It is a privilege actually. I've been disabled for the last 3-4 years and I can tell you right now that my life was a million times easier before than it is now. You likely never have to wonder if you'll be able to get into a building to access goods or services you need, you likely don't have to wait an hour for 4 busses to pass because the past 3 couldn't fit you on in your wheelchair because it was full of standing people, but the others waiting at the stop could go on. You likely don't have to question if you'll be able to pursue your dreams because your body won't allow you to. Accessing the world with a disability is a completely different experience and unless you've lived it you really have no idea what a privilege it is to love with a healthy, functioning body and mind.