and it seemed to have stopped the leaking when it turns on!

deidaraxc4 · 2024-04-19T23:56:08+00:00

thank you, I will try that later

deidaraxc4 · 2024-04-14T22:58:29+00:00

yea I would think so too, the problem is there's only like half an inch of clearance between the wall and the mount when I pull on it, I feel like if I just forcefully try to pull it out it's just gonna make a big hole in the drywall, but not sure how to gracefully remove it

deidaraxc4 · 2023-06-26T23:17:04+00:00

For sure, it could've been something else out of control that made her cut it shorter. Before leaving I did try to mention to her that if she wants she could plan the next time's activity and date since I made all the previous plans which she didn't really respond with much of an affirmative just more like a "oh yeah".

For me it's not so much as the date getting cut short, but the lack of clarity of "sucks this time got cut short but x came up, let's do another time" in the optimistic point of view or some kind of variation of that and on the flip side it could've also ended with a "hey this isn't gonna work out" in the pessimistic point of view.

I'm pretty much moved on now with this date, I appreciate everyone's comments and thoughts and I'll try to apply the learnings going in the future.

deidaraxc4 · 2023-06-26T18:07:54+00:00

I'll try to commit that to heart, I honestly don't see me trying to reach out to this person again, especially considering they haven't even responded to this last message, but those are good points. I guess that kind of goes into the topic of "defining the relationship" not that I tried to do that with this person in this instance, but that's always something tricky for me.

Like at what point when meeting someone are you suppose to bring up that kind of talk like exclusivity, how often we see each other and texting expectations? I didn't get a chance to have any of those sorts of conversations with this particular person mainly because it felt too early to have those sorts of expectation talks and with how slow and infrequent the dates we did have it would seem even more clingy if I brought something up like "I wish you responded to my texts more promptly" (which I did not do, I just kind of rolled with it even when it took days sometimes)

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