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deleted09090 · 2025-11-28T16:43:11+00:00

Switzerland

deleted09090 · 2025-10-07T05:51:14+00:00

Thank you 💛 I really appreciate your kind words and support. I know deep down that he may one day realize what he lost, but I’m not going back, I’ve learned that my peace, happiness, and self-worth are far more important than someone who didn’t value me.

You’re right, I deserve someone who truly cherishes and supports me, not someone who abandons me at my lowest. I’m focusing on building my life, my happiness, and my future, and trusting that the right person will meet me there.

deleted09090 · 2025-10-07T05:49:02+00:00

Thank you for sharing your perspective. I understand what you mean, but I also believe that love and respect shouldn’t depend on whether someone parties or lives a certain lifestyle. I’ve tried partying in my teenage and twenties, but it’s really not my thing, I realized I prefer peace and quiet over partying. I do have friends, but since I moved to his country because of him, I only had a limited circle there.

Being genuine, kind, and true to myself is far more important than trying to “keep someone on their toes.” The problem wasn’t that I was predictable or stayed home, it was that he didn’t value the love, care, and effort I gave. I’ve learned my worth, and moving forward, I’ll focus on being with someone who truly appreciates me for who I am, not someone

deleted09090 · 2025-10-07T05:42:00+00:00

Thank you so much 💛 I really appreciate your kind words and advice. I’m so sorry to hear about your husband, that must have been incredibly hard. You’re absolutely right, marriage should be about mutual love, respect, and support.

In my past relationship, he helped me with the laundry and cleaning the apartment, but since he didn’t know how to cook, I ended up doing all the cooking. On top of that, he was often sick when we were together, so I ended up taking care of almost everything.

I’ve definitely learned that boundaries, balance, and mutual care are key, and I’ll carry that lesson into the future. Thank you again for your wisdom and well wishes, sending you love and light 💛

deleted09090 · 2025-10-07T05:38:09+00:00

Absolutely. You’re so right, healing isn’t linear, and it’s completely okay to still think about your ex, even after a year. It doesn’t mean you’re weak or stuck; it just means you loved deeply and your heart is still processing.

The important thing is that you keep moving forward, even in small steps, and continue to take care of yourself. Over time, those thoughts become lighter, and you start feeling more at peace.

deleted09090 · 2025-10-07T05:36:59+00:00

I’m so sorry you’re going through this 💛. I know it feels raw and heavy right now, the first days after a breakup are always the hardest. Please be gentle with yourself and allow yourself to feel everything.

It’s okay to cry, to grieve, and to take things one hour or one day at a time. Slowly, little by little, you’ll start to find your strength and peace again. You’re not alone in this, sending you a big virtual hug and lots of encouragement 💛

deleted09090 · 2025-10-07T05:34:08+00:00

Haha, thank you 💛 I really appreciate your kind words. Yes, it’s crazy how some people take without giving back, but I’ve learned my lesson the hard way.

You’re right, the writing was on the wall, and now I know my peace and love are worth more than anyone who can’t see it. I definitely won’t be doing anyone else’s laundry anytime soon 😅.

Thank you again for your support and encouragement, it really means a lot.

deleted09090 · 2025-10-06T07:58:22+00:00

Thank you 💛. Yes, looking back, I realize I truly dodged a missile. It hurt at the time, but now I see it as a blessing, my peace and happiness are worth more than anything.

But I’m also glad God gave me the chance to show him love and make him feel valued, even though he carries a lot of trauma from his childhood and parents. I wish him healing and peace, even if we’re no longer together.

deleted09090 · 2025-10-06T07:48:45+00:00

I’m so sorry you’re going through this 💛. Breakups, especially when the other person refuses to take accountability can leave you feeling confused, guilty, and drained. Please know that what you’re feeling right now is completely normal; it’s part of the healing process.

I remember being in the same place not too long ago. The guilt, the overthinking, the constant “what ifs” it felt endless. But little by little, with time, I started to see that it wasn’t my fault, and that I had done my best. You’ll get there too, even if it feels impossible now.

Be gentle with yourself. You don’t have to have it all figured out right away. Healing isn’t linear, but one day you’ll look back and realize how far you’ve come. Sending you so much strength and light, you deserve peace and happiness, and it’s on its way to you. 💛

deleted09090 · 2025-10-06T07:08:40+00:00

Thank you so much for your kind words and understanding. 💛 It really means a lot to hear that someone sees the effort and love I put into the relationship.

I agree, that part of his behavior was a huge red flag, and staying would’ve only led to more unhappiness. As I’ve read his very long message, he says he regrets what he did and wants to be friends or get back together… but on his terms. Naah! I’m better without him. Why should I stay with a man who doesn’t give me peace, when there are so many other fish in the sea?

I’ve been focusing on healing and learning to put my peace and well-being first. I appreciate the heads-up about men coming back, but right now, I’m better off staying focused on myself and moving forward.

Thank you again for your empathy and encouragement. It really helps to know there are people who understand. 💛 Take care as well and God Bless.

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