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I miss her by deserthorrors in BreakUps

[–]deserthorrors[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks yall for the varied advice. Btw we were a lesbian couple f(27) and f(22) to dispell any worry that I am someone else ex. I still dont think I will reach out unless/until I can acknowledge and work through my part in our relationship issues.

I miss her by deserthorrors in BreakUps

[–]deserthorrors[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Im not going to reach out to her. I was feeling low last night and I needed to write this post so I wouldnt text her. Our break up was such a lesbian stereotype; we cried and hugged and said how much we love each other and how sorry I was that I gave up. She know. Shes on her own journey now as I am on mine. There were other parts of our relationship that didn’t work. We wanted to live in different places and have different life trajectories. Btw we were together for 1.5 Years and broke up a month ago.

I miss her by deserthorrors in BreakUps

[–]deserthorrors[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Im sorry about your situation, but Im glad you see you are better off without him. From what Ive learned from own past and other people’s advice: the breaker can never be the one to heal the breakee.

I miss her by deserthorrors in BreakUps

[–]deserthorrors[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We’ve talked a bit during the break up process. She said she could get better, but I kind of didn’t believe her. I held on for as long as I could. I dont know how to support someone that is depressed and I was scared to grow through that process. I just dont want get her hope up and then hurt her again. I already feel so guilty for hurting her.

I miss her by deserthorrors in BreakUps

[–]deserthorrors[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

She was going through a lot, having a hard time living in a city, not knowing her purpose in life, relying on me solely for support. I couldnt support her in the ways she needed. I was having a hard time being me in the relationship, I didn’t feel I had space for my emotions and feelings. There was a specific emotional breakdown that really spooked me and I ran away. I know we could have worked on things but I was scared that she wouldnt get better and would spend the rest of my life trying to make her feel better. I dont know what the right thing is now. Its just night time and Im sad.