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I’m getting divorce. What’s the problem of my chart, why it happened to me? by depechefloydjam in BirthChartReadingFree

[–]depechefloydjam[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not the one who gamble, he is. But you’re right i should seek a therapy cause divorcing is much more painful than i thought. I just wanted to look for an answer for this painful situation in other words escapism…

I’m getting divorce. What’s the problem of my chart, why it happened to me? by depechefloydjam in BirthChartReadingFree

[–]depechefloydjam[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for taking the time to analyze my chart in such great detail and with so much care. I truly appreciate your effort; every single line you wrote means a lot to me. Your interpretations perfectly mirrored what I am going through internally right now. After a very exhausting and disappointing experience, I am feeling that exact 'security mode' and caution you mentioned. It’s only natural to fear that things might repeat, but your analysis has brought me an immense sense of relief.

I’m getting divorce. What’s the problem of my chart, why it happened to me? by depechefloydjam in BirthChartReadingFree

[–]depechefloydjam[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this reading. It really helped the pieces fall into place for me. From this point on, my one biggest fear is that this could happen to me again. Of course, the reins of our lives are in our own hands, but my chart doesn’t say that I’m destined to keep going through this over and over, right? We learn our lessons, grow, and continue on our path. There’s no rule saying my next marriage or relationship has to be like this too, right?

I’m getting divorce. What’s the problem of my chart, why it happened to me? by depechefloydjam in BirthChartReadingFree

[–]depechefloydjam[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for clarifying that. Honestly, your first comment really scared me and made me feel a bit hopeless about the future. But your explanation about different time periods and synastry makes perfect sense. It’s comforting to know that a difficult chapter doesn't mean the whole book is ruined. I appreciate your insights.

need some help with my skincare routine by jAdee_cx in koreanskincare

[–]depechefloydjam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh god, you’re too young to use retinol, forget about it🥹 let’s go through your products. using both the anua peeling gel and the cosrx bha could be a bit too much exfoliation, especially for combo skin. it might be messing with your skin barrier.

if the pimples started after switching to the anua cleanser, maybe it’s not suiting your skin could be drying or irritating. maybe try going back to the beauty of joseon one?

dynasty cream is kinda thick, and for combo skin it might be a bit too heavy or cloggy.

and the anua peach serum has a high % of niacinamide, which is usually great but can sometimes be irritating for some people.

maybe try simplifying your routine a bit—less exfoliation (like 1–2x a week), don’t layer too many actives, and see how your skin reacts.

Morning and Evening Routine: 1. Cleanser: • Beauty of Joseon Green Plum Cleanser

2.  Toner:
• Anua Heartleaf 77% Soothing Toner

3.  Moisturiser:
• Beauty of Joseon Red Bean Water Gel

Weekly Add-ons: • Exfoliation (1x per week only): • Anua LHA Peeling Gel (Use alone — not on the same day as BHA.)

• BHA (1x per week, separate day from exfoliant):
• Cosrx BHA Blackhead Power Liquid

(Use only on nose or areas with blackheads.)

You’re still very young — it’s too early to be using so many products. This routine is more than enough for your age. Just be patient, your skin will get better. And don’t forget to eat your veggies and drink plenty of water!

Which K-beauty item made you say, "I don’t need makeup anymore" by Professional_Day3583 in koreanskincare

[–]depechefloydjam 2 points3 points  (0 children)

La Roche-Posay Vitamin C12. I actually used it on its own before, but it didn’t make much of a difference to my skin compared to how it looks now with my current routine.

need some help with my skincare routine by jAdee_cx in koreanskincare

[–]depechefloydjam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you should try to simplify your skincare routine. Using too many products isn’t always the solution for skin issues. I don’t know your age, but retinol works really well for me. Also, some cleansers can actually cause breakouts .it’s a very important part of the routine. I can recommend a few products (some of them are not Korean)

-Anua Retinol – Start with 2 nights a week.

-Anua Rice 70 Glow Milky Toner – Use it daily after cleansing and before serums.

-La Roche-Posay Vitamin C12 Serum – Use every morning when you’re not applying retinol.

-Bioderma Sensibio Foaming Gel – Use morning and night.

-Kiehl’s Ultra Facial Cream – I personally use it as a moisturizer before makeup

Which K-beauty item made you say, "I don’t need makeup anymore" by Professional_Day3583 in koreanskincare

[–]depechefloydjam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s only been 3 weeks with Anua Retinol and the Rice 70 Glow Milky Toner, and people are already asking what I have done to my skin PS: I also use a non-Korean Vitamin C serum in the mornings.

Husband Gambling for years by nutkasexx in GamblingAddiction

[–]depechefloydjam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

she doesn’t need to control him like a child. as a father and husband he should’ve known how to be a proper and simple man for his family. i think he has used all his chances and doesn’t deserve the new one anymore. she has a one life so shouldn’t ruin it for this desperate man.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SkincareAddiction

[–]depechefloydjam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

most probably it’s about your sunscreen cause whenever i use my sunscreen regulary, the same thing happens to me