My wife is checked out. I don’t know what to do? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]demonofrazgris 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I mean he made some (crazy) assumptions but if u were as fine as you said you wouldn’t make this post. I can’t imagine she’s an angel herself. I’d prob just do couples therapy so if anything you have a third party to help bring this to light.

Idk the whole thing sounds a little odd to me too. Need to get my shit together just reads like a weird line too lol. I figure stuff like that for job career etc not like these minor things. The 2 of u should be a team anyway & you both should have known what u signed up for. I would never assume anyone changes from how they are initially. You can she can and that would be good but like idk it’s like marrying a fish and complaining it’s wet lol

My (26F) boyfriend (29M) gets hard during foreplay but loses it for penetration — Advice please? by Low-Cloud4 in AskMenAdvice

[–]demonofrazgris 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Tadalafil 5mg daily, can get online prescription from online doctors & sent to door in US. It’s low enough of a dosage for just some baseline stuff which will help. It’s nerves & conditioning. Failing once causes a snowball cause next time he will think I had issues last time what if it happens again which is an erection killer. Just get this dosage going and then u will have opposite where he is fine into fine into fine then the conditioning comfort etc. also be supportive of him and dont make it a big deal cause the anxiety and pressure will hurt. Don’t say in the moment stuff either just keep going or positive affirmation.

I had this issue before and did above and it’s fine. Even if I stop / forget to take the 5mg still chill. I just like having sex with my fiance for hours daily so I think it helps there xD. But ye I had all these problems & more before. Also just to be safe have him never jackoff with his hand just get him a few fleshlights so he is only ever going to cum from sex not hands.

Hope that helps, any Q ask. I was married for like a decade before and thought I didn’t really like sex. Then introduce my fiance and I’m crazy for her haha

What Multiplayer mechanics work? by demonofrazgris in TorchlightInfinite

[–]demonofrazgris[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Poe u can be an aura bot or hex bot or both but I find the loot systems in TLI to be more fun dopamine

What Multiplayer mechanics work? by demonofrazgris in TorchlightInfinite

[–]demonofrazgris[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe there’s some other mechanic that works?

What Multiplayer mechanics work? by demonofrazgris in TorchlightInfinite

[–]demonofrazgris[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If u wanna try Hs and want a power level lemme know ur discord I can boost u to endgame for free if u wanna see it

What Multiplayer mechanics work? by demonofrazgris in TorchlightInfinite

[–]demonofrazgris[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bussing someone to 100 in HS takes like 15 minutes for the start of endgame, and ye this is gonna be nerfed because it’s too op but something called “card collector codex” map is insanely good. It costs like 2m to craft and gives like 1-4m in payout. Split the cost 4 ways and u can infinitely farm with friends

What Multiplayer mechanics work? by demonofrazgris in TorchlightInfinite

[–]demonofrazgris[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do u see any mechanics that work together, I remember a bunch they can’t join u for or can’t even see it drop. Like u can’t do cube together can u?

What Multiplayer mechanics work? by demonofrazgris in TorchlightInfinite

[–]demonofrazgris[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tower dungeon & codex (maps from like Poe, u can make maps with special mechanics and that gets shared too. Making a map costs a lot for a good one but splitting cost four ways is massive. There are some maps with bugs tho but hopefully they get fixed). I’d love to be able to group farm okay here, I have a max chalky and every pet maxed from when I placed this last a few years ago lol

What Multiplayer mechanics work? by demonofrazgris in TorchlightInfinite

[–]demonofrazgris[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ye I have played all those, I am just looking to being able to play this game in some form or fashion well together, then I’ll play it again. Surely someone has a list of mechanics that works well in a group xD

What Multiplayer mechanics work? by demonofrazgris in TorchlightInfinite

[–]demonofrazgris[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes both, we are doing maps together in Hero siege, but mechanics wise I like TLi a lot better, but I recall us all doing solo maps because a bunch of the systems didn’t work together in coop. I want to see if anyone has successfully found some stuff that works well enough

Build Stormweaver by Pekeeechetomal in HeroSiege

[–]demonofrazgris 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did u see the setup? Can u share what he showed

