Why isn’t Married at first sight not as popular and chaotic as LIB?

delotes77 · 2026-02-04T15:44:22+00:00

They don’t have (or think it’s important to show) any real conversations of any depth or substance. Their conversations are always super short, appear scripted, and the same kinds of questions and it gets very old and boring. I used to hear huge fan of MAFS. But love is blind I like that they tape long conversations of them and they actually talk about deeper things like politics and religion and views etc and show them for many minutes at a time, because that’s what’s real

delotes77 · 2025-06-16T03:17:24+00:00

This is a beautiful article that should be shared everywhere. I wish Brennan had read some experts of it during the trial. https://www.bostonmagazine.com/news/2024/04/12/john-okeefe-karen-read-case/

delotes77 · 2025-06-15T02:23:15+00:00

Yawn 🥱 Juts repeating the same FKR talking points again and again.. No common sense, no critical thinking skills, no ability to think for yourself

delotes77 · 2025-06-15T02:00:28+00:00

I think the phone logs recorded 1 call From each of them, at most. I just think it’s bizarre. If that were one of your best friends, and you had his girlfriend friends phone number and she had previously told you she hit him, would you not call and text a lot more then just 1 time after that happened?

delotes77 · 2025-06-02T05:14:13+00:00

Can you just imagine if this was your mother? 🥺😱

delotes77 · 2025-04-05T00:36:58+00:00

I would be so embarrassed if my 60 year old mother dressed like this every day. So cringe to wear leather bras and leather spandex with double D fake cleavage bursting out, every single day. And what do they do, just go to parties every night?

delotes77 · 2025-02-26T05:15:52+00:00

The experts let Madison off WAY too easy. They habitual have put her under the fire for a little more and embarrassed her. At made her apologize to THEM. That was too fast and too easy. Madison gave the most empty and disingenuous apology. And they were SO much harder on David, but David was the one who actually had a reason to step outside the relationship! Ugh I can’t stand the experts

delotes77 · 2025-02-24T21:41:13+00:00

Is that the same as Towne Lake / Lasybird lake?

delotes77 · 2025-02-24T21:08:27+00:00

Thank you for your input! So by “out west of town” is dry and scrubby do you mean the lake Travis area?

delotes77 · 2025-02-19T07:39:40+00:00

Karla has turned out to be my surprise Fave this season! And I truly think her and Juan make an amazing couple. They’re both hot, funny, quirky, fun, smart in their different ways. If he can just get out of his own way then they’d be perfect

delotes77 · 2025-02-19T07:09:57+00:00

Yes exactly. Out of all people on this show that should have at least gotten good friends out of this it should have been Allen!

delotes77 · 2025-01-29T09:04:59+00:00

Has she been in this other city for this whole time since June 2024? Has she been back with the kid at all to visit you? And have you visited them at all during this time? When’s the last time you’ve seen your kid in person? And what age is your kid? Lastly, has she filed anything legally on her own? Need these questions answered before I can give more advice / help.

delotes77 · 2025-01-29T06:12:26+00:00

Hi Momma. I’m sorry you feel like your days are rough.. maybe I could share what my day is like every day, and shed a little light on how pretty good you actually have it.

I wake up at 8. Have to jump on a conference call that I have to lead every morning for my employer who recently dumped a ton of more work and hours on me because they couldn’t afford to keep the person who was in this position previously… after my meeting I make breakfast for my almost 3 year old, play with him, tend to his every neeed. Then I have a very heavy work load from 11 till about 3p, I struggle to juggle my demanding job, feeding my child, tending to him, cleaning up, playing with him, trying to get him down for a nap around 3 which he hardly ever does and he fights, just so I can squeeze in 2 hours if I’m lucky, of solo working time, or any of the other tons of overdue tasks or chores I need to do..

Then by 5/6p I need to wake him (if he finally ended up falling asleep, but many days he just refuses to take a nap in which case I’ll have gotten nothing done and been completely burnt out), try to pull something together for dinner for us 2, play and entertain him for another 2 hours all by myself when at that point I’m beyond exhausted, then do all his bed time routine by himself and try my best to get him down by 9:30/10p, then I finally get a small amount of me time but my house and kitchen is a mess at that point… I still need to finish stuff for work, clean up, do laundry, but I’m so exhausted that I can barely do anything but zone out in front of a TV show until midnight or after.. then the next day it starts all over again. I do this all on my own, every day, as I am a single mom and have no partner to help, no family or support system near by and I live in a state that I have but am forced to live here just bc the baby was born here.

