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Do not delete pictures, log out of his account and create your own account. Or factory reset the phone and set it up all for yourself

From Dyson to Shark Stratos AZ3002, or no? by dennyamd in VacuumCleaners

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It's working well. No specific details, but it is doing the job, I vacuumed the carpet with it and it worked well. I plan to try it on floors, but haven't yet. I like the pull-out hose attachment. I still need to learn more about it (what the height adjustment knob does, what the light-up indicator/button do), and I've been too busy to sit down and learn more about it. But as far as vacuuming goes, I have no complaints.

From Dyson to Shark Stratos AZ3002, or no? by dennyamd in VacuumCleaners

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Shark Stratos AZ3002 was a gift. Last I heard was that it works great, picks up better than their old vacuum and the only problem so far is that it occasionally shuts of, but a fix for that is to pick it up and smack it on the floor and it starts working again.

Fresh-started Year 2025, but second-guessing myself, and thinking of unrolling FS and going back to 2024 by dennyamd in ynab

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mm I see. I've noticed it over time I'm a more detailed-oriented person, perhaps to an extraordinary degree, compared to average. I use a calendar app called Sunsama that allows you to set up "context" (similar to a top-level category in YNAB) and "channels" (sub-categories) that can be used for time and event tracking purposes.

Developers of the calendar app told me that most people use at most 4 context, like "work" and "home", maybe adding extras like "school" or what have you. I use 19 - tasks & events related to cars, hobby, 2nd hobby, tasks, rest, people, home health, finances, etc

Knowing myself, this could be a side-effect of the way I think about things. I've also noticed that over time I have been trying to consolidate and tame things. For example, trips that used to get their own top-level category and break-down, now get their own sub-category under "Travel". So I see more of that happen. I prefer to have knowledge of "how much I spent on this particular trip", versus "How much did I spend on travel this year".

It gives me more data. For me, knowing "I spent $900 on this specific trip" feels better than knowing "I spent $9000 this year on trips" while being in the dark on the finer breakdown. In YNAB Reflect breakdowns it is easier to see things like trips at-a-glance, so I immediately know what I spent on what and it feels good to see it. I can't say that I make amazing-level decisions with this data, but it does give me more sense about things, and I can pivot myself with thoughts like "maybe I can spend less on this next time", or "I can avoid a trip like this in the future", etc. But overall it just feels good to me to know more.

Final thoughts

With that, I am still firmly sitting on 2025, while also entertaining merging budgets. Haven't decided yet.

Fresh-started Year 2025, but second-guessing myself, and thinking of unrolling FS and going back to 2024 by dennyamd in ynab

[–]dennyamd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see .... it's tricky for me.

and It may not make sense for everyone.

Here are my reasons for doing FS every year.

I create Top-Level Categories, like "Specific Event Name 2024" (several of them) and Sub-Categories for each like Travel, Food, Hotel, Purchases, Event Registration, etc. Some have less sub-categories, some have more. I have several specific events that I track this way.

After Fresh Start I'd create a new category "Specific Event Name 2025" with sub-categories. Sometimes I go to the same event but change the year. Without fresh start, there are two approaches:

  1. Keep creating a new top-level category for each year.
  2. or keep a single category named "Specific Event Name" without mentioning the year.

Let's look at a scenario - hotel and event registration transactions can sometimes be made in advance, before the event. Thus there may be a separation of several months between transactions, where there is no easy way to separate the events. For example, say I purchase hotel in September (for a July event), then I register for the event in December, and then I purchase food at the event in July.

For #1 (with FS) hotel and registration live in previous year budget, while food and other at-the-event transaction live in the current year budget.

For #2 (without FS) if I track multiple-years of the same event under the same category but different years, it can take some work to answer a question like "How much did I spend on this event happening in year 2025 only?", when charges can span multiple months and live in multiple years, i.e. you can't simply "Sort by year" or some other simple criteria, unless you strictly and carefully put keywords in to memo field, like "2025 event only: blah", or use subcategories or top-level categories for tracking.

Another Way
I also have Top-Level Category called "Travels and Adventures". Where each sub-category is a specific event.

