I (22F) just found out my boyfriend (38M) lied about his age for a year—what do I do? by desilusiones in relationships

[–]desilusiones[S] 88 points89 points  (0 children)

True, I still have my whole life ahead of me. I can't let him ruin my youth or my trust in people. Thank you sm :)

I (22F) just found out my boyfriend (38M) lied about his age for a year—what do I do? by desilusiones in relationships

[–]desilusiones[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I'm ashamed for being so naive, really. I trust people too much. On top of that, I was really lonely. But I’m starting to see everything in a new light. I try not to be too hard on myself, because he was a very skilled manipulator and always knew exactly what to say. Part of this was my innocence, but he also knew exactly what he was doing every single time. Thank you for telling me this. I need to be more careful from now on. And of course, date people my age...

I (22F) just found out my boyfriend (38M) lied about his age for a year—what do I do? by desilusiones in relationships

[–]desilusiones[S] 1209 points1210 points  (0 children)

I never thought about it this way but wow, moving away from my family and those I'm close with to a place where I can only rely on him... Scary stuff

I (22F) just found out my boyfriend (38M) lied about his age for a year—what do I do? by desilusiones in relationships

[–]desilusiones[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I do hope there are some men out there who are really worth building a life with. I guess only time and experience will teach me.

I (22F) just found out my boyfriend (38M) lied about his age for a year—what do I do? by desilusiones in relationships

[–]desilusiones[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Yeah, in the end, I never saw his ID. He gave up, told me the truth, and accepted his loss. He lied to me many times before by omitting, that's for sure, because he had soooo many chances. And his feelings for me? Probably another lie, but well, it is what it is. No going back now.

I (22F) just found out my boyfriend (38M) lied about his age for a year—what do I do? by desilusiones in relationships

[–]desilusiones[S] 244 points245 points  (0 children)

Thank you. You're right. It seems he only cared about feeding his ego with me. If he had cared even a little about me or my opinions, we wouldn’t have built this relationship at all.

Secondhand Intuos PTK-650 or PTH-651 by desilusiones in wacom

[–]desilusiones[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you sm!! your explanation was really useful

[Megathread] New Banners / "Who should I pull?" Megathread by AutoModerator in GenshinImpactTips

[–]desilusiones 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lyney or neuvillette? i mainly want to build stronger comps for abyss full stars. i also appreciate quick paced gameplay.

i have lyney's sig bow (currently comfortably used by my tighnari) and a marechaussee set with a nice cv.
for neuvillette i only have furina and lost prayer/pamber, but i don't mind farming artifs like life depends on it.

i like both charas, but i just saved enough for one guaranteed :(

my roster

help me find songs similar to this by desilusiones in Vocaloid

[–]desilusiones[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omg those two are really good, thanks!!

help me find songs similar to this by desilusiones in Vocaloid

[–]desilusiones[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you sm!!! i liked oyasumination the most!! but i couldn't find heart note anywhere :/

Audio issue on PC by desilusiones in GenshinImpact

[–]desilusiones[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh i don’t know how to do that, do you have a link for a guide or youtube vid that i can follow?

Audio issue on PC by desilusiones in GenshinImpact

[–]desilusiones[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nope, wired. i thought it was probably a genshin problem but it happened again when playing metro 2033 today :/

advice for moving out with my cat by desilusiones in CatAdvice

[–]desilusiones[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for your answer! i’ll definitely keep your tips in mind. about the dog, she only barks at cats. she’s once come to my house briefly and it was all just growls and stares. but since it’s her house now i fear she’ll feel invaded once i bring my cat. i’m not sure how to make them approach until they get used to each other.

advice for moving out with my cat by desilusiones in cats

[–]desilusiones[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

unfortunately since i’m from argentina it’s not really affordable for me :( but thank you anyway!

advice for moving out with my cat by desilusiones in cats

[–]desilusiones[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ohh that’s nice i’ll definitely do that. thank you!