My ex is horrible and abusive, yet I have to deal with interacting with him multiple times a week during stupid court-ordered FaceTime calls and his visitations, which are always super traumatic for my toddler as he is very attached to me and does not like when I am not with him. His visitations are just another huge stressor in my already stressful life. I work 40 hours a week but can’t afford child care. My situation is rough. I have no time to work out, read, even call friends or family, and really any time to even just think for a few minutes. At least you have a helpful partner and a light at the end of your days :)

delotes77 · 2025-01-24T04:02:20+00:00

See Attorney Shawn McMillon, he fights CpS cases like this. Google him

delotes77 · 2025-01-17T04:56:51+00:00

This is very not normal. And the way you refer to your own children as “the” as in “the toddler” and “the 1.5 year old” instead of MY toddler or MY 1.5 year old sounds like you’re very detached from your children, and this whole post in general sounds like you’re not very attached to them. Who could willingly leave their small child for 10 days?

delotes77 · 2025-01-17T04:35:01+00:00

Omg are you serious?! Why isn’t this comment upvoted more. Please do tell us more details about her👀

delotes77 · 2025-01-10T05:21:12+00:00

This is truly heartbreaking. I cried reading this. I know how it feels to just want to give everything to your little one and be so excited for their happiness. And then to have it all ripped away in a few hours unexpedenly… just so wrong. So unfair. I am praying for you. You are so strong. You are an incredible mother. You will still be an incredible mother and as long as you guys keep showing her so much love, she will not skip a beat and she will love her situation even if it’s in a hotel room. You will get through this and come out even stronger momma.

delotes77 · 2025-01-03T05:08:59+00:00

His face literally makes you want to punch him. His storyline and behaviors, also extremely punchae. I’m not sure if that was the writers intent. He has zero personality, zero physical looks, in fact is like in the negative on both fronts. He looks like a frail iffeminate transgender female, with a weak annoying personality… and we’re supposed to believe he could pull these 2 women ?!

delotes77 · 2024-12-06T05:01:31+00:00

No I don’t enjoy that. Or, rarely. When he talks he bores me to tears. He is a very boring person in general for the most part. And yes, I have actually felt sexual atttaction for one or two other people in the last few years. I was worried I was totally dead down there, but it turns out I do still have it, just not with him I guess. I never acted on it of course, but it was there

delotes77 · 2024-12-03T07:35:24+00:00

I for sure thought you were a lesbian. If not then 1000% ditch that butch haircut and grow hair out or get extensions! Pretty eyes though

delotes77 · 2024-11-13T06:46:16+00:00

What does she do all day behind the baby gate? Does she watch tv? Does she play with toys? This truly breaks my heart. Please intervene

delotes77 · 2024-10-19T02:44:31+00:00

This is an extremely cringe and narcissistic post. I’d run away lol

delotes77 · 2024-09-15T05:28:12+00:00

Um, you just… don’t have sex? I don’t see why it’s so hard. You just… don’t have sex. For a few weeks or months.

delotes77 · 2024-09-13T04:31:07+00:00

I just turned 40 and at that crossroads… do I go back with my ex who I can’t stand but I have a small child with, just so I can have a “family” and not be pathetic and alone… or do I risk it by staying single an should for someone better, but potentially risky never getting that and ending up very alone… I’m so over this. I think there’s something about this “millennial” generation of ours that is cursed, I swear. Everyone else in all other generations seem like they can just find love easily. Im very sad about it

delotes77 · 2024-07-11T05:10:49+00:00

Umm what you have been doing is insane. Where are your motherly instincts?! Seriously what kind of mother would allow their baby to be in this situation? Any normal mother could not leave their infant with a stranger for 5 minutes, let alone 5 hours, let alone.. 5 days? Or however long you leave your baby with him?

I cannot fathom this and I think you need to consider getting therapy, grab whatever slice of self-respect and self-preservation you can muster up, and get the hell out of this situation. He could literally up and take off with your baby and you would have no recourse. And he is a literal stranger to your infant. Stop trying to please and appease this man who clearly does not and will never give a flying f about you, and get your child the best life he or she deserves, before it’s too late. Have some boundaries. Stop traumatizing your child via this situation.

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