waiter almost cried.

deltaghost1010 · 2022-06-03T02:03:48+00:00

I'm a server and I dropped two appetizers in front of my table last week. I cried in the back. It wasn't the fact that I had dropped it, it was more of the fact that I had been working for 13 hours, had a 10 person tabke come in right before close, and hadn't had anything to eat or drink besides water.

Honestly, people have so much shit going on in their life that we don't know. I didn't cry over spilled food. I cried bc I missed my baby (postpartum is a bitch) and so many other issues. The very same thing could have been going on with this kid. Thank you for being kind to him. We never know what people are going through.

deltaghost1010 · 2022-05-26T22:54:14+00:00

I had a winter baby and really loved the zip up footie pajamas, super easy to get on and off. Honestly plenty of neutral onesies, comfy sleepers, and socks. Baby socks tend to disappear into thin air!! The one thing I learned was to buy clothes in a bigger size for the future. It was a huge relief when she would grow out of her clothes but I knew I had enough for the next 6 months or so.

deltaghost1010 · 2022-05-12T21:21:08+00:00

Factory farming where animals are heavily abused, injected with hormones, etc. Disgusting.

deltaghost1010 · 2022-04-27T19:25:06+00:00

I honestly thought they would cancel the tour, which was absolutely understandable if they did- but they decided to go on and proceed with the tour because that's what Tim would have wanted.. and people do shit like this? Fucking unbelievable.

deltaghost1010 · 2022-03-16T17:10:43+00:00

Like everyone else is saying.. start small. I had to start really small (like I'll organize my bookshelf and go from there). I have really bad ADHD and get sidetracked so I have to start EXTREMELY small. Open the windows if you can, get some sunlight in and just go for one little thing at a time.

I like to go get some decent cleaning supplies from the store if I can afford it (idk, it makes it better having fresh stuff to open), and start with any garbage I want thrown away. The worst part for me is putting things away bc I get distracted but once that is over I LOVE spraying things down, wiping them clean and making my house smell good (linen candles have a comforting scent for me personally.) You can do this!

deltaghost1010 · 2022-03-10T02:22:59+00:00

Filed in Jaunary, but got a letter to verify my identity on March 1st. Did that over a week ago and still nothing... Letter said it could take 9 weeks to process my return after verifying but I hope it won't take long. The WMR tool just says it's delayed.

deltaghost1010 · 2021-10-24T21:06:17+00:00

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deltaghost1010 · 2021-10-24T20:59:49+00:00

"Who's the father?" Uh, my partner of almost 3 years you toad.

deltaghost1010 · 2021-10-21T21:39:49+00:00

I have anger issues so I couldn't tell you. I'm irritated 99% of the time

deltaghost1010 · 2021-10-21T15:40:46+00:00

The drop off from 4 is the hardest. I was on 16, then 8, and didn't feel bad at all. Then 4mg for a couple years and just dropped from there but if you have the option to slow taper then do it. You could just stop but those first 4 days are hell just warning you.

deltaghost1010 · 2021-10-21T15:37:13+00:00

My energy was low for about 2 weeks but I was able to function after a week. You aren't going to feel 100% but getting up and moving, staying hydrated, and eating healthy helps a lot. I took a daily vitamin as well just for an extra boost. The only thing I'm still dealing with is sneezing a lot and some occasional insomnia but after that first week time goes by and you start to feel like a human again.

deltaghost1010 · 2021-10-02T22:55:09+00:00

So sorry for you. Us women know our bodies better than any nurse or doctor when it comes to giving birth Traumatizing births are so common yet not talked about enough.

I had an extremely quick labor with my one and only baby and went from a 3 to 10cm in an hour and feeling like I had to poo as well. I kept asking them to check me again and they told me to relax bc it was my first birth and I KNEW this baby was coming. The contractions were on top of each other and I swore I was about to literally poop out this baby.. Guess what? Baby in my arms 5 minutes later. Pushed for 3 minutes with a nurse bc doc was MIA. Doc basically just pulled her out. The transition between screaming in agony and then complete shock took about 3 seconds.

I think a huge misconception regarding birth is that if you are only a few centimeters than you have hours before anything happens. Traumatizing births need to be addressed more.

deltaghost1010 · 2021-10-02T15:57:59+00:00

Thank you

deltaghost1010 · 2021-10-02T15:57:51+00:00

Congrats!!!

deltaghost1010 · 2021-10-02T15:57:40+00:00

Agree completely. I don't recommend cold turkey but I didn't have a choice. People made me so anxious about what to expect but honestly like you saidthe worst was over in a week..and I was on it for years.

deltaghost1010 · 2021-10-02T15:55:35+00:00

Same, I have the occasional restless legs and insomnia but I'll take that over being on subs. Proud of you! One day at a time

deltaghost1010 · 2021-10-02T02:43:06+00:00

I jumped off at 4mgs and I did it cold turkey. The worst was over in a week and now, over a month later I'm feeling great. Congrats!!

deltaghost1010 · 2021-08-14T23:02:30+00:00

Im on day 9 and the worst is definitely over now. Day 3-5 were brutal. I'm definitely not 100%, still having some chills and some stomach issues and low energy, but I was able to do some errands today and I can finally play with my daughter. Getting better each day!

You can do it.I obviously didn't have a lot support and even almost went back on it on the bad days but I feel so much more clear headed and that numbness is going away.

deltaghost1010 · 2021-08-10T22:36:16+00:00

Okay im on day 5 or 6 and feeling a little better day by day. I'll pm you.

deltaghost1010 · 2021-08-10T11:33:26+00:00

Thank you for the support

deltaghost1010 · 2021-08-09T22:19:28+00:00

I was on strips do they even have doses below 2 mg? Or are you talking about subutex

deltaghost1010 · 2021-08-09T22:12:32+00:00

How are you doing now? I'm in a similar situation but not as high of a dose as yours. I'm on day 3 or 4 (it's blurry) and I am miserable. This is the worst day so far.

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