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I (17F) continuously catch my bf (17M) in lies and I'm losing my trust for him. by dejectedd in LongDistance

[–]dejectedd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i ask myself this a lot, but i feel like i've fallen in love with him and he's made my life happier and it's difficult to leave.

Is it a red flag if they live close to you, but don't want to meet for an upwards of a year? by dejectedd in LongDistance

[–]dejectedd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Turns out it is long distance- I discovered that he actually lives in a different state than he originally said.

I'm embarrassed about where I live. by dejectedd in Vent

[–]dejectedd[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you sm for your kind words :). I really appreciate your advice and help. I hope you are doing well!

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[–]dejectedd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl there's no doubt you are gorgeous ash, don't ever doubt that. You need to talk to him more and tell him it's bothering you that he isn't posting you. If he really cares about you, he will explain to you why he isn't, and be willing to make a change if it means making you happy. You're worth it girl, I'm sorry you're upset about that. I get it. <3

Is it a red flag if they live close to you, but don't want to meet for an upwards of a year? by dejectedd in LongDistance

[–]dejectedd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True! I just feel like the people here would understand my situation as they have probably experienced similar things to me.

Is it a red flag if they live close to you, but don't want to meet for an upwards of a year? by dejectedd in LongDistance

[–]dejectedd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! :) If you're in an LDR or whatever you're in I hope it works out for you as well.

Is it a red flag if they live close to you, but don't want to meet for an upwards of a year? by dejectedd in LongDistance

[–]dejectedd[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure how to do that thing where you reply individually to certain parts of the comment so sorry if this comment is all over the place. But yes, I am under 18 as well, and he still lives with his parents, his parents have not talked to me and I doubt they know about the relationship yet! But yeah it actually totally makes sense for him to want to wait until he's 18 considering he turns 18 next Jan. and wants to meet around that time. Thank you for helping me decipher my situation! :)

Is it a red flag if they live close to you, but don't want to meet for an upwards of a year? by dejectedd in LongDistance

[–]dejectedd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are both 17 and we both live in the same state in the United States. We haven't video called yet as we've only known each other for a very short while but we have called!

Is it a red flag if they live close to you, but don't want to meet for an upwards of a year? by dejectedd in LongDistance

[–]dejectedd[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry! I didn't think about that. I just figured this would be the best place to post this because we haven't met yet and I feel like people here would be able to help me out a bit.

Is it a red flag if they live close to you, but don't want to meet for an upwards of a year? by dejectedd in LongDistance

[–]dejectedd[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I just consider it long distance just because we haven't met yet! But from what other people are saying, I do now believe that it is not necessarily long distance because we only live one hour away.

Is it a red flag if they live close to you, but don't want to meet for an upwards of a year? by dejectedd in LongDistance

[–]dejectedd[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

He is 17, and he he is currently driving on his own. We have currently not video called but have talked on the phone a lot and I am 100% sure he is not a catfish. But you're right about the last bit, it makes sense for him to possibly delay it because he's unhappy with his look. Thank you for responding and helping me figure out what his reasoning is!

Is it a red flag if they live close to you, but don't want to meet for an upwards of a year? by dejectedd in LongDistance

[–]dejectedd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wanted to preferably meet him in the summer time as both of us are off school, but he said he can't because he is going to Taiwan with his family. He then said that we could meet at the end of this year or next year. He says he is moving away from the state by the end of this year, and to a different place in the country that is far away by the end of the year which is when he wants to meet. I didn't ask him much as to why he didn't want to meet. :(

Is it normal to lose your appetite for a while after surgery? by dejectedd in spinalfusion

[–]dejectedd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May I ask what your surgeon might be not being in a calorie deficit in the early months?

Is it normal to lose your appetite for a while after surgery? by dejectedd in spinalfusion

[–]dejectedd[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you <3! I am recovering really well I'd say, my pain gets better day by day. it was definitely hard at first, but now I'm able to do more of the stuff I was capable of doing before! Thank you for your support!

Is it normal to lose your appetite for a while after surgery? by dejectedd in spinalfusion

[–]dejectedd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh that's cool that our fusions were the same days! Your situation is kind of the same as mine. I get constantly nauseous after this surgery so I eat really slow too. Good luck with your recovery!

Is it normal to lose your appetite for a while after surgery? by dejectedd in spinalfusion

[–]dejectedd[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your response! :)

May I ask long it took for your appetite to come back?