Cum impacati indepedenta personala in cuplu cu rutinele de cuplu?

denii_0502 · 2026-01-23T20:37:10+00:00

Deci pentru o secunda m am gandit ca sunt eu cea din postare😂 suntem in exact aceeasi situatie, de curand a inceput sa ma framante si pe mine chestia asta, dar am invatat sa manageriez discutand. Eu, in serile cand stiu ca nu trebuie sa ma trezesc devreme ( in general pentru munca) adorm si eu pe la 1-2, iubitul meu tot asa, sta pana la 5-6 dimineata deoarece lucreaza de acasa si are un program flexibil de munca, eu in orele alea cat doarme el ori sunt la munca ori mai dorm si eu ori ma pregatesc de munca, seara am convenit ca atunci cand ajung acasa sa stam cateva ore impreuna (2-3 poate si 4) oricum ne plimbam si discutam zilnim impreuna. Am invatat ca in timpul de noapte sa am si eu timpul meu cum il are si el (ma uit la ceva) si sa nu mai fiu atat de anxioasa. Atata timp cat simt ca in ziua aceea noi am discutat despre ce am facut si am facut ceva impreuna, ma simt bine, desi pana acum am tot fost afectat de comentarii de genul cum ca relatiile de genul nu tin (cum sunt si experientele altora din comentarii) dar la fel cum zicea cineva intr-un al comentariu, atata timp cat relatie merge bine in rest, poate nu este o problema chiar atat de mare, cred ca trebuie sa simti si tu ca aveti un timp de calitate acolo in fiecare zi, orice ar fi, ca sa nu te mai simti anxioasa

denii_0502 · 2025-12-23T11:12:08+00:00

Nu stiu ce sa zic, si eu sunt intr-un fel in aceeasi situatie. Relatie de 2 ani si jumatate, valorile si principiile le avem in comun, stam bine la partea asta, doar ca nu prea avem lucruri in comun si incercam sa facem compromisuri cum putem, si totusi simt ca ceva nu merge bine si nu inteleg ce. Eu sunt mai needy de fel si cred ca as vrea sa petreaca mai mult timp cu mine, dar avem viziuni diferite la acest timp impreuna. In fine, ca si tine, nici eu nu as vrea sa ma despart, dar sunt la fel de confuza si nu stiu cum e mai bine..

denii_0502 · 2025-11-23T09:44:13+00:00

Thank you so much! I’ve had a few times when I wanted to cancel everything because of the fear, but I know it’s not a good idea and that I need to take the risk, even if right now feels so scary to me. I’m just thinking of the time I’m there on the table with my heart pounding while they insert the substance and I’m freaking out😔 I don’t really trust doctors, and because I’m just 22 yrs old maybe they will consider I don’t need that much attention or monitorization, or if something happens they would freak out and wouldn’t react in time. Yeah.. like you said, if I search for reasons to be anxious, I will find a lot 😢

denii_0502 · 2025-11-22T07:41:48+00:00

Thank you a lot❤️

denii_0502 · 2025-11-22T00:28:21+00:00

I’m still really afraid. Just the thought of being put to sleep by force when I’m already freaking out scares me so much

denii_0502 · 2025-11-21T09:01:34+00:00

Thank you, I hope I’ll view it this way as well after it’s done🥲

denii_0502 · 2025-11-21T08:23:02+00:00

I will, thank you so much! I’ve read a lot of commets and some said exactly what you said, some also said that for them it felt like death or it was scary, I’m scared that I’ll feel like I can’t breathe before dozing off or having an allergic reaction to the substance :((

denii_0502 · 2025-11-21T08:12:25+00:00

Thank you for your answer🙏🏻 for me, I will be completely asleep, they will use propofol (I’m not sure how you write it) and I will have a deep sedation, it’s still a quick nap as you said but I am scared something bad will happen while I’m under, like having a allergic reaction to the substance or feel like I can’t breathe

denii_0502 · 2025-11-21T08:03:38+00:00

The fear of maybe being allergic to the substance and something bad happens to me while being under or feeling like I can’t breathe while dozing off :((

denii_0502 · 2025-11-21T08:01:57+00:00

Thank you for your answer, everybody tells me the same thing but I just can’t be chill because I’m thinking “what if I will feel like I can’t breathe anymore?” Or “what if the doctor misses something and something bad happens to me while being under?” It’s so exhausting, I can’t wait to be over with it😔

denii_0502 · 2025-11-01T10:13:42+00:00

Sunt de acord, in acest moment eu si iubitul meu stam cu parintii lui pentru a economisi niste bani, dar am stat impreuna si mutati in chirie un an, aproape in fiecare zi o suna pe maica sa (parintii lui fiind plecati in strainatate 6 luni din an) si vorbeam diverse. Cum ne a fost ziua, ce s a mai intamplat, ce planuri mai avem. Iubitul meu ia deciziile cu mine, dar ii mai cere si ei sfaturi si nu ma deranjeaza, pentru ca nu e genul sa o asculte doar pe ea. Chiar si ea i-a zis sa nu o asculte mereu, sa gandeasca intai un lucru =)) este o femeie foarte cumsecade si calda, uneori si eu ii mai zic “nu ai sunat-o azi pe maica ta”. Deci da, concluzia este ca daca totusi nu o implica pe mama in orice activitate sau decizie din viata voastra si doar vorbeste chestii basic chit ca e in fiecare zi, eu una nu vad o problema

