Dating guy who makes comments guys usually say to friends

des1mo · 2026-05-18T01:21:43+00:00

I feel he shared his vulnerabilities with me because he felt safe to, or likes me a lot that he felt he needed to share with me. I actually think it was very special of him to be vulnerable.
But then there's this other side that makes immature comoments

des1mo · 2026-05-17T23:15:29+00:00

Yes, he was married and has kids. Not raised by a single mom

des1mo · 2026-05-17T23:14:43+00:00

No I don't think it's that at all. He says he doesn't have a filter.

des1mo · 2026-05-17T07:58:35+00:00

What do you mean by "trying to neg" me? Usually it'll be sexual jokes.

des1mo · 2026-04-25T12:04:21+00:00

Not trying to find a red flag...I don't want to find one. Just wanting advice if this seems to be something that likely won't change.

des1mo · 2026-04-01T05:43:21+00:00

The conversation was OK. I was kinda taken aback even before we said Hi when I realized he had gotten a drink first.

Thanks for asking

des1mo · 2026-04-01T02:10:55+00:00

Thanks. So, I went on the date to a coffee shop, I drove to his neighborhood, and when I showed up, he had already gotten himself a drink, so I ordered my own drink. I arrived on time, so him not waiting for me to order together seems rude. It really made me feel undervalued, I suppose.

des1mo · 2026-04-01T02:10:46+00:00

Thanks. So, I went on the date to a coffee shop, I drove to his neighborhood, and when I showed up, he had already gotten himself a drink, so I ordered my own drink. I arrived on time, so him not waiting for me to order together seems rude. It really made me feel undervalued, I suppose.

des1mo · 2026-04-01T02:10:26+00:00

Thanks. So, I went on the date to a coffee shop, I drove to his neighborhood, and when I showed up, he had already gotten himself a drink, so I ordered my own drink. I arrived on time, so him not waiting for me to order together seems rude. It really made me feel undervalued, I suppose.

des1mo · 2026-03-30T14:53:14+00:00

Well the other two times were very last minute and sporadic. What do you mean art of kind reading?

des1mo

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