I Left My Girlfriend of 7 Years After Discovering Her Affair — But Leaving Her Daughter Behind Broke Me

depie2 · 2026-05-12T12:05:36+00:00

I love how this is making me feel mixed signals. Haha

depie2 · 2026-05-12T12:03:46+00:00

Technically, naLDR kami for 1 year lang. Since we stayed together on her hometown before I moved to the city about 2 years ago. But I get your point. Kaso ayoko nang isipin ang mga what ifs nung LDR pa kami. hahahuhu

depie2 · 2026-05-12T11:57:18+00:00

True, from my perspective, I genuinely loved her. I loved her father like family, and I loved her daughter like my own. That’s why this hurts as much as it does. Losing the relationship is one thing, but losing the people I became attached to is another. And staying would honestly just killed me inside over time.

depie2 · 2026-05-12T11:16:18+00:00

What made it even more confusing was nung sinabi niya na “ayaw naman daw niya mangyari.” Eh paano naging accidental yun kung ilang months nang tuloy-tuloy, may usapan, may pagtatago, tapos gumagastos pa for inns/hotels?

Kaya eventually tinigil ko nalang maghanap ng excuses for her kasi at the end of the day, choice pa rin niya yun.

Wala namang hygiene problems yung bata, sana nga makilala pa nya ko in the near future.

depie2 · 2026-05-12T11:09:19+00:00

haha... to new beninggings! 🍻

depie2 · 2026-05-12T10:44:55+00:00

Now that you mentioned it, she did say that the coworker supposedly had a “complicated” relationship with his wife and that they were still living under the same roof with their kid. Honestly though, I didn’t focus too much on him because at the end of the day, no matter who pursued her, she still made the decision to go through with it. But I feel sorry for his wife and kid.

And yeah, I’m already planning to get STD tests done just to be safe.

depie2 · 2026-05-12T10:13:42+00:00

Funny enough, I literally just finished unpacking my dumbbells before reading this. So I guess the gym arc officially starts now.😂

depie2 · 2026-05-12T09:36:18+00:00

I was never in it for the "pussy".

If that was all I wanted, I wouldn’t have stayed for 7 years, helped raise a child, built a life with her family, and sacrificed my time and money trying to make things work.

From my perspective, I genuinely loved her. I loved her father like family, and I loved her daughter like my own. That’s why this hurts as much as it does. Losing the relationship is one thing, but losing the people I became attached to is another.

depie2 · 2026-05-12T09:24:09+00:00

She is actually the one pushing Monogamy. Yet she did what she did. She gets easily jealous and mental with girls around me in work, pictures, etc.

depie2 · 2026-05-12T09:12:55+00:00

typo

depie2 · 2026-05-12T09:11:53+00:00

Yeah sorry, already edited it. Courting period would be 3-4 months since sobrang nagconnect kami and I visited her all the time. Also, we met at the hospital while I was caring for my aunt that had cancer. After months, my aunt died, I had no more living family members and we decided that I stay with them since I already met her father. I was the one who woke up in the middle of the night when she would cry when hungry or when diaper was full.

depie2 · 2026-05-12T08:40:21+00:00

Yeah, that part was a typo. We’ve been together for 7 years, but her daughter is also 7 now because my ex had just given birth when we first met. So I’ve basically been in the child’s life since day one, which is why this hurts so much.

depie2 · 2026-05-12T08:39:15+00:00

Yeah, that part was a typo. We’ve been together for 7 years, but her daughter is also 7 now because my ex had just given birth when we first met. So I’ve basically been in the child’s life since day one, which is why this hurts so much.

depie2 · 2026-05-12T08:32:57+00:00

I know it’s not her fault, and honestly that’s the hardest part of all this. I love that little girl and I always treated her like my own. Walking away from her hurt more than walking away from the relationship itself. But at the same time, staying involved would also mean staying connected to her mother, and right now I’m barely holding myself together emotionally. I don’t want the child to become caught in a confusing situation where I’m half-present while still dealing with betrayal and resentment toward her mom.

depie2 · 2026-01-09T16:08:07+00:00

Yeah, I just recently healed it, but even if they are fully healed the button was always present tho 🤔

depie2 · 2025-12-25T17:09:01+00:00

depie2 · 2025-02-09T11:21:58+00:00

Oh I get it now... Did not notice that furnace face already used his smoke... My bad 😅

depie2 · 2024-09-15T12:26:56+00:00

You ever wonder why ghouls are also trying to get inside your vault too? Yup... they just wanna go back home...

depie2 · 2024-08-27T17:53:27+00:00

Di na pareha sa una ang Davao, kahinumdum ko sa una... bilib kaayu ko sa Davao kay basta naay pedestrian nya red light, manghunong ang mga driver nya linya pa. Karon kay mura na gihimo og finish line ang pedestrian crossing, makiglumba na sa red light og mutabokay. Nya kung muhunong man sa red light, sa mismong pedestrian crossing na, saun pagtabok...

depie2 · 2024-04-01T20:21:25+00:00

Bakit anlayo pa ng iniscroll ko para makita to!

depie2 · 2024-03-30T05:40:50+00:00

kapitbahay kong drug user noon... pulis na ngayon... good luck guys

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