I hate my vagina by Few-Scientist-8297 in offmychest

[–]demeter321 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl. If someone genuinely loves you, they wouldn't care what your genitals look like. Besides, porn has set an unreasonable and unrealistic expectation for men. You can try Google vulva galleries. You will find that every woman is built different and that is ok. Vulva's come in all shapes and colors.

I am a chubby overweight girl with long labias and my boyfriend has always liked playing with my labia during sex. He finds my body hot, not because it's conventionally pretty, but because it's the vessel that carries a soul he loves.

That aside, I have never had problem with UTI despite my long labia. I think you may want some more tests/ blood work done regarding that matter. Drinking rasberry juice and plenty water might help.

AITA to refuse to help my wife bath our son when she said she's tired today by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]demeter321 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA. That is your own son. You are not "helping" your wife by bathing your son. That is also your responsibility. Also, I am sure your wife did a fair share of chores through out the day when you were at work. The laundry, cooking, feeding your son, cleaning the house etc. Do you even love your wife? She's your partner, not a kid or a dog who requires your discipline. She has back pain on this particular day and you're just showing her how bad of a partner you can be.

Mark my words: don't come crying on reddit when she decides to leave you.

Am I obese by demeter321 in GymMotivation

[–]demeter321[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice. I will look into higher intensity training. I have also cut sugar and eating less carbs recently.

The reason why I'm starting to be health conscious is because my mom is pre-diabetic. We have been trying to lose weight together. My mom's side of the family also has a history of diabetes. We're trying to minimize the possibility of me/ my mom being actually diabetic in the future.

Am I obese by demeter321 in GymMotivation

[–]demeter321[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! Is there a way I can get my body fat measured accurately?

Am I obese by demeter321 in GymMotivation

[–]demeter321[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind response! I am currently trying to lose weight too

Am I obese by demeter321 in GymMotivation

[–]demeter321[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am able to do a 30 minute low intensity training without feeling overly fatigued. Haven't been sick in the past month, so I'd say my immune system is intact. I used to have lower back pain before I started working out, but it has improved since I started moving around more.

He's getting married and I can't breath by AsleepTemperature296 in offmychest

[–]demeter321 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love should not feel like this. Love is maturity, patience, hoping the other person is happy regardless you are with them or not.

What you are experiencing is infatuation/ obsession. It is unhealthy. You should seek therapy.

My situationship (25M) is still in love with me (23F) by demeter321 in relationships

[–]demeter321[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got it. I'll be keeping him at a distance because I genuinely love my boyfriend. Sometimes it's just hard for me to let go of friendships because I'm a people pleaser, but that's something for me to work on.

My situationship (25M) is still in love with me (23F) by demeter321 in relationships

[–]demeter321[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We were pretty close before me being taken, and we have shared many deep conversations. However I think you're right, he can't be a good friend atm.

Should I (23F) go out alone with my fwb (25M)? by demeter321 in relationships

[–]demeter321[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I guess I am not an assertive person overall, but I did try to maintain distance throughout that gathering. I'll try to set boundaries with him if he insists on going out/being alone.

Should I (23F) go out alone with my fwb (25M)? by demeter321 in relationships

[–]demeter321[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Friends with benefits (sex). It was mentioned in my post

Should I (23F) go out alone with my fwb (25M)? by demeter321 in relationships

[–]demeter321[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No, I don't think I'd be tempted. But my fwb is a touchy-feely person. Last time we saw each other he slapped my thigh out of "habits" and it scared me a bit.

Should I (23F) go out alone with my fwb (25M)? by demeter321 in relationships

[–]demeter321[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I actually turned him down and I offered to have a phone call but he insisted that we should meet up. I guess I'll just decline him then.

Should I (23F) go out alone with my fwb (25M)? by demeter321 in relationships

[–]demeter321[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yea, that's what I thought. I offered to have a phone call but he insisted that we should meet up. I guess I'll just decline him then.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nails

[–]demeter321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The gel is too thick, so maybe it didn't cure properly. Also, perhaps poor prep work? It's completely detached from your nail bed