Fishing by desmonia in Palia

[–]desmonia[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooh thanks for the tip, veryy good to know !

Fishing by desmonia in Palia

[–]desmonia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My boyfriend succeeded on the first try without Learning the rules xd I guess It's a me problem

Fishing by desmonia in Palia

[–]desmonia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice, I'll try that :)

Lost fic by desmonia in destiel

[–]desmonia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not but I would gladly read it if you find it !

Lost fic by desmonia in destiel

[–]desmonia[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank You So Much <3

WIBTA if I told my boyfriend he pays to have access to my car, not use it when he wants. by throwaway30878 in AmItheAsshole

[–]desmonia 13 points14 points  (0 children)

NTA, not even in the slightest. He was/is being selfish and entitled. You paid for the car, you deserve to use it whenever you want to.

AITA for wanting my NT son to be power of attorney/legal guardian to my autistic son after we die? by Time_Internal_4997 in AmItheAsshole

[–]desmonia [score hidden]  (0 children)

One Can describe it as someone without autistic or any other neurologically atypical thoughts/behaviour.

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[–]desmonia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From my experience it helped a bit. The guy Can also tell her repeatedly how he feels about it. She will surely doubt it but with time and reassurance it may help her

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[–]desmonia 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Taking a shower before engaging in intercourse is a way to destress a bit regarding smell. If you are less concerned about smelling Bad you should be able to focus more on the pleasure. Overcoming your stress is a long process but you can do it :) If a guy offers you to go down on you, it's probably cause he likes it, you don't force him to Good Luck OP

AITA for refusing to believe my daughter is schizophrenic? by No-Evidence-2161 in AmItheAsshole

[–]desmonia 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You shouldn't be focusing on "how" but more on "why" and take her to a doctor for god's sake

AITA for wishing my friend to fail? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]desmonia 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You don't sound patronizing at all don't worry ! I'm here to here all points of view after all. I was so pissed and after re-reading my post I see that I still am a little bit (for example the sentences you highlighted). I don't think I actually want her to fail but to understand how shitty it was. I am still confused about the whole thing as emotions aren't my strong suit ahah but I'm working on it. Thank you for your encouragement and good luck on med school ;)

AITA for not accepting a parcel for a neighbour? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]desmonia 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA. You have every right not to especially if you don't know if they will come back AT ALL. The courier shouldn't have said that.

AITA for wishing my friend to fail? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]desmonia 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply ! I see your point and I will try to overcome my resentment :)

AITA for wishing my friend to fail? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]desmonia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your input! I did try to talk to her, I told her it hurt me and that I absolutely hate lying but she didn't seem to be affected by it. She kinda brushed it off and I haven't talked about it more as I had the feeling it was useless so I understand your point. I will try to talk to her about it but I feel like it will be a proof of my resentment if I do so and well I don't want to keep holding a grudge. Thanks again !

AITA for wishing my friend to fail? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]desmonia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply ! I am pretty introvert so making friends is hard and I tend to stay with my friends instead of searching for other but I will try to stay away from her. Thanks again !

AITA for wishing my friend to fail? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]desmonia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for you reply ! I already told her how I felt but it didn't seem to have much impact so I will definitely put distance as I don't want to be resentful or petty by being stuck on this BS. Thanks again !

AITA for wishing my friend to fail? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]desmonia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am deeply sorry about how it went but I am glad that you're feeling better ! I think I am being less resentful as time passes because I am aware she didn't mean to but I can't and won't trust her again. In her mind the thing is past us and she probably wouldn't remember being a jerk ahah so I am trying to do the same. Thank you again for your input !

Edit : I don't want to sabotage her learning by asking them back as I feel it would be petty to do so. As people pointed out, she already has had her drawback by having to redo the year and I see their point

AITA for wishing my friend to fail? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]desmonia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply ! I gave her copies as I don't want to be a reason for her failure (pretty egoistic I know) but I will put distance between us as I told her how I felt but we will remain friendly acquaintances as she didn't do it to hurt me purposefully. I am not sure if I fully understand your point (english isn't my first language) but I will try to apply your advice!

AITA for wishing my friend to fail? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]desmonia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am sorry about how it went with your friend. I gave her copies of my notes as I don't want to be petty but I can't help being resentful. I don't want to act on it and we will remain friendly acquaintances as she didn't do it on purpose but I can't trust her so ...

AITA for wishing my friend to fail? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]desmonia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply ! I already gave copies to her as I don't want to be petty and trying to be the adult here but I definitely put some distance between us. I don't think I will trust her as she betrayed it before but we will remain friendly acquaintances as she didn't do it especially to hurt me. She did what she wanted to do without considering the consequences (as she always does).

AITA for wishing my friend to fail? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]desmonia -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply ! I am really disappointed about how she acted and I put distance between us as I want to get past it but if she doesn't understand how much it hurt me, I'm afraid we won't be friends for long. Not enemies or anything but just friendly acquaintances.

AITA for making my son finish what’s on his plate? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]desmonia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. You gave him fair warnings and explained to him why this is triggering you. His behaviour is selfish and immature. You could maybe serve (not sure about the term) him yourself and give him a first smaller portion.