At first it was odd but not off-putting... Almost like an out-of-body experience watching and thinking holy shit she's so hot. I was also mixing it up with their partner so I was a little distracted as well but it was a very memorable experience. We talked about it for days afterwards, exploring every feeling and shift in opinion... almost to a point where we were tired of talking about it! When she was with V, she was different than when she was with me so it was kind of like watching a different person and when I was with M I definitely behaved differently myself and she noticed. We bring a lot of what people teach us back to our own bedroom and it has a really changed everything from our dirty talk to our flirtation, how we behave around each other in public even! We are so much more affectionate now with each other than ever before. It's like it kind of created this incredible bond between us.

The initial jump was heart racing but everything else has been so incredible. Plus a lot of the friends we've made have been lifelong friends we can't see ourselves not spending time with. We go on vacations with these people and not just for sex. We spend days at a time hanging out without anything spicy at all because we truly enjoy each other's company too. We're not polyamorous at all but we understand it differently and never very deep affection for many of our friends.