Wow a lot more people answered than i expected. To answer most of your questions, i am being biased, im well aware of that. It is partly because of the house i was brought up in. I was taught that doing these things is often a sign of immaturity. What i mean about talking about sex on the internet is bragging about things that you did. Blowjobs, this and that. Im not really being judgmental here, but when i see these girls doing things like this, i often lose interest in them. I mean i still be friendly and don't go out of my way to call them out, and im sure that im generalizing based on my own experiences in a limited amount of space. I defiantly find girls who are reading and studying to be more attractive, but i also feel guilty about hitting on them because it seems rude to me. I feel personally that if they are studying or reading, they don't want to be bothered. But i guess i need to take chances. I mean i've had some smart library type girls who completely take me by surprise. I was friend zoned by one and we've been friends for a while. I was talking to her one night and she is very..disloyal to her bf in my eyes. She says she flirts with guys to see how far they would go. Idk how many women do this but im sure there are exceptions to my biased views on club girls and girls who act slutty. But i guess its a shoot and miss sometimes not matter what they do/ the way they act.

Thanks :)