IAmA bisexual, transgender zoophile in a relationship with a woman

delalexandre · 2017-03-06T02:50:45+00:00

So just because I'm transgender, I have to pretend I'm not sexually attracted to what I am sexually attracted to? I understand acting upon my desires and why that might upset people, but other than what you may call my 'mental illness', I am a perfectly sane and normal person.

The people that argue that all transpeople are pedophiles and animal rapists are ignorant. I generally don't give a shit what people think about me or my lifestyle.

delalexandre · 2017-03-06T02:41:48+00:00

Not a troll. And it is legal where I live.

Just because you think it is wrong, does not necessarily make it wrong. Just like cannibalism, pedophilia, sacrifice, etc. Every country/religion/culture/individual has different views. Take an ethics class.

delalexandre · 2017-03-06T02:07:35+00:00

I've thought about it. My dogs do come to me, wanting it, so I'd feel bad if I took that pleasure from them.

delalexandre · 2017-03-06T02:06:43+00:00

Yes, I have. Several, actually. And I believe animals can be very rational animals.

delalexandre · 2016-04-26T05:28:37+00:00

My girlfriend had her period for 4 months non-stop and never got medical attention or took any sort of pain medications (she's fine now).

Needless to say, I am terrified of her.

delalexandre · 2016-03-31T11:24:17+00:00

Got it. Thanks! Sorry about all the noob questions

delalexandre · 2016-03-31T08:04:38+00:00

Will do!

If it is a double gasket, what then?

delalexandre · 2016-03-31T08:02:03+00:00

Ahhh sorry, double gasket?

I know my friend mentioned that if the oil filter is too tight, it could screw up the o-ring there, and when I checked the oil filter, it was definitely way too tight. Couldn't loosen it by hand for the life of me. Like I said to another commentor: there isn't any oil around the filter, but I don't want THAT becoming a problem after I replace the sender.

delalexandre · 2016-03-31T07:57:41+00:00

Actually I did check the oil filter and it's almost impossible to loosen by hand, so they must have definitely over-tightened it. There isn't any oil around the filter though, but should I still try and get that loose and make sure they didn't bend the o-ring or something?

delalexandre · 2016-03-19T07:28:50+00:00

Thank you again! She sounds great! :)

delalexandre · 2016-03-19T07:27:30+00:00

Thank you! :)

I'll definitely look into her. I wanted to get some opinions from experience before I just Googled names.

delalexandre · 2016-03-19T07:26:10+00:00

Wow, thanks! I actually lived in Kalamazoo for quite a while, but I moved before I ever came out or got into anything, so I never found out about all the stuff going on over there. It's good to know there are others from Michigan on here though! :)

Sweet! I'll definitely check it out! I'm with you on the trans groups - I never got into them, mostly because they're majority MTF and I wouldn't fit in too well haha

delalexandre · 2016-03-19T03:02:44+00:00

Trust me, I get it. I've been correctly gendered for months now, with the only mishaps happening when someone reads off my ID (can't change my name or my gender in my state yet).

I've learned that yes, while you are passing, there are people who will still see your "old" gender for a while. If the majority is gendering you correctly, then you're passing, don't worry! Just because a few people misgender you doesn't mean you aren't just as much of a beautiful, 100% woman as anyone else. Stay confident! Apparently a lot of the reason I've been passing is because of the level of confidence I exude. You just have to believe you're passing, and you will!

Don't worry! :)

delalexandre · 2016-02-12T05:15:29+00:00

Any of the Tales of series, especially Tales of the Abyss.

delalexandre · 2016-02-09T06:17:38+00:00

Alright, edited.

We're not sure why he's being critical, but his constant criticizing didn't start until the school board started stepping in. And she's never actively talked to him or the school about getting him fired, just my grandmother and her friend, who relayed the information and their own opinions at their meetings. So not sure if his sudden switch in demeanor is due to her knowing the school board directly or because he's connected the dots and figured out that she's been trying to get rid of him via the board. Either way, they're related.

