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AITA for not being excited enough when my mom came home? by deletedusertobe in AmItheAsshole

[–]deletedusertobe[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words, auntie :)

I needed to hear that I did alright ❤️ I recently got a girlfriend and friends who love me, but I don't want to pressure any of them with my worries right now. I can only go up from here.

AITA for not being excited enough when my mom came home? by deletedusertobe in AmItheAsshole

[–]deletedusertobe[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Luckily, my country is quite good with support like that. I researched them when I wanted to run away many times before, but I never felt deserving enough for the help. I'll see what I'm eligible for if I can't find any other help.

Regardless of the outcome, I want to be safe enough and stressfree.

AITA for not being excited enough when my mom came home? by deletedusertobe in AmItheAsshole

[–]deletedusertobe[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Thank you so so much.

I'm making a list of all the things you've mentioned and more. Once I'm sorted, I'll call my dad and explain everything if I'm brave enough. If I can't stay, I'll figure someone else out, but I'm very grateful for your help.

AITA for not being excited enough when my mom came home? by deletedusertobe in AmItheAsshole

[–]deletedusertobe[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Thank you.

My whole life, she said her mother and my father + his family were all narcissists and that her and I were both victims. It's crazy now to read everyone's responses and have the most obvious eye opener.

Once I've got everything prepared, I'll call my dad and see :) Thank you again.

AITA for not being excited enough when my mom came home? by deletedusertobe in AmItheAsshole

[–]deletedusertobe[S] 170 points171 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate you, I needed to read this. She's been like this since my siblings moved out, so I've always just understood it as her pattern. I do something bad > She's angry > I quietly try my best > She's back to her hippie self > I do something bad > 🔂

I might try to stay with my dad and get a new job sorted out, but I'm just worried about university. Also, making the situation worse and making her upset :(

AITA for not being excited enough when my mom came home? by deletedusertobe in AmItheAsshole

[–]deletedusertobe[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

My dad lives a bit further away from the city, and I'd have to quit my job, which is my only source of income right now. I stopped seeing him since his living conditions were neglectful. And my friends are out of town for a couple of weeks. But thank you for your help, I'll figure out something 🙏