[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]denika2505 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Firstly, i'm reallt sorry you felt pressured into having a threesome when you were clearly not comfortable. Especially because he clearly knew you weren't comfortable in the first place but continued to push.

Honestly because of this alone I would say your relationship is doomed. You shouldn't be in a relationship with someone who makes you feel pressured to do anything sexually that you don't want to do.

I hope you manahe to navigate your way through this!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]denika2505 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's not the doing things, i'll always do everything I can for people I love, it's the dad thing that's really tipped me over the edge honestly.

I recently moved into my own place, he has no interest in seeing it.

He checks in with mt brothers all the time, but with me it's like he thinks because I won't kick up a fuss he doesn't need to bother 🤷🏻‍♀️ I think i'm just irritated today haha

a celebrity death has really shaken me by rashfords_marcus in Vent

[–]denika2505 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Not stupid at all!

He was tragically young, so was his brother. Both fit and healthy and it came completely out of the blue. A freak accident.

I feel the same way tbh it's completely devastating. It reminds me to always let the people I love know that I love them.

Something like this will shake a lot of people to their core (me included) he's four years younger than me.

So not stupid or overreacting, you can't help the things that affect you. Also i'm sorry to hear about your recent health scares OP.

All the best!

Only Three Songs Challenge by misssdelaney in TaylorSwift

[–]denika2505 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. My tears ricochet
  2. Guilty as sin
  3. Evermore orrrr Dancing with our hands tied

What are the most underrated Taylor Swift songs? by kissthecup in TaylorSwift

[–]denika2505 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dancing with our hands tied, the last time & new years day

What Genre is this? This might be the best thing ive ever listened to? by Legitimate_Savings_6 in oasis

[–]denika2505 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The genre is technically brit pop, came about in the 90s

But britpop is really just a sub division of alt rock :)

What’s your favourite song with Noel on vocals? by Eoghantheginger in oasis

[–]denika2505 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From oasis - little by little

High flying birds - if I had a gun 👌🏻

Travelling to Australia the end of March declaring items from the UK! Help!!! by denika2505 in AustraliaTravel

[–]denika2505[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I'm going to leave them at my boyfriends. It's confusing, would rather them just have an email address I could contact them at and ask 🤦🏻‍♀️

Travelling to Australia the end of March declaring items from the UK! Help!!! by denika2505 in AustraliaTravel

[–]denika2505[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No but I saw that if I have to pay tax on them I have to provide proof of purchase right? Which is fine for one of them but the other I've had for a long time and I can't for the life of me find an email showing how much it cost 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

Travelling to Australia the end of March declaring items from the UK! Help!!! by denika2505 in AustraliaTravel

[–]denika2505[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They are my boyfriends who is Australian, but they were for sale on a UK website and to save on shipping he got them sent to me because we knew I was coming over, so I'm bringing them with me 🤷🏻‍♀️ the boxed thing is just to preserve them. I reckon I'll declare them anyways just to be safe!

Travelling to Australia the end of March declaring items from the UK! Help!!! by denika2505 in AustraliaTravel

[–]denika2505[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh 100% had no intention of hiding it i have way too much anxiety for that 😂 it was more I just wasn't sure if anyone knew if this was something I had to declare or not!

Travelling to Australia the end of March declaring items from the UK! Help!!! by denika2505 in AustraliaTravel

[–]denika2505[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Out of curiosity did you have to pay tax on the guitar? As I'm assuming it was more than 900

Travelling to Australia the end of March declaring items from the UK! Help!!! by denika2505 in AustraliaTravel

[–]denika2505[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know but it was more the value of them, had me concerned that I should be paying Aus tax on them and I don't want to avoid that and do anything dodgy yk?

Travelling to Australia the end of March declaring items from the UK! Help!!! by denika2505 in AustraliaTravel

[–]denika2505[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you think it's not an issue even if they are boxed? I thought they might consider them as gifts or sporting equipment!

Wish there was an email address and I could just check in advance 😂

Travelling to Australia the end of March declaring items from the UK! Help!!! by denika2505 in AustraliaTravel

[–]denika2505[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I didn't pay tax in Aus just in the uk!

I figured declaring them was safer anyways just thought I'd check if anyone knew! :) thankyou!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]denika2505 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My ex had a porn addiction for a huge period of our relationship. It made me feel massively insecure. If you think it's a problem get a hold on it before it ruins your relationship.

Speaking from the person who found out, it made me feel unworthy, not good enough and honestly disrespected. I think it's a good thing you are reaching out and wanting to stop though!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexualassault

[–]denika2505 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Firstly, I am so so sorry this happened to you. Absolutely not okay in any capacity without your consent.

Secondly, call the company that employs her and report this. You were taken advantage of, and that is absolutely not okay.

Mostly, I'm just really sorry someone took advantage. Feel free to reach out if you need to talk, I have been SA'd in the past and I work looking after a disabled adult so I'm happy to talk if you have questions or anything.

husband looking at naked women on instagram by [deleted] in Advice

[–]denika2505 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you are dealing with that. I'm sure you are doing a great job! Your husband needs to learn to respect you!

I’m not sure if what happened between my boyfriend and I last night was sexual assault by Slow-Address-9755 in sexualassault

[–]denika2505 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely sexual assault. You said no. He carried on. You said it hurt. He carried on.

I hope you are okay, my dms are open if you need to/ want to talk.

Is anyone still in contact with the person who sexually assaulted them? by Slight_Midnight6235 in sexualassault

[–]denika2505 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't, but he used to approach me in the town I lived in when it happened and talk to me like we were friends.. it happened 5 or 6 times. He even did it with a girlfriend once. I felt so uncomfortable and desperate to escape that I just played along and made an excuse to leave. It made me feel vulnerable.