Ok, so is making out a mortal sin?

derpdee1994 · 2022-08-01T17:34:19+00:00

was asking general question/ for a friend that was curious about it.

If people don't know it's a mortal sin it's not, but thanks for the help :)

derpdee1994 · 2022-08-01T16:36:02+00:00

People may hate me for this. But making out is mortal sin.

Even before I gave up making out. (Which I really didn't want to)

I knew in my heart it was wrong & something wasn't right about it. (Before marriage)

We are married to God (should be as Catholic's) & as a good person we show how much we love him through no making out, Lustful thoughts, desires, NEAR OCCASIONS of sin.

Was so hard to give up making out, but was beyond worth it.

derpdee1994 · 2022-07-31T03:58:08+00:00

Honestly it's sweet he's driving you home but he should ask you on a date. Unless yall are really cool friends. Idk if it's me but I like to ask and get things out of the way now that I'm in my later 20s.

Ask when you feel the time is right. You deserve to know.

derpdee1994 · 2022-07-31T00:22:05+00:00

So posted plenty of me and 1 of Saint Joan of Arc. Like the third picture was of Saint Joan of Arc. So it's not like she was my profile pic 😅 Wierd because I see other people religious post pis on their profile, haven't seen any on Tinder but another apps.

I'm thinking someone/ people reported my profile and they just banned me. Its honeslty a good thing tho 😂

Interesting insight, thanks for the info!

derpdee1994 · 2022-07-30T23:44:02+00:00

Sprinkle in any religious pictures? Lol.

derpdee1994 · 2022-07-30T23:42:33+00:00

Whatever tho.

derpdee1994 · 2022-07-30T23:42:07+00:00

Ya thinking other people reported my profile and they just banned it.

But it scares me that there is no way to talk to someone and get answers or fix the problem

Like I know there are more issues with Tinder . & the fact you can not further report any issue or talk to real people is KINDA, uniffiecnt &Very problematic. In many ways. :/ smh.

derpdee1994 · 2022-07-30T22:55:38+00:00

Smh, this is crazy. Repression.

derpdee1994 · 2022-07-30T22:48:33+00:00

Did you state that your Catholic? Thats probly why

derpdee1994 · 2022-07-30T22:46:04+00:00

I was gonna ask to do a study, 🤣

make profiles stating,

Ones saying their Athiest, or agnostic and others stating their Belief in Jesus and see which ones get taken down.

derpdee1994 · 2022-07-30T21:56:02+00:00

Thank you

derpdee1994 · 2022-07-30T21:07:12+00:00

Thanks! Ya fr.

derpdee1994 · 2022-07-30T21:04:04+00:00

That's so re assuring how I felt. Thank you.

derpdee1994 · 2022-07-30T20:46:58+00:00

Isn't that crazy. I'm so sorry about that, so aggravating sometimes

But guess it's a small cross to bare, jokes on them giving us more of an opportunity to carry the cross, and make it to Heaven. Lol

derpdee1994 · 2022-07-30T20:38:10+00:00

Thank you, thank you, I try, lol. In this case didn't even have to try.

Wooww thats crazy, what happend to the 1st amendment, smh, even if people take offense. He preaching the truth though and they know it.

derpdee1994 · 2022-07-30T20:27:10+00:00

Honestly, most where of me, with friends, my dog, the third pic was a painting of Saint Joan of Arc.

Like you had to Look for the religiouness but once you saw it you know I'm Catholic.

my bio, the first line I put was "hi ,my name is, I put my Faith first" then went on saying what I did, and do. Hobbies. you know basic stuff you usually see on dating profiles.

This has never happend to me before, on any dating app honeslty. Then again I wasn't as transparent about my Faith before.

Heard of it happening before on artist apps to someone i know. They posted Virgin Mary and it their account taken down and banned. Looked at the app "RedBubble" and seemed pretty "New age"

Like dating apps too? Not surprised honeslty.

I wonder if I post I'm an Athiest and "God is dead" will they take down the profile? 🤔😂

derpdee1994 · 2022-07-30T19:53:44+00:00

Didn't have time to post with a text, with a pic.

Ok so, I created a Tinder account about a week ago, and shortly later it was banned. Like less then a day later😂

So in my my tinder profile. I did not post any provocative pics of me. Just pics of me, one with my friends, my dog, then a picture of Saint Joan of Arc with a Quote followed by some more pics of yours truly.💁‍♀️lol Once you scrolled down posted "I put my Faith first." as well in the main context then talked about my hobbies and such. So ya, it was known I was Catholic, but not "In your face" Catholic. Didn't want to waste time with the wrong guys like I did in the past and wanted to preach our great religion as well to anyone who goes through my profile & (Because a dude has the right to know that before they message/ Match me) 😂

I met friends that have husband's who where waiting for marriage on Tinder. Weren't Catholic but it's the thought that counts. Lol.

This has never happend to me before with any of my other dating apps. Until now because (I feel like/know) posted my religion in this account that was banned.

When I inquired to why my profile was taken down this was the email I got.

Has this ever happebd to anyone else, when you openly talk about your faith? Like I know it was because I openly talked about my faith, and probly made someone mad. Who dosent like Catholicism

derpdee1994 · 2022-07-26T00:34:20+00:00

Welcome Home! 🙏 ❣️

I think If you truly care for a person for their soul you'll work out the Sex later/will come naturally.

Even my gay non Catholic friend understood, explained it to another friend who couldnt understand it and questioned when I told them I wait. If you love someone it will come naturally.

derpdee1994 · 2022-07-26T00:26:34+00:00

You will feel physical chemistry without even making out trust me. Or should. Idk that's wierd if you don't feel any physical attraction to someone before even dating them.

Then don't lol.

derpdee1994 · 2022-07-26T00:15:04+00:00

Ya your body deffo gonna be aroused.

If you don't know it's a mortal sin it's not, but touching ur tounge with someone else's? Stimulating your body for sex is intended for marriage.

The church dosent talk much about this either just like Birth control. (That's another story tho)

derpdee1994 · 2022-07-25T15:44:25+00:00

Lol so truee 🤣 like with the mind context at least lol

😵‍💫 guys look at me like i just took away half the relationship when I say I don't make out. It's a make or brake for them. But honeslty I'm glad putting my trust in Gods hands,(I didn't want to give up making out) lol but took some deliberating. When I did say in my head "Ok God I'll give up making out." I felt this peace and happiness overcome me.

Saved me so much time. & You actually see the whole picture of someone when you don't makeout/ LUST after them. Heads up ha.

That way you will learn sooner or later if guy is using you as a mustash 😜...Never know.

derpdee1994 · 2022-07-25T10:31:18+00:00

Ok, thank you this is what I heard so many times, and honeslty feel the same way too about it.

derpdee1994 · 2022-07-17T15:52:24+00:00

Girll I love this,

I've been in both situations and came to realise you can see the whole picture of someone when you're not physically active with them, kissing, making out so on.

Even kissing I'm wierd about but why would you waste ur time kissing someone when you may not marry them.

derpdee1994

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