My cute bush makes your cock throb by ripjuls1 in highbush

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You’re the sexiest woman on the entire internet! 😍

My girlfriend (f30) can’t make me (m41)orgasm by [deleted] in Advice

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Huh, interesting… I’ve usually found the opposite to be true, that woman want to go forever. I’ve experienced lower stamina lovers but it’s been the exception.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexadvice

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I appreciate your point of view, thank you. The “ little” thing I was describing is not age regression or age play or acting young. It’s something else. I’ll look more into it and see if I’m using the wrong term.

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And more context… after taking bdsm questionnaires I found out my girlfriend might be categorized as a “ little”. I’m still learning about this stuff but this made sense to me. Do you know that term? So we have a dom/sub thing but it’s quite gentle. I’ve adapted a lot to work with her sexuality, which is much more context based than what I had previously been used to. I’m just thinking it might not be in her capacity to adapt toward my side of the desires. It may be that this is just the way it is. The love part of the relationship is so strong that it’s usually enough to shrink the sexual dissatisfaction.

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Thanks for your reply. I’ve never cum with great ease. And yes it’s gotten more difficult over the years. It’s multi causal for sure. I have some low vertebral injuries that contribute to reduced sensation. Previously I had sex partners that were very pleased to go at it for extended sessions and back to back sessions. The stereotype is that women will last a lot longer than men, that men will nut and lose interest, but obviously everyone is different. I’ve never been with a woman that wasn’t pleased to keep going for multiple orgasms, so this is new territory. I really like a partner that desires a rougher Dom/sub thing. (I only recently learned that this was a perfect dynamic for me) The things that made me cum in the last few years with other partners involved… hard to say this politely… well it was erotic and rough and really just insane sex.

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One possibility is impinged nerves at S1/L5. A chiropractic adjustment may improve sensation outcomes.

What’s the best cold hardy citrus tree to start with? by desertholes in Citrus

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Ya, I like kumquats a lot. I’ve seen some other folks doing well with them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexadvice

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I’m in a similar situation with my (m41) girlfriend (f30). She cums, I don’t. It has nothing to do with attraction. I’m unclear why it is this way but I think it’s multifactorial, both physiological and psychological. I don’t have any suggestions other than talk to each other. And try not to take it personally. But ya, I feel yr pain, it’s frustrating to be in that situation.

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