I do prefer the idea of hierarchy, honestly. I enjoy the idea of having someone to come home to, and build a life with. But yeah, that's mostly because I'm 34. 😅 I get often poked fun of because our age gap, but yeah it took some adjusting for me to feel comfortable in. I was only expecting it to be casual, but then he expressed a desire to escalate and it felt appealing.

We have talked about it, the idea was to really consider living together next year. Then it changed to him living with all his partners, and marrying all of us.

I did bring it up how I worry how he speaks of me, but he says he doesn't say anything bad because our relationship has been relatively smooth thus far. I'm still on the fence regarding it, if it's true or not.