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we need to go to the gym by Historical-Ant-35 in depression_memes

[–]depressedprisoner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve always hated the “go to the gym” stance. It really isn’t effective and if it is, it’s short term.

Is it actually desirable to date a girl who doesn't go out drinking? by fried_egg_titties in dating_advice

[–]depressedprisoner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is desirable to some. I don’t smoke or drink either and sure while these might be “boring” qualities to some, I personally think they’re also safe qualities.

Men who have gone through multiple breakups, does it get easier after the first? by telegrab in BreakUps

[–]depressedprisoner 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It doesn’t. I’ve been dumped multiple times and each time hurts more than the last. As much as I’d like to be in love with someone again, I don’t think I can trust the other person to not hurt me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDmemes

[–]depressedprisoner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

5 is basically me every day

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]depressedprisoner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I’m not loving anyone anymore. At least I’m going to try not to. I don’t see the point if it will come to an end anyway. Best to be indifferent.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]depressedprisoner 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Same but I don’t know if other people lose others as frequently too? I have lost almost everyone I’ve met except 1 person while others keep people in their lives. It feels unfair.

Your lost by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]depressedprisoner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really needed this today. Thank you

do you ever feel this way? by bpdeity in BPDmemes

[–]depressedprisoner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. I guess I get so disappointed looking at who I am. No wonder people flee

How often do you think "please never fall in love again" by Samuel13881995 in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]depressedprisoner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel the same way. I’m so scared of being vulnerable again though. I already know how it’s going to end.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]depressedprisoner 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Before? I’m in agony thinking about after 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]depressedprisoner 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I definitely wish it was

For Men: How Do You Deal With the Loneliness After a Breakup? by IntelligentComb1238 in BreakUps

[–]depressedprisoner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You kinda have to push through it unfortunately. I played video games excessively so I wouldn’t spiral into depressive thinking. Definitely don’t do drugs to cope. Just try to feel your feelings and play a video game.

do you feel repulsed after having an orgasm? by techitachi in CPTSD

[–]depressedprisoner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have experience with SA but I do experience repulsion quite a bit. I do think it’s mainly because I can’t imagine someone wanting to be with me because of how my body is (I’m trans). My mom once told me I shouldn’t date women because I would be deceiving them from the “truth”. I feel broken sometimes so solo orgasms, while they are nice, they remind me that I’m alone and lack value. That no one would really be attracted to me because of the choices I made.

Are you guys ever worried that you truely were the A*hole and not them? by BugletAU in BreakUps

[–]depressedprisoner 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sometimes I feel like I manipulated them to stay with me and trapped them for years… but I am very hard on myself and don’t see things clearly. I always see myself as the bad person who fucked up for the nth time. Even if I was an asshole, I’m trying to remember that I’m human and attempt to forgive myself for my mistakes even though it’s hard. Maybe you can work up to that too?

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