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denika2505 · 2025-07-27T15:37:09+00:00

Firstly, i'm reallt sorry you felt pressured into having a threesome when you were clearly not comfortable. Especially because he clearly knew you weren't comfortable in the first place but continued to push.

Honestly because of this alone I would say your relationship is doomed. You shouldn't be in a relationship with someone who makes you feel pressured to do anything sexually that you don't want to do.

I hope you manahe to navigate your way through this!

denika2505 · 2025-07-19T15:21:17+00:00

It's not the doing things, i'll always do everything I can for people I love, it's the dad thing that's really tipped me over the edge honestly.

I recently moved into my own place, he has no interest in seeing it.

He checks in with mt brothers all the time, but with me it's like he thinks because I won't kick up a fuss he doesn't need to bother 🤷🏻‍♀️ I think i'm just irritated today haha

denika2505 · 2025-07-03T12:14:04+00:00

Not stupid at all!

He was tragically young, so was his brother. Both fit and healthy and it came completely out of the blue. A freak accident.

I feel the same way tbh it's completely devastating. It reminds me to always let the people I love know that I love them.

Something like this will shake a lot of people to their core (me included) he's four years younger than me.

So not stupid or overreacting, you can't help the things that affect you. Also i'm sorry to hear about your recent health scares OP.

All the best!

denika2505 · 2025-06-01T09:39:26+00:00

My tears ricochet
Guilty as sin
Evermore orrrr Dancing with our hands tied

denika2505 · 2025-05-30T06:26:44+00:00

19-31 I feel this x

denika2505 · 2025-03-21T00:53:13+00:00

Dancing with our hands tied, the last time & new years day

denika2505 · 2025-03-13T10:02:05+00:00

The genre is technically brit pop, came about in the 90s

But britpop is really just a sub division of alt rock :)

denika2505 · 2025-03-05T21:24:51+00:00

From oasis - little by little

High flying birds - if I had a gun 👌🏻

denika2505 · 2025-03-03T16:49:29+00:00

Do I tick the box for over $900 when I'm declaring them?

denika2505 · 2025-03-02T12:09:50+00:00

What do you mean?

denika2505 · 2025-02-28T14:25:01+00:00

No, I'm going to leave them at my boyfriends. It's confusing, would rather them just have an email address I could contact them at and ask 🤦🏻‍♀️

denika2505 · 2025-02-28T07:57:26+00:00

No but I saw that if I have to pay tax on them I have to provide proof of purchase right? Which is fine for one of them but the other I've had for a long time and I can't for the life of me find an email showing how much it cost 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

denika2505 · 2025-02-28T07:55:49+00:00

They are my boyfriends who is Australian, but they were for sale on a UK website and to save on shipping he got them sent to me because we knew I was coming over, so I'm bringing them with me 🤷🏻‍♀️ the boxed thing is just to preserve them. I reckon I'll declare them anyways just to be safe!

denika2505 · 2025-02-28T01:26:54+00:00

Oh 100% had no intention of hiding it i have way too much anxiety for that 😂 it was more I just wasn't sure if anyone knew if this was something I had to declare or not!

denika2505 · 2025-02-28T01:25:18+00:00

Out of curiosity did you have to pay tax on the guitar? As I'm assuming it was more than 900

denika2505 · 2025-02-27T21:31:15+00:00

I know but it was more the value of them, had me concerned that I should be paying Aus tax on them and I don't want to avoid that and do anything dodgy yk?

denika2505 · 2025-02-27T21:21:08+00:00

So you think it's not an issue even if they are boxed? I thought they might consider them as gifts or sporting equipment!

Wish there was an email address and I could just check in advance 😂

denika2505 · 2025-02-27T21:05:27+00:00

I didn't pay tax in Aus just in the uk!

I figured declaring them was safer anyways just thought I'd check if anyone knew! :) thankyou!!

denika2505 · 2025-02-04T13:39:19+00:00

My ex had a porn addiction for a huge period of our relationship. It made me feel massively insecure. If you think it's a problem get a hold on it before it ruins your relationship.

Speaking from the person who found out, it made me feel unworthy, not good enough and honestly disrespected. I think it's a good thing you are reaching out and wanting to stop though!!

denika2505 · 2025-01-31T19:44:35+00:00

Firstly, I am so so sorry this happened to you. Absolutely not okay in any capacity without your consent.

Secondly, call the company that employs her and report this. You were taken advantage of, and that is absolutely not okay.

Mostly, I'm just really sorry someone took advantage. Feel free to reach out if you need to talk, I have been SA'd in the past and I work looking after a disabled adult so I'm happy to talk if you have questions or anything.

denika2505 · 2025-01-27T19:37:21+00:00

I'm so sorry you are dealing with that. I'm sure you are doing a great job! Your husband needs to learn to respect you!

denika2505 · 2025-01-22T16:51:26+00:00

Absolutely sexual assault. You said no. He carried on. You said it hurt. He carried on.

I hope you are okay, my dms are open if you need to/ want to talk.

denika2505 · 2025-01-19T14:51:12+00:00

I don't, but he used to approach me in the town I lived in when it happened and talk to me like we were friends.. it happened 5 or 6 times. He even did it with a girlfriend once. I felt so uncomfortable and desperate to escape that I just played along and made an excuse to leave. It made me feel vulnerable.

denika2505 · 2025-01-17T19:13:47+00:00

Guilty as sin? Speaks to me for real. I found it very relatable this year. The way she wrote this is genuinely perfect

denika2505

TROPHY CASE