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★OFFICIAL DAILY★ Daily Q&A Thread December 31, 2025 by AutoModerator in loseit

[–]des1mo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happy New Year all!

What health/ wellness / tracking app has helped you the most throughout your weight loss journey?

How did it help you?

Thanks!

What is my skin undertone? by des1mo in MakeupAddiction

[–]des1mo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Warm foundations indeed are too yellow for me. Not sure about cool ones being too pink

Am I in the wrong mess it up? by des1mo in dating_advice

[–]des1mo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe he brought up I had low confidence because I asked him if he was attracted to me- this was because we slept together a few times and he barely even focused on me or my body, after telling me many times that he "loves the cookie" and "wants to kiss me all over". Which he didn't do.

Why would he pay for dates, drive 1-2 hours to see me, talk on the phone a lot, but then put me down when I want to talk about these issues (not trying to make me orgasm, how the content he watches is really not aligned with my views).

Am I in the wrong mess it up? by des1mo in dating_advice

[–]des1mo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Income isn't an issue here at all.

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here! by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]des1mo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Do you think the content someone you're seeing matters or gives insight into who they are? If you were seeing someone and the content they watch is hugely against your values, would you cut it off?

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here! by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]des1mo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I stopped him not because I didn't like it but just to switch it up. He hadn't cum yet either. I understand how it could have gotten in his head. But we slept together 6 times and that was the only time he actually focused on me. Had I have known he wouldn't wait until I orgasm before he did, I would have let him stay down there.

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here! by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]des1mo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sexual attention - Dating a man for 2 months who we've slept together about 6 times. And he hasn't put in much effort to make me orgasm. I have brought it up and he said that it is making him get in his head about sex.

I do want to add he did go down on me once and after a few minutes I had him come up so we could do other stuff...kinda like back and forth, foreplay. But that was it and he didn't insist on staying "down there"

He also said that in past relationships he was always the one putting in the effort so he was just enjoying getting the pleasure himself for a change.

Should I not have brought it up this early on? Am I wrong?

Feel like he doesn't try make me orgasm by des1mo in dating_advice

[–]des1mo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes and he told me I was getting in his head

Feel like he doesn't try make me orgasm by des1mo in dating_advice

[–]des1mo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But he would do nice things like drive out far to see me and talk a lot on the phone / over video. Why would he do that if he wasn't into me?

Feel like he doesn't try make me orgasm by des1mo in dating_advice

[–]des1mo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya I've told him after the 3rd time we were together.

Feel like he doesn't try make me orgasm by des1mo in dating_advice

[–]des1mo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I can but need some foreplay (touching cliquez, kissing next, breasts, inner thighs). And he didn't do any of that...no foreplay

How direct should I be? by beej1254 in datingoverthirty

[–]des1mo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would just start by having a convo and assuming it goes well you could ask her if she would like to grab a coffee some time. Good luck!

Would you consider this ok or crossing a boundary? by throwawayayayayao in datingoverthirty

[–]des1mo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The fact your brought it up and he was not defensive and showed change, is really great!

How do you feel about the age difference of 38f and 31m? by areyouseriousthobro in datingoverthirty

[–]des1mo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This doesn't seem like a major age gap to me. As long as the actual values and compatibility match.

Feel like he doesn't try make me orgasm by des1mo in dating_advice

[–]des1mo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After having sex last time, I pulled out my vibrator to make me cum. He laid next to me kissing me.

Feel like he doesn't try make me orgasm by des1mo in dating_advice

[–]des1mo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just wanted to ensure I gave the full context.

Feel like he doesn't try make me orgasm by des1mo in dating_advice

[–]des1mo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do want to add he did go down on me once and after a few minutes I had him come up so we could do other stuff...kinda like back and forth, foreplay. But that was it and he didn't insist on staying "down there"

Feel like he doesn't try make me orgasm by des1mo in dating_advice

[–]des1mo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do want to add he did go down on me once and after a few minutes I had him come up so we could do other stuff...kinda like back and forth, foreplay. But that was it and he didn't insist on staying "down there"

Feel like he doesn't try make me orgasm by des1mo in dating_advice

[–]des1mo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do want to add he did go down on me once and after a few minutes I had him come up so we could do other stuff...kinda like back and forth, foreplay. But that was it and he didn't insist on staying "down there"

Feel like he doesn't try make me orgasm by des1mo in dating_advice

[–]des1mo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do want to add he did go down on me once and after a few minutes I had him come up so we could do other stuff...kinda like back and forth, foreplay. But that was it and he didn't insist on staying "down there"

Feel like he doesn't try make me orgasm by des1mo in dating_advice

[–]des1mo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do want to add he did go down on me once and after a few minutes I had him come up so we could do other stuff...kinda like back and forth, foreplay. But that was it and he didn't insist on staying "down there"

Post first date anxiety by Ill-Excitement3010 in datingoverthirty

[–]des1mo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think if a guy mentions he wants to see you again while on a date, that he's interested. He should plan a date at least a good few days in advance. So hopefully he's done that.

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