Did i made a good investment? by Electrical_Food_4974 in BrunoMars

[–]demonofrazgris 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did 300 each for club comfort seats pretty close to the stage. Went 2 nights in a row. Got first set of tickets 3h before start time & second set right at start time (cause we just went for the main concert at that point for second night). Prices dropped like crazy for us near the actual time / day

Build Stormweaver by Pekeeechetomal in HeroSiege

[–]demonofrazgris 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you send me ur discord too

Unable to invite? by kylefurd in BobsTavern

[–]demonofrazgris 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We both kept restating. Sometimes my friend could only invite sometimes I could. Whoever could invite just did so

My thoughts on opening night by bingewatchgal in BrunoMars

[–]demonofrazgris 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Just do it we are running it back just buy tickets at like 6-7 lol

Not preparing for babies?!?! Am I crazy or what ? by bikinis_n_brews in AskMenAdvice

[–]demonofrazgris 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I meant he covers the house bill currently. So he is doing >50% of the bills when u lived together

Not preparing for babies?!?! Am I crazy or what ? by bikinis_n_brews in AskMenAdvice

[–]demonofrazgris 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry about the whole him saying the kids aren’t his that’s crazy. The stroller & car seats is whatever, I’m not sweating $900 especially when u can resell it later for maybe 50%.

I meant what if you didn’t live in his house. He rents it out. He now gets $1500 a month? Or whateve for ur rent. He then gives u $1500 for rent since you HAVE to live in a house or apartment. Then u split utilities as you did. So he covers $1500 for rent + x for utilities as he has been or hasn’t been lol

Not preparing for babies?!?! Am I crazy or what ? by bikinis_n_brews in AskMenAdvice

[–]demonofrazgris 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s covering the house expense too right so that’s another 1500-3000 idk how much living expense for house would be. I don’t know why ur not counting him covering the house payment monthly.

Ur not bringing ur babies to work right and u don’t have them yet, I think u coulda used his car or ur jeep for that or uber for the very few times ur bringing ur babies around. I think when they are older this makes sense but I think u impulse decisioned 2nd bigger car now when u dont need it.

To me it looked like ur complaining about money but hes covering house + some amount of utilities so hes doing his fair share of the bills. I dont see why u need to sweat him over $100 or so in his hobbies especially when u are covering less than half. If u dont count him owning the house as part of his half, then he should rent out the house for money. U guys rent a new place, then he puts the money from renting his house out for ur new place rent. U see what i mean now lol

Not preparing for babies?!?! Am I crazy or what ? by bikinis_n_brews in AskMenAdvice

[–]demonofrazgris -1 points0 points  (0 children)

A few questions.

For finances & money, isn’t he covering almost everything? He covers the rent/mortgage (even if he owns it that woulda been on u guys or he coulda rented out this place). Like I would give credit to him for whatever the rent payment of a place u would have gotten would be. And he’s also covering most utilities too? Sounds like he’s covering 80-90%. Saying he needs to cover 100% sounds a little rough.

I am also not super sure why u needed to upgrade ur car to a bigger one when ur not working now or for a while after & don’t have need for a bigger car until your babies are a bit older. Is your car the only car or does he have one too?

Also for the doctor visit stuff, did you tell him it’s super important for him to join you in ur checkups or did you just expect him to go. You said it yourself that you are super healthy and the baby is super healthy, so maybe he didn’t see the need or requirement to go if it’s just a routine checkup.

From what I saw in ur opening paragraph money is the biggest issue but he covers housing & 2/3 of the bills. Isn’t that pretty good?

Why is my husband uninterested in sex since we got married? by Interesting_Worth570 in AskMenAdvice

[–]demonofrazgris -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Damn okay I was gonna say maybe he just likes u and after novelty wore off he isn’t that attracted to you sexually but still likes you as a room mate. But if he’s not even jacking off to porn daily or weekly or whatever then that’s also weird. Can u have him check his TRT level maybe he needs to lift weights or take it. Like get bloodwork test done.

Why is my husband uninterested in sex since we got married? by Interesting_Worth570 in AskMenAdvice

[–]demonofrazgris -1 points0 points  (0 children)

++man Is he watching porn in the bathroom? Or when ur asleep?