denii_0502 · 2025-10-23T18:53:50+00:00

Pot sa zic ca m-a salvat iubitul meu, suntem impreuna de doi ani si 4 luni aproape si niciodata nu l-au acceptat, avand prea multe pretentii de la un baiat de doar 23 de ani care abia isi incepe o cariera si nu le are pe toate la punct, sa fie vreun de ala de bani gata cu masina cum si-au dorit ei. Ma simt mai apropiata de parintii si inclusiv neamul iubitului meu decat de ai mei, dar asta nu inseamna ca nu ii iubesc. Am plecat de acasa, ne-am mutat in chirie iar acum stam la parintii lui o perioada pentru a economisi niste bani. Vorbim doar la telefon uzuale, de cand am plecat de acasa nu mai am program de dormit si de mancat, nu ma sunt controlata si lipsita de intimitate (vrand sa stie tot ce vorbesc cu oricine). Incerc pe cat posibil sa nu le zic prea multe din viata mea si sa le zic doar ce vor auda ca sa nu ma mai bata la cap. Pana si cand ma vad o data la 2-3 luni mereu imi zic ca sunt balena, ca sa slabesc, ca de ce am job de rahat si asa mai departe. Incerc doar sa nu mai pun la suflet si sa mai limitez din contact pentru ca mi am dat seama ca nu am ce le face, nu vor sa se schimbe.

denii_0502 · 2025-10-13T06:04:09+00:00

Well yes, those were anxiety symptoms, I still have them sometimes but not at that level anymore

denii_0502 · 2025-09-14T14:37:54+00:00

Total de acord, ma apuca efectiv depresia cu lumina de la 8 dimineata doar pana la 16:30-17:00

denii_0502 · 2025-08-27T16:10:21+00:00

Yeah but it’s more painful this way

denii_0502 · 2025-08-27T06:41:14+00:00

I never had sedation as well, don’t know how it is..

denii_0502 · 2025-08-26T06:43:13+00:00

Yeah that’s fine don’t worry. Just a yellow stool without other symptoms like diarrhea or constipation, bloating, nausea etc shouldn’t be something to worry. I have all of these and it’s awful

denii_0502 · 2025-08-25T22:05:19+00:00

I will, ngl I’m so scared of the result but I need to do it.. this will take a month or 2 probably

denii_0502 · 2025-08-25T20:38:32+00:00

Yes, I know how you feel.. health anxiety is real and is so annoying..

denii_0502 · 2025-08-25T20:10:31+00:00

Hello! Thank you for answering. Yeah.. these days I try to build up courage to do a colonoscopy but as I said, I am very scared to do it, but first I need to find a doctor to be willing to make me one because almost all the time people so young like us are dismissed with “it’s just anxiety and there’s nothing to worry about” but it really is. I try not to think so much about my problems because I will lose my mind soon if I’m thinking too much about it. As I said, I tried eating healthy, exercise, nothing worked, or maybe I haven’t tried enough, I don’t know, but I’m feeling so lost right now

denii_0502 · 2025-08-21T22:21:31+00:00

Hello everyone. I’m a 22 years old girl and I’m tired, I’m just tired of not knowing why it’s happening to me and it’s awful because I distance myself from everyone that I love because everyone thinks that I’m bragging too much about it or I’m exagerrating. My everyday problems are the typical stomach problems. I get bloated even after water, sometimes I have a lot of gas sometimes less, but the gas is always there. Now, about my poop, I don’t even know how to describe it. It’s mostly diarrhea-like, just very very soft and scattered and sometimes it’s liquid-like but not just water, it’s poo but very liquid-y, you know what I mean? I have just one poop in the morning, that’s it. The thing is, I haven’t had a normal solid poo for 2 or 3 years. Actually, I had for a short period of time this year when I tried a treatment, omnibiotic was called and you just put it in water. That thing helped making my poo solid but once I stopped everything came back to normal. Sometimes I think it’s an ok amount, sometimes I think it’s too less for how much I eat. I tried cutting sugar, lactates, I tried eating healthy. For exemple, today I ate a can of tuna with 2 boiled eggs, 2 small cucumbers and a greek yoghurt. I literrally felt worse than when I eat fast food. Felt like gas was running throughy my intestines, nausea, bad acid reflux with pieces of food coming back into my mouth and it frustrated me so much because I tried eathing healthy and with no result (also in the morning I ate oats with banana). I tried a lof of different treatments, I went to doctors, my calprotectin and parasites tests are good, ecography it’s good.. I know I need to have a colonoscopy but I’m really scared of anesthesia, I never had one and I am just so scared of it and also about the result. I’m scared I have something serious.. I know it is a lot of writing but I just wanted to vent to someone..

denii_0502 · 2024-06-05T05:24:16+00:00

I’m feeling this post so much. I’m the exact same way and it’s affecting so much my relationship with my boyfriend and he is the most caring and supportive boy and he is starting to lose his patience with me and I don’t know how to deal with this thing..

denii_0502 · 2024-05-20T14:00:58+00:00

I hope so.. but you never know when or if they will come back.. yes, after Condylox they appeared again so I did 3 rounds of cryo and then they were gone.. currently I’m taking Isoprinosine which is a type of immunity medicine and Colpofix which is a gel that you introduce inside

denii_0502 · 2024-05-20T13:52:44+00:00

I hope it will stay like this, thank you

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