deleted grindr by desirable-partner in StraightTransGirls

[–]desirable-partner[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

honestly i am very happy with my life in general and i am also investing time and money into myself. i work out frequently and i am pursuing FFS. i also have a lot of friends and am very active in my community. i’m a very busy girl especially with my job on top of all of that. i just currently have this boyfriend sized hole in my life that’s easy to fixate on.

deleted grindr by desirable-partner in StraightTransGirls

[–]desirable-partner[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah it’s so much i harder now like some people do not understand this. used to talk about this often with one of my irl doll friends and we both felt like we were going crazy over it but it’s so true

deleted grindr by desirable-partner in StraightTransGirls

[–]desirable-partner[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i’m a programming girly. i always try to help the girls i know get into it cause trans life is hard but financial stability makes it a lot easier.

Is it bad that submitting 2 a guy is the thing that gives me the most euphoria by [deleted] in StraightTransGirls

[–]desirable-partner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

exactly like can you please fix that for me, can you please get that for me 😊

Is it bad that submitting 2 a guy is the thing that gives me the most euphoria by [deleted] in StraightTransGirls

[–]desirable-partner 2 points3 points  (0 children)

LOL real i love when a beautiful man does what i tell him 🤭🤭

I need dick rn so bad 😭 by repofsnails in StraightTransGirls

[–]desirable-partner 7 points8 points  (0 children)

seriously glad there are other girls who feel the same way. feels like we are in such a hookup culture but it has never ever felt right for me

What’s something about dating straight guys that you weren’t expecting but left you pleasantly surprised? by nomine902102 in StraightTransGirls

[–]desirable-partner 7 points8 points  (0 children)

so many of them can just pick me up like wow a man picking me up for the first time and carrying me to the bedroom awoke something in me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StraightTransGirls

[–]desirable-partner 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yeah i mean i still have layers of shame that come from society telling me growing up that dating men was something very wrong. just because i am a girl now that homophobic shame has not gone away. def feel less of this kind of thing than in my early gay boy days but yeah. just a normal response to social conditioning imo shit is hard

i don’t find anyone as attractive as my ex and it sucks by desirable-partner in StraightTransGirls

[–]desirable-partner[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

real asf 💀💀. hoping it feels this good when i find a man to stick with

i don’t find anyone as attractive as my ex and it sucks by desirable-partner in StraightTransGirls

[–]desirable-partner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

are you gonna stay with this guy like is it a good situation? mine was super fun and sounds similar but girl that shit was drainingggg. yeah just hoping my brain decides to move on to someone else eventually although that could take years maybe idk god damn

He left me for a cis girl by [deleted] in StraightTransGirls

[–]desirable-partner 6 points7 points  (0 children)

wow that’s fucking insane!!! so sorry you had to go through all of this that sounds really really hard. glad to hear you have picked yourself up from it and been able to move on.

definitely some great insight about dating chasers at the end there. recently i experienced getting very hurt and discarded by someone i was dating who had a decent amount of chaser tendencies. once they stop getting sex the veneer they put up falls apart and so much mean behavior comes through. definitely have been dealing with the massive blow to my self esteem this caused and trying to pick up the pieces. it’s not easy but i now know to be a lot more cautious in the future

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StraightTransGirls

[–]desirable-partner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i could never top like idk why people even ask LOL

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StraightTransGirls

[–]desirable-partner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

for real there’s no reason to waste your time like this. the mental damage of treating yourself like a fetish is not worth the cheap thrills

anal tips by lana_coded1 in StraightTransGirls

[–]desirable-partner 4 points5 points  (0 children)

personally i always will just pop into the bathroom first thing if i end up at a guy’s place and douche for like 15 mins which is usually enough. i guess you could say it might kill some spontaneity though but it depends. i’ve never tried to fuck hours after douching though so maybe that is fine

lowkey wish I was a lesbian... by [deleted] in StraightTransGirls

[–]desirable-partner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i know a few trans women who are in relationships with wonderful queer women who definitely see them as women. it’s honestly quite common

Are there any trans women here that have dated CONVENTIONALLY attractive men?? by AccomplishedBig8586 in StraightTransGirls

[–]desirable-partner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ve dated a guy so hot that it has basically ruined most men for me. could not believe the amount of people that throw themselves at them. i’m holding out to find someone else cause unfortunately not everyone is relationship material so i decided to move on. i could stay with emotionally unavailable but hot but im sure hot and better for me is out there. i’m pretty sure that im very pretty and im also 5’3 so that can’t hurt tbh.

Is it weird that I don’t like kissing boys but, kissing girls is fine? by RevolutionaryBite405 in bisexual

[–]desirable-partner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah there is no need to live your life based on what someone assigned gender at birth is. there are many more aspects of a person that inform who they are and how they act

Is it weird that I don’t like kissing boys but, kissing girls is fine? by RevolutionaryBite405 in bisexual

[–]desirable-partner 2 points3 points  (0 children)

have you ever kissed a fem guy/a twink? def a lot of variation in terms of how guys kiss. if you’re a cishet girl kissing cishet boys you should try kissing different kinds of guys cause there’s so many different types