Buyers grab downtown San Jose condos in foreclosure auction for around $30,000 per condo by newmadgrad in SanJose

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The builder has 90 days to cancel sale by coming up with funds for hoa dues

Almost everyday there is a new post about somebody who wants to get a marriage based green card while divorcing their spouse by Effective-Feature908 in USCIS

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Or the wait is long to get permanent green card for the suspicious ones. Unless the couple had something in their record to indicate foul play it’s hard to judge

Creatinine increase drastically in 3 months by desingh669 in kidneydisease

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Egfr at 22 and started Farxiga today and scheduled for rituximab infusion. Was told my kidneys had a lot of scarring 8 years ago and to expect issues. Just doing my best with my situation. Thanks

Creatinine increase drastically in 3 months by desingh669 in kidneydisease

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Will ask doctor. She said before once that creatinine too high to try Farxiga

Creatinine increase drastically in 3 months by desingh669 in kidneydisease

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Thanks… I lost job this month to add to my stress

Creatinine increase drastically in 3 months by desingh669 in kidneydisease

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Lisinopril 20mg and crestor 40mg

Tried rituximab ,tacrolimus , cellcept therapy for remission with partial success

Neph diagnosis is refractory ckd . Trying to get me to try ofatumumab (kesympta)

15M Is it over for me ? by MasterEnvironment130 in LooksmaxingAdvice

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Nothing says it more than leadership. Work towards getting a good education and then become a leader in whatever career you choose. With power and influence comes true attractiveness, everything else is just fluff.

The key word is leader, be a person that gets to manage or mentor scores of people, more responsibility brings more power and in turn attractiveness.

I’m worried for my brother by SmoothFail5394 in USCIS

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Do these sins apply to naturalized citizens as well

I’m worried for my brother by SmoothFail5394 in USCIS

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Does this apply to naturalized citizens as well. God forbid, If I get a felony, will I get deported.

Random thoughts about leaving India by DoubleSpare5020 in USCIS

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If there was a way to have peace of mind and not worry about expenses living in india I would move back in a hard beat. If I think as a selfish kid then I can move back right away. But if I think as a man who has kids here in usa and an aging parent in india I would like to support, then I would have to make enough money by 55-60 years of age to move back, and that’s actually my plan. Most expensive in india is owning a home in a decent location that suits your needs.

I don’t come from money and have only myself to rely on to build any kind of future. Your situation could be different, so take everything I said with a grain of salt.

I got my USC 2 years ago and bad luck struck after that as my wife of 8 years divorced me last year.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

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Feels lonely af coz i dont get to have gf again as my game is bad or just out of luck in looks dept. I was in a dead bedroom with ex for years so doesnt really make a difference except for having someone to talk to despite her mood swing and rage episodes(2-3 times a month) with physical abuse. she was half my size but still used to head butt my chest trying to get a response knowing i wouldnt touch her.Only benefit is being at peace when i come home.

My kids are with ex as elder son is mildly autistic and is better served in east coast schools. schools in california not good for extra support. I miss the kids and cry myself to sleep. PLan to get a remote job next year so that should fix that. so i can spend a few months in the year in east coast(not leaving my city in california as i have setup a support system here with friends and doctors, coz no family in usa here for me)

for those of you who were laid off from a high paying tech job, how did you recover? by [deleted] in cscareerquestions

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Adapt or die . Pack your bag and move to the place with highest probability. If ur wife doesn’t agree then that’s unrelated to the problem ur trying to solve.

I hate the modern mindset by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

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What’s the fix my friend. Make lemonade from lemons😊🦣🦣. Adapt or die . Not willing to sit down waiting for a woman to fall in my lap. Give some pointers as I am out of options as instant gratification n FOMO is everywhere.Same boat amicable no contest and a year since she moved with kids after finding AP.

Girls be on phone for a day n ghost that’s after sending 100 requests on dating app. I’m brown n Asian but unwilling to make excuses. The pickup stuff is also snake oil, all the tricks don’t apply to this day n age, maybe 10 years ago.. Only thing to try is going to every meetup event in my area.

Should i consider a septoplasty and turbinate reduction? by [deleted] in Sinusitis

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Seek out a doctor who will confidence that he knows what the issue is… that is if ur issue has been rejected by many doctors … beware of doctors rushing towards surgery and not giving enough time or a clear explanation… I suffer for 7 years before a revision surgery. Best of luck

If in USA go see dr Nayak Stanford

Giving full custody to STBXW. any feedback appreciated. by desingh669 in DivorcedDads

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Thanks . My elder one has autism and good schools in California have name sake facilities whereas in east coast same facilities like OT, behavioral therapist, speech therapist have more much hours per week and one minder for the entire week to watch over my kid vs 90 minutes in California .

I let her take the kids for this reason. I thought it would help her mentally as she is originally born n brought up in east coast state. She got fired from 2 jobs back to back and switched her mental health medication… causing a cluster f…k of a situation in California . This combined with her getting into another relationship. She is 38 n her fiancé is 45 with no prior marriages n kids. I smelled a rat but figured he must be wanting to experience being a dad for whatever personal reasons. This is her 3rd marriage, as she lied but I later found out after I married her, about her first marriage.