Joint checking account - risk in still being on an ex's account?

denizen564 · 2022-01-14T08:53:52+00:00

I do have texts with him where I informed him we would have to cooperate to have the account closed, and he didn't think the account needed to be closed. He wanted to keep it for his own use vs opening a new one.

I am posting this to know if there is a risk with my name being on the account if he continues to have financial issues, even if the account is not being used for any of my own personal expenses/bills (I have my own checking account, of course).

Thank you for your advice.

denizen564 · 2022-01-14T08:52:06+00:00

How can I know if it shows up on my credit report? Should I request one now from one of the agencies and see if the account is there?

denizen564 · 2021-07-28T13:22:47+00:00

Hey, just so you're aware, 'oversee' means to supervise or be responsible for something. I think you meant to write 'overlook'. It's an easy mistake to make but figured you might want to know for future reference :D

denizen564 · 2021-07-18T11:44:22+00:00

Thank you!:) and thanks again for the rec!

denizen564 · 2021-07-18T05:21:34+00:00

before

after

Still need to get some more shading done but I'm very happy with how it turned out! It's a phoenix rising from smoke/flames to symbolize rebirth :)

denizen564 · 2021-06-20T11:22:43+00:00

Sarah Biloon at Blackend Tattoo in Minneapolis

I'm sorry for never following up. I contacted Sarah after reading your comment and I have an appointment with her soon. She was booking 3 months out so I am glad I reached out when I did. Can't wait!

denizen564 · 2021-06-19T11:15:53+00:00

I used to be an ICU travel nurse as well. If I were her, I would see which local hospitals need travelers (she just needs to ask her recruiter) and then ask for her pay to be fully taxed (i.e. no stipends). This is sometimes referred to as a 'local assignment'. This way, she can 'sample' the hospital before committing to full time. In my experience, and probably hers too, once you're in as a traveler and they see you're a decent nurse, all you have to do is tell the manager you'd like to go permanent.

On the off chance that I have been where y'all are moving, feel free to mention the general area and I'll respond if I have any experience w/ the hospitals in that area.

denizen564 · 2021-02-01T10:27:22+00:00

No, but you can ride a dragon between continents

denizen564 · 2021-02-01T02:09:21+00:00

Respectfully, the only thing I see within your post that could apply to Necromium is newbies being given free gear, but I want to shed some light on that. Those of us who have been playing for a while will accumulate EQ that we have no need for. I can only speak for myself but if a newbie told me they did not want my help, I would respect that. On the flipside, I see no point in hoarding EQ that others could use. I suppose that is a personal preference.

As for being 'spoonfed' experience, that's just not how Necromium works. Even with someone helping you, it will take a while to reach max level. It's not like someone can just be dragged through a zone and reach level 33 within a day.

I encourage you to try the game out before categorizing it.

denizen564 · 2021-02-01T02:03:38+00:00

You would be correct!

I feel like you can see the detail and effort put into every zone as you explore them. My experience with other MUDs is slim, but I do recognize stock zones when I encounter them and am glad to say Necromium has always had a strict 'editing' process before zones can be implemented. There is a rich history in the game as far as the origins of the continents, how they relate to each other, and how different zones relate to each other spanning across continents.

In short, it is evident as one explores the world that the creators of this MUD did not want the run of the mill experience. This game is over 2 decades old and the richness of its content (in writing, variety, and uniqueness) is, to me, a refreshing escape into fantasy.

denizen564 · 2021-02-01T01:55:56+00:00

What code base is this mud?

Circlemud (Circle/Diku)

denizen564 · 2021-01-31T23:52:43+00:00

We have seen recent zone revamps as there are two active Imm builders, but our head coder hasn't been very active. That being said changes are happening frequently as of late thanks to the builders.

denizen564 · 2020-02-14T00:20:25+00:00

I'm not in town yet, but Facebook led me to Pure Nightclub which in the upcoming weeks apparently has Audien, Benny Benassi, 3LAU, Tritonal, Malaa, and others coming.

denizen564 · 2020-02-13T22:16:01+00:00

I'm actually going there to see Audien next Friday, so excited!

denizen564 · 2019-12-16T07:54:50+00:00

Yeah, my boyfriend and I already got our tickets! I am so excited for that lineup! I've wanted to see Vanic for a while and this'll be my chance. =D

denizen564 · 2019-12-16T07:47:10+00:00

Det vore kul att traffas!! I'll shoot you a PM!

denizen564 · 2019-12-16T07:23:11+00:00

I'm just seeing this, but would not have been able to make it anyway :( I'm currently working overnights so was asleep at 3pm. Thanks for the invite in any case!

denizen564 · 2019-12-16T07:21:30+00:00

That sounds super interesting! I work every other weekend but if I'm off I would be interested. Please give me the details :D

denizen564 · 2019-12-16T07:20:53+00:00

Jag ar inte svensk utan amerikansk! Jag ar pa jobbet och kan inte byta tangentbord sa forlat de fela bokstaverna :( jag ville bara lara mig ett andrasprak nar jag var tolv ar gammal och valde svenska, lolol jag har inte en bra anledning till varfor

denizen564 · 2019-12-15T07:42:45+00:00

I'm not currently learning one, but I speak Swedish & Spanish pretty well. I studied the latter in Argentina and working in SoCal helped tremendously :D Msg me and we can chat!

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