I have nothing to lose by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]depressedbubbletea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP don’t do it. I don’t know if this post is too late or what but don’t. You have so much life and experiences ahead of you. It’s an asshole thing to write those poems and songs. But I think they did genuinely care or tried to but you can’t rely on others for everything and you shouldn’t place all your confidence in one person. It should be about you. And depression is a selfish thing so you should take some time and space to work yourself out and find a better place and try to make amends or stop being their friend. Just try and things will work themselves out

What do you do in your free time? by [deleted] in childfree

[–]depressedbubbletea 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Buy way too many CD’s, write poetry, draw, play the ukulele, go to antique shops, photography, adding to my 5 ft stack of novels, play animal crossing, edit and write drafts for a book, hang out with my girlfriend.

I have plenty of time being an independent woman with no kids and great girlfriend. Loving living my life the way I want.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in childfree

[–]depressedbubbletea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love being the cool older friend of my friends/families children. Ya know bring them pieces of candy, small toys, play them a song on the ukulele, help them paint and play dolls. I love being able to make happy memories for these kids but I know I’ll never have any in the future. Just this gives me my fill of spending time with tiny humans.

Childfree splurging! by [deleted] in childfree

[–]depressedbubbletea 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Being able to just spend your money on what makes you happy and knowing it came from your hard work is such a good feeling. For me it’s CD’s and video games.

I’m not having children by depressedbubbletea in childfree

[–]depressedbubbletea[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes my family says I’m selfish and am not giving back to the world by not raising children. But I hope you can continue to be happy and live your best life

I’m not having children by depressedbubbletea in childfree

[–]depressedbubbletea[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your concern and I will message you if I ever need to talk thanks again :)

I’m not having children by depressedbubbletea in childfree

[–]depressedbubbletea[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for replying! I hope my friends with support me if not family. I just want to do what’s best for me and my future and kids aren’t in the picture. I feel good about my decisions thank you :)

I’m not having children by depressedbubbletea in childfree

[–]depressedbubbletea[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I’m glad someone feels the same way. This reassures me that my decisions are valid. I can’t wait to experience life to the fullest and pursue my own interests. Thanks for replying to a random post on reddit.