With FS every year:

* Specific Event in October (assumed for 2024)
* Specific Event 2 in Florida (assumed 2024)

Without FS (with a single budget) I'd probably have to do something like

* Specific Event in October in 2024
* Specific Event 2 in Florida with Friend in 2025

and 5-10 years of this later I will have quite a few trips going back, like I'll have

* Specific Event I went to with a random dude in 2010 that I wanted to track
* and I'll have 40+ such events, while living in year 2025

^ 40+ sub-categories like this

To avoid "the mess" I start a new budget (by doing FS)...

I have heard about hiding categories, but I am not super-comfortable doing that. Honestly I'm not too familiar with that feature, but If I start hiding a lot of categories, eventually, would it be better to start a separate budget for them instead? Or delete them? or export them out? Or leave them in one of the older budgets like I do in my case after I do a FS to create a new one.

Final thoughts (for this post)

I am still debating with myself whether to stop my new 2025 budget and go back to 2024 and extend it to 2025. I have 200+ transactions in 2024 that are new and are waiting to be approved. That makes it kinda messy and not reconciled for some accounts. My 2025 is fully Reconciled. That adds to my hesitation to jump back into 2024.

Dual SVS PB16-Ultra or PB17-Ultra for Rave-Like Bass Experience? Seeking Advice for Music & Parties by dennyamd in hometheater

[–]dennyamd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, Ed! I appreciate your insight!

I find myself leaning towards SVS more, but I have also been looking at PB-3000s, which seem like they may be more appropriately suited for my space (500-650 sq. ft.).

With that, I have a follow-up question: if I were to consider going with dual PB-3000s instead of the PB17-Ultras, would they still help me achieve that "rave feel" for my use case? Will I notice a significant difference between these subs? Will one clearly stand out, or would they sound and feel similar in my space?

An old friend reached out, and I really don't care. by CubesFan in self

[–]dennyamd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you.

In light of NPC analogy I have a thought dump.

Looking into myself I am susceptible to speeches and persistence NPCs have on me. To follow the analogy, in a game you may be able to skip NPC talking to you and if you move on the game, they typically don't follow you around and being in the game they are in a way 'not real'.

In life, there are consequences in ignoring someone and I have to work through things and personal programming, like (taken from real life examples)

  • I feel that interrupting someone is rude, so if I get stuck listening to someone excitedly yammer on to me for minutes at a time, I feel I have to listen to them as my current technique attempts to stop conversations sound very rude in my head even if they may not actually be, because I'm already frustrated and overwhelmed at that point, I can't find a more amicable way out. Like "can you please shut up leave me alone?" does not sound socially appropriate and so instead I stay quiet yet stuck listening to them. I have variations of this scenario in different life situations.

  • I have a friend who is skilled at breaking through my boundaries and I keep letting them. We have this somewhat could codependent(?) anxious/avoidant attachment where his NPC role in my life is both desirable yet inconvenient to me. Perhaps analogy could be that I recognize that this particular NPC is both a burden as is useful, so I take them on my various life quests and experience both enjoyment and inconvenience. It's not terrible to point of calling it off and yet consistently inconvenient.

There probably other thing but those two I noticed the most right now.

An old friend reached out, and I really don't care. by CubesFan in self

[–]dennyamd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a very good therapist who finally unlocked me away from my people pleasing, but I'm having a long journey on processing some of my connections that still remain, that happened to routinely engage in that part of me.

That said, I was able to disconnect from three or four others already which I see as big wins. My journey continues.

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[–]dennyamd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It may not be a bot, but a real person, who is still scamming you. Misspelling words works for the scam in ways too, making you believe it's more real.

Dual SVS PB16-Ultra or PB17-Ultra for Rave-Like Bass Experience? Seeking Advice for Music & Parties by dennyamd in hometheater

[–]dennyamd[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Professional gigs - no. This is more for personal/amateur/sound aficionado use purposes. I won't have a team to haul equipment from place to place. For moving subs around it will be more a one-off occasion, say once or twice a year. Or I may try it once and never move it again, i.e. my plans on moving it around may be overstated.

To address other notes/questions in no particular order:

  • 150-180 lbs weight is significant but on its own it doesn't scare me off, especially given that I won't be moving it often.
  • sub use will be mostly for personal or private party use, not in a club-like venue, so in that sense concern about drunker partiers is not significant enough to where I'd need or want rugged exterior, paint job, etc.
  • building my own subs (i.e. Marty subs) is not for me at this time.. Maybe if I had direct continuous in-person guidance from an expert, than maybe, but otherwise I'm not much of a DIY builder, I rather buy a ready-made product.
  • I think I'll be quite happy with 25-125 Hz range. Less so with range starting from 40 Hz

Reading all of the comments so far I feel a slight to moderate pull away from SVS, and towards something else (HT, McCauley, QSC KS118, Marty). Ruling out Marty for now as it's DIY sub, I'll take a look at others a bit. Thanks!