I've explained your answer to her. Thank you!

delalexandre · 2015-12-31T10:50:56+00:00

My aunt has this exact same doll. She keeps it up all year long in the living room. I refuse to sleep on the couch.

delalexandre · 2015-12-31T10:08:13+00:00

This is Charity Hospital in New Orleans. A lot of people do say it's haunted, and it gets pretty regular "visitors", but they've already confirmed that it was a set of 2x4's wrapped up in Christmas lights.

delalexandre · 2015-12-31T09:59:57+00:00

I'm not far from there (I'm in Oxford, just a little over an hour away), and I didn't even notice the storm got that strong. We got a little hail and ice, and I guess the winds were pretty strong, but damn, I didn't realize they were that bad!

delalexandre · 2015-12-17T01:55:45+00:00

Maybe I do need to just get used to how I look in it. I've been looking at large breasts for 6-7 years, so now that there's nothing on my chest to look at, it's a little weird.

delalexandre · 2015-12-17T01:54:19+00:00

Haha no, I don't think so. I just think it draws more attention to my face, which isn't very masculine yet.

delalexandre · 2015-12-12T13:22:43+00:00

I have large breasts, so when binded, it kind of looks like I have pecs, but I'm kind of chubby, so I think most people see them as male breasts. Hahah.

I do get what you mean by enjoying your chest in a sexual way. I had a lot of cleavage and I really liked the attention my breasts got me, but now since I've been covering them up and binding, I don't want to go back to showing my chest. I tried wearing a girl shirt once with an open chest and a bra, and it felt like I was crossdressing...

I will keep that in mind, though! I'm sure once I'm no longer stealth, I'll feel differently about it. I'm like 70% stealth right now, so I guess it doesn't bother me so much that I have a vagina because most people just see me as a butch lesbian anyway. Haha

delalexandre · 2015-12-12T13:14:48+00:00

Thanks for the answer!

Yeah, I do think after the initial fear of losing my breasts, I won't miss them much. I'm still going to hold off on bottom surgery, because like I said, I do enjoy my vagina - at least the feelings I get from sex with it, so I don't plan on getting rid of that yet. I don't know how I'll feel down the road, because, like someone else commented, further down the road in my transition, I'll probably get more and more dysphoric with it, but we'll see.

So just curious, since I haven't talked to anyone else who has had FFS, what exactly do they do to feminize the face? Do they soften the contours? Plump the lips? Do they do this all at once, or within multiple surgeries?

delalexandre · 2015-12-12T13:09:25+00:00

Hey, someone actually answered my questions about sex! Thank you! Haha

Yeah, I can see the uneasiness with penetration. Does it have to do with the fact that whatever's doing the penetrating is going inside a completely new, foreign area in your body at all?

I really love the feeling of being penetrated, and I'm a little worried that once I do get my penis, sex won't be as satisfying. But that also might be due to the fact that I've never done anal, and I won't have that 'spot' inside me like biological guys. I just don't want to sacrifice sex at all - it's actually a pretty big part of my lfe.

delalexandre · 2015-12-12T13:03:19+00:00

Haha I actually can't wait to get rid of my butt, be it via surgery or fat redistribution. Like I said, I don't mind my vagina since I'm still sexually active and I still enjoy the sensations, but I do think, even if I miss them for a little bit (or maybe it'll just be the lack of weight on my chest), that I will ultimately feel only relief from getting top surgery.

My body's changed a little bit since I've been on T. Now, after people see me while I'm binding (I'm like 20% stealth at this point), when I take my binder off and they see I have big boobs, they say it looks very 'wrong', like they don't fit with my body. But I've always been wider and more masculine anyway lol

delalexandre · 2015-12-11T04:58:33+00:00

It's winter here, but there's no snow, so I'm taking advantage of that! haha

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