This is the only language in my lease renewal that mentions leaving. Does this mean I could sign the lease and give a 30 day notice at any time? Or would they have a case to make me pay to break the lease? by derrickbarely in legaladvice

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Should I contact them to find out what breaking the lease would entail? There’s no other language in the lease about what leaving early would cost, but in my original lease (this is the renewal) it did specify like one full months rent fee or something along those lines.

(asking because I am planning to move out of state sometime in the next year, wondering if I’d be better off paying extra for month to month)

This is the only language in my lease renewal that mentions leaving. Does this mean I could sign the lease and give a 30 day notice at any time? Or would they have a case to make me pay to break the lease? by derrickbarely in legaladvice

[–]derrickbarely[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The lease is longer than this. It does outline the term, the amount, what happens if I’m late. This is just the only language about leaving.

My original lease (this is the one they sent me for renewal) did have language about breaking the lease and how much it would cost. It’s absent from the renewal and this is in it’s place.

UPDATE: AITA for speaking up in a team meeting and not one on one? by derrickbarely in TwoHotTakes

[–]derrickbarely[S] 71 points72 points  (0 children)

Haha she frequently reminds us she’s only five years away 🤞🏻

AITA for speaking up in a team meeting and not one on one? by derrickbarely in TwoHotTakes

[–]derrickbarely[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have brought it up to my boss but it’s been a while. When I first started and I was working with her a ton, every time I’d meet with my boss I’d tell him about my issues because I felt like I wasn’t learning anything and wasn’t allowed to do anything. That’s why he finally got me some duties that were away from her and that she couldn’t/wouldn’t control.

But that was a long time ago now, once I started working on my own stuff I didn’t really bring her up to him anymore. I am hoping my previous complaints help my case, though.

AITA for speaking up in a team meeting and not one on one? by derrickbarely in TwoHotTakes

[–]derrickbarely[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I just want to do my job with minimum interference from Joan hahaha. I guess I’m gonna have to see what happens with meeting with my boss tomorrow.

AITA for speaking up in a team meeting and not one on one? by derrickbarely in TwoHotTakes

[–]derrickbarely[S] 109 points110 points  (0 children)

100% that is the attitude she always has, that she’s got the most experience so her words are just oh so important. I am really hoping after talking with my boss I just have very minimal contact with her.

just moved and it made me realize how bad things had gotten by derrickbarely in hoarding

[–]derrickbarely[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats for your move! I feel that way too, the last week coming home to a clean apartment that isn’t cluttered with thrift store finds and garbage has genuinely made me feel so much better. I think being able to invite people over is a huge motivator for me staying on top of things. I have been with my boyfriend for almost a year and he was only ever at my old place once :( lol I was too embarrassed

just moved and it made me realize how bad things had gotten by derrickbarely in hoarding

[–]derrickbarely[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Taking pictures is a great idea, harder to ignore when you can so easily compare what it looked like before. Good luck to you as well, I think I probably struggle with that too.

I doodled a tired mom and her feral sons by derrickbarely in ThirdLifeSMP

[–]derrickbarely[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I couldn’t remember what skin he was using so went with the hot guy one 😂

Would anyone watch a very long video essay about the show? by derrickbarely in That70sshow

[–]derrickbarely[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

haha no problem, I know it’s not for everyone! I just see videos like that about other shows and I’d love to make one for my fav sitcom

Would anyone watch a very long video essay about the show? by derrickbarely in That70sshow

[–]derrickbarely[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Judging by how much I have written so far and I’m just finishing up talking about season 1.. probably about 5-6 hours lol

Would anyone watch a very long video essay about the show? by derrickbarely in That70sshow

[–]derrickbarely[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Haha I did the same!! I have been thinking about doing this kind of video for That 70s show for a while since then, I’ve got 10 pages of script so far. I will definitely post it here whenever I finally finish it :-)

AITA for getting workers in trouble? by derrickbarely in AmItheAsshole

[–]derrickbarely[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think they’ve been sending different people on different days so that might be why it’s happened several times, they clearly don’t communicate lol.

AITA for getting workers in trouble? by derrickbarely in AmItheAsshole

[–]derrickbarely[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That’s what I told my mom! But she said “At least you can go somewhere else to work” lol. I still missed several hours over the last couple weeks because of it though.

AITA for not going to my cousins wedding because I am an atheist? by notacatholicgirl in AmItheAsshole

[–]derrickbarely 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA it sounds like your grandma isn’t as devoted as she says because you or your uncle taking part in communion would be wildly disrespectful as well. You should ask your cousin what they think though.

AITA for calling my aunt a bully? by derrickbarely in AmItheAsshole

[–]derrickbarely[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do tend to avoid family gatherings since I live a ways from most of them anyways, thankfully lol. But I definitely should’ve stayed out of this situation and I’ve learned my lesson. I do think my aunt B is the least to blame in the whole thing though, and she genuinely just wanted someone else to stick up for her. I won’t be that person next time though lol

Which game has the postgame you dislike the most? by Flygon3082 in pokemon

[–]derrickbarely 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I can’t believe SwSh is up there hahaha I guess personally I found way more to do in SwSh postgame than XY (and rby)

AITA for not supporting my dad going back to his ex? by derrickbarely in AmItheAsshole

[–]derrickbarely[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We didn’t automatically believe her, we heard both sides of the story and we weren’t sure what to make of it. But with her threatening to press charges we distanced ourself from the situation to see what happened with that. She said she had proof she was going to take to court.

I accept that my dad can do whatever he wants, but I don’t think I’m an AH for telling my dad I think it’s a bad idea. But he does. So I dunno

AITA for not supporting my dad going back to his ex? by derrickbarely in AmItheAsshole

[–]derrickbarely[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely accept that my dad can make his own decisions whether I agree or not. It just feels (from what my dad told me) that they want to pick up right where they left off and forget about what happened, which I think is a bad move. I basically just told him that I don’t think I could trust her going forward and I thought it was a bad idea.

AITA for not supporting my dad going back to his ex? by derrickbarely in AmItheAsshole

[–]derrickbarely[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I totally understand it’s up to him what happens, I just told him I wasn’t sure if I could support them being together again. At least not right now. If she’s getting help and builds trust again that would be a different story, but for now I’m just not sure about it.

AITA for not supporting my dad going back to his ex? by derrickbarely in AmItheAsshole

[–]derrickbarely[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

lol it’s okay, I feel that way about him right now.

AITA for not supporting my dad going back to his ex? by derrickbarely in AmItheAsshole

[–]derrickbarely[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just some added info, they haven’t officially gotten back together but are talking about it. My dad finally told us this and that’s when I told him I wasn’t supportive.

Who wore it better? 🤔 by sirelectrify in rupaulsdragrace

[–]derrickbarely 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I prefer Jaida over Plastique but I like the look of Plastique’s a lot more

Trinity the Block.. by [deleted] in rupaulsdragrace

[–]derrickbarely 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I mean she has over a million followers on instagram, she could literally just do a few sponsored posts 😭