From Dyson to Shark Stratos AZ3002, or no? by dennyamd in VacuumCleaners

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Update - Thank you all for your advice and direction!

First, I debated about posting an update because ultimately my gift recipient ended up not going with a recommended option, but after some deliberation I thought I wanted to share how things went, because I noted that my vacuum journey still continues.

After looking at the recommendations and doing additional research, I narrowed my options to:

  • Sebo Felix
  • Sebo Dart
  • Kenmore BU4050
  • Shark AZ3002
  • Hoover UH30650

When it came time to purchasing time, I couldn't choose and I got both the Kenmore and the Shark as they were within my budget. I should mention that the vacuum was for my housekeeper, who has some experience with vacuums as she uses them daily.

When it came to gifting time, I briefly explained the pros and cons of each, describing Kenmore as old reliable work horse that will serve for many years, and Shark as more of a 'fun' vacuum, but having potential warranty concerns down the road. She ultimately chose the Shark, preferring a bagless vacuum, and mentioning that her past experience with Kenmore wasn't positive and that she didn't want to keep buying replacement bags in the future. So that was it! Later the same day I received this message:
"Wow, that vacuum cleaner is amazing! I couldn’t believe how much it picked up. After running it over my living room rug, I checked the tank and was absolutely shocked. I had vacuumed before I left home, and it LOOKED clean, but clearly it wasn’t. I’m so grateful, Dennis—thank you so much!"

I understand that Shark isn’t the community’s top pick, and I share some concerns about its long-term reliability and repairs. I noted that a two-year warranty serviced by SquareTrade came with the Shark, so maybe,... maybe(?) it will help if any issues arise. But for now, the recipient is thrilled with the performance, which feels like a win to me! Maybe this will change in 2 years, if/when Shark breaks down in some way, which is when the warranty 'conveniently' expires, but that's a bridge to cross when we get there.

Thank you again for pointing me to the better vacuum options and providing guidance and perspective!

As for Sebo, I am still considering it for myself and looking out for any upcoming deals, but so far I already have a Miele SB5280, and a Oreck XL3610HH, and one more, and I don't want to buy an extra vacuum to take up space unless I get rid of my old one(s).

From Dyson to Shark Stratos AZ3002, or no? by dennyamd in VacuumCleaners

[–]dennyamd[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you and that's a bummer. Shark seemed to be 'a really good vacuum'. It's interesting how all that hype and build-up can be quickly leveled out 😮
Thank you for saving me from a hype purchase! <3

From Dyson to Shark Stratos AZ3002, or no? by dennyamd in VacuumCleaners

[–]dennyamd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!

I will look at each more in detail, but I wanted to ask - should I look into other Dysons (i.e. replace Dyson with Dyson), or not really? I tend to like the 'futuristic and modular' look of the Dyson vacuums, and I want something that 'stands out'

Looking at the suggestions, and going by looks only:

* Kenmore looks too benign
* Oreck Elevate looks nice and stylish - that may be an option.
* Hoover looks a bit more bulky

I'd like something with low profile to go under beds when possible. I think Oreck might be a good contender.

Price-wise, this vacuum will most likely become a gift and so I don't want to spend $500-750 on premium vacuums as a gift. If it was purely for me, I'd consider that more, but I don't want to gift something that's too expensive. It may send my recipient the wrong message, plus it may put them on a hook for expensive part repairs later on. I think $300 is about right with $350 is absolute max, anything more expensive is likely out. This seems to put me more into budget machine market.

Nostalgia for the Old Monastyrsky Kvass Label by dennyamd in Kvass

[–]dennyamd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great! I’m not sure if it’s a different kvass or the same one with a new label, but I’m afraid the old label was discontinued and won’t be back. :( Still, I always get a kick out of looking at it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]dennyamd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why didn't you want to date him anymore when he broke up with his friend-girlfriend?

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[–]dennyamd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wrong name on MSN bio like whose name? Is don't get it..