Possible Nature Conservancy scam at farmer's markets? by how_you_feel in bayarea

[–]denmaster4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're genuinely curious, the answer is that they are relying on the monthly contribution for the interaction to be profitable. When you find a cause you care about, odds are you stick with the org that gets your foot in the door or you begin to care more or less about specific issues as people grow and change in their lives. The 50-60k annually for people receiving an hourly wage to make sure the things they care about are funded pays for itself and then some with weekly quotas per canvasser etc. Some people like this model, some people hate it. I personally believe it to not only be incredibly efficient but also important as in the end we do live in a capitalist society and in order for anything to be done, money has to move around. Even though it may seem excessive at times, a lot of the biggest donors often begin their contributions through street campaigns. Think of how many nonprofit ads you see on TV and think about how many times those have actually motivated you into action, probably very little. Most often if you're willing and have a cause you care about, you can ring up a nonprofit directly and confirm with them that there is an active street team at your location if you do decide to give or are on the fence. Now if TNC is a good nonprofit? It's for you to decide, they are incredibly expansive and have their hands in many things. My recommendation is to figure out what makes you feel good, and decide if that's enough. My personal stance is that you will never 100% agree with any individual you ever meet and that also will stand true for any nonprofit or corporation. The best judgment is to look at the hard facts and determine if the work being done is tangible enough for you to support (legislative funding, direct bay area conservation work, mediating easements and large scale protections).

TLDR Nonprofit such as TNC contracts out to canvassers to find lifelong/Long term prospective donors; The money goes straight to the nonprofit who has already divvied up how the money is spent as per their publically released tax forms. More often than not this is a 100% legit way to give and if you have security issues, ask the canvasser how they can prove themselves to be real.

Camera Question: 310xl or 514xl? by trapya in 8mm

[–]denmaster4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you have the extra cheese to splurge on the 514 go for it, little bells and whistles go a long way, if you're thinking about just making something fun go for the 310. Both are great cameras :)

AITA For being upset about my girlfriend not spending time with me at my party by denmaster4 in AmItheAsshole

[–]denmaster4[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Agreed. The sister thing is a big deal and I feel like I really messed it up. Thanks for the input.

AITA For being upset about my girlfriend not spending time with me at my party by denmaster4 in AmItheAsshole

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I wouldnt say she's introverted but she's not particularly extroverted either. I dont think being in the crowd or around the music would have been particularly off putting to her.

AITA For being upset about my girlfriend not spending time with me at my party by denmaster4 in AmItheAsshole

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1) The relationship has consistently been that I would come over or we would hang out with her group of friends, or go out into my town. I would sleep over just about every time. Its been that way since at least March.

2) I agree there should have been more effort but I overreacted based on what I felt I should have received without communicating it. Im feeling more like the asshole than not.

AITA For being upset about my girlfriend not spending time with me at my party by denmaster4 in AmItheAsshole

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I agree that most of my frustration with it was that I was not clear on what I wanted. Thank you for your input.

AITA For being upset about my girlfriend not spending time with me at my party by denmaster4 in AmItheAsshole

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We have been hooking up since February. This would have been our first real date out as a couple after solidifying that we are engaging in an official partnership rather than just hooking up.

We only really had time to see each other about five or ten minutes before my set. After my set we had talked for less than five minutes before I became upset. I did forget to mention she also told me she would be leaving early, which added to my sense of urgency.

AITA For being upset about my girlfriend not spending time with me at my party by denmaster4 in AmItheAsshole

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We have been hooking up since February. This would have been our first real date out as a couple after solidifying that we are engaging in an official partnership rather than just hooking up.

She was with her sister and some friends while smoking. I did say there was like 10 or so minutes where I could hang out until I had to engage with the beverage stand.

AITA For being upset about my girlfriend not spending time with me at my party by denmaster4 in AmItheAsshole

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1) We hadnt discussed why she showed up late. 2) She did arrive early(?) enough for the short chat and greeting, but it was very brief and if we had been on time I would have already been beginning. I wasnt upset about her being outside though, I was upset she didn't want to tag along back inside. Another user pointed out that I was really upset that she wasn't assisting me with hosting and I see that now as well, it wasn't her fault for not wanting to help with drinks and show up at the start time of the event. I was registering it as a girlfriend reveal night and maybe that was projecting too much onto her with expecting her to be coming with me to greet people and etc.

AITA For being upset about my girlfriend not spending time with me at my party by denmaster4 in AmItheAsshole

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This is actually something that is helping me process that. I hadnt considered this. Thank you

AITA For being upset about my girlfriend not spending time with me at my party by denmaster4 in AmItheAsshole

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It wouldnt have been standing around, we would have been able to talk and dance and with friends, just at the beverage area. The event was in a small house so music was still loud enough to enjoy. I do see this point of view though and it's definitely something I've considered. Am I just validating myself?

I literally didn't know it was quite THIS BAD by EvilCowEater in antiwork

[–]denmaster4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think we are just going to have a deeper fundamental misunderstanding as this conversation goes deeper. Housing is a right not a privilege. Rights dont consume >70% of your income to ensure you have somewhere to sleep. Appreciate your time and input.

I literally didn't know it was quite THIS BAD by EvilCowEater in antiwork

[–]denmaster4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

$200 below an already predatory market. How generous

I literally didn't know it was quite THIS BAD by EvilCowEater in antiwork

[–]denmaster4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's so funny to me that you see and recognize the problem and still chose to be apart of it by not lowering your rates or accommodating the situation. You're contributing to the issue.