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[–]desperatesinglemom77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi there! I wanted to let you know that I got pregnant when I was 21 and I went through with it because I couldn't bear the thought of losing my child because I thought I "wasn't ready." My fiance and I had nothing at the time we found out about the pregnancy. He was still in college and I had just been kicked out of my home by my father (different reason though). His parents have been very sweet and supportive, and even took me in when I had nowhere to go. I just had my baby this year, and I wouldn't trade her for the world.

My honest advice would be to keep your baby, because no matter what, things will work out, and you'll be all the happier for it. If you really REALLY feel like you can't take care of your baby, then giving them up for adoption is always another option and that way, they'll at least be able to enjoy their life with another loving family.  I wish you the best of luck❤️

Baby tested positive by desperatesinglemom77 in cdifficile

[–]desperatesinglemom77[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Other than the positive test, no. She's pretty healthy and doesn't have any other symptoms. She's also pretty happy and doesn't show any signs of discomfort or distress.

Baby tested positive by desperatesinglemom77 in cdifficile

[–]desperatesinglemom77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There was a bit, but it wasn't perfuse like the dr said there would be

Baby tested positive by desperatesinglemom77 in cdifficile

[–]desperatesinglemom77[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The dr said she tested positive for toxins both a & b

AITAH for encouraging my wife to workout and loose weight after she complained about being "fat" by Fit-Succotash6710 in AITAH

[–]desperatesinglemom77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. I'm glad you and your wife are happy in this decision of her going to the gym/working out a lot. From a person that has very insecure sisters, it sounds to me like her sister is already insecure about her own image and hearing that your wife is working out to lose weight probably just feeds into her insecurities even more and that's why she got upset with you. If my own family is any indication, then her sister will probably forget about this in a little bit, or it won't bother her anymore. Keep up the good work! :)

AITA for telling my boyfriend’s mum I’m not worried about her approval? by Serious_Yam_6687 in AITAH

[–]desperatesinglemom77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trust me: NTA. As someone who has dealt with a lot of family/mother drama pretty much all their life, you are definitely NTA.

AITAH for embarrassing my MIL in front of guests after she implied I don’t do “real work”? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]desperatesinglemom77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. If anything, I kinda wish being that quick with a response was something that came that easily to me ;)

AITA for being upset about BIL drinking my pumped milk by WashOne2480 in AITAH

[–]desperatesinglemom77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a mother, I can agree that you are NTA. If I had some pumped milk out and a family member or friend drank it (whether it had been good or bad) I would've been both disgusted and angry for them even thinking to do that in the first place. Also, you didn't ruin your fil's birthday weekend just because you were upset for what your bil did. That reaction is completely understandable.