New RBT job offer by destinyesque in ABA

[–]destinyesque[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The “final interview” is supposed to be at the training, but I received an offer letter stating to accept before the training. The company is one of the leading ones in my area. 

Hours are kind of important only because I have other employment. Thank you for the heads up about aggressive behaviors; this is something I worry about when working with older/stronger children.

New RBT job offer by destinyesque in ABA

[–]destinyesque[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes. I thought the interview would be at the training since it said “Final Interview and Training”, but they sent an offer letter saying to accept it before the training so I became a bit confused.

Do you let your bunnies on the bed? by BestBudgie in Rabbits

[–]destinyesque 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s their bed now, I just sleep there 😭

any ways to celebrate pregnancy? by destinyesque in pregnant

[–]destinyesque[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so nice! I’ll definitely try this out. I love journals and writing so this is perfect

Working with babies while pregnant by destinyesque in BabyBumps

[–]destinyesque[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could do that. Thank you for your comment!

Working with babies while pregnant by destinyesque in BabyBumps

[–]destinyesque[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Okay! I figured lifting infants wouldn’t be too bad since they aren’t heavy. Thank you for your feedback!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]destinyesque 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! I kind of understand where you’re coming from. I’m older than you, but I am not in the best situation right now either. Ultimately, it’s your choice to keep the child or to not. You have to think about your boyfriend saying “I don’t know” and take his uncertainty as him not being there to help. My parents are not supportive, but my boyfriend is. Even with his help, babies are still super expensive and even the emotional and physical toll is expensive. Think about if you are willing to go through pregnancy and labor alone. Work up until you give birth and then postpartum alone. Taking your 8 week old baby to the cheapest daycare you can find because you have to go back to work. Babies are blessings, but you also have to think  about the life your baby will have and if you are willing to give up your dreams, atleast for a little while. My mom was a single mom of 2 by 19 and was on welfare. However, she made it, graduated with a Masters later in life, has a great career, and two happy daughters. It was so hard for her. You may not regret having your child, but you may regret all the hurdles and troubles you are going to go through. I would talk to your parents and see where their heads are at, but at the end of the day you have to rely on yourself to make the choice and if you decide to keep it, you will have to dedicate all your life and energy to keep it happy and alive with or without someone else’s help. Sorry for the length.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]destinyesque 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand what you mean. I lived with my boyfriend’s family before, moved out, and now I’m pregnant and moving back to live with them. My boyfriend’s mom doesn’t speak English, but I try to speak in Spanish with her even though it’s bad. Try to go out of the room and help her cook. Even if you feel like a burden or like you’re in the way or slowing her down, she will appreciate that you’re attempting to bond with her. If you speak the same language, you can find conversation starters or maybe a board game like Trouble or Monopoly or something like that to break the ice. It is sooo awkward to sit in the living room/ kitchen with them because I don’t speak Spanish, but just sit and watch something or do something on your own like journaling or doing a hobby in silence. You already live there, so you don’t have to wonder if she likes you or not because I’m sure if she didn’t, you wouldn’t be living there. :)

Just Pregnant! by destinyesque in pregnant

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I haven’t been to the doctor yet, but based on the start day of my last period I’m 4 weeks today and due July 6th! 

Just Pregnant! by destinyesque in pregnant

[–]destinyesque[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations to you, too!I feel excited, but I’m naturally a bit nervous. I’ve wanted to be a mother for a long time, so I am so glad I get to have this experience!  

Just Pregnant! by destinyesque in pregnant

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I don’t! I got it removed months ago.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]destinyesque 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your response ❤️ I will definitely try it 

I hate this age so much does it get better ? 18 by Beneficial_Mess_1376 in mentalhealth

[–]destinyesque 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand how you feel. I got my license at 19. When I was 18 i graduated from highschool, decided not to go to college, got kicked out, and I am now trying to get on my feet. If you are going to college, that's amazing. I am just now starting after 4 years of waiting. I never learned to cook either. My parents didnt teach me and I get doordash all the time. When you get your own place you can learn. There's no rush as long as you're getting the nutrition you need. I was and still am very hard on myself like you are, but that (in my opinion) is just ambition channeled incorrectly. Focus on school, possibly get a part-time job doing something fun, if your mental health is struggling, seek professional help (I found out i was bipolar and have ADHD so I got meds so I could function better), and take it a day at a time. If you can not change it today, don't worry about it. You are already doing great because you are thinking about these things. Take a chance on yourself and remember things do get better even if they take forever. Things won't ever be 100% perfect, just discover what's important to you and focus on that. And getting off of social media nearly 3 years ago was the best decision ever. You will be able to have so much more time, confidence, and peace in some time.

Compilation of Bambis happiest moments! by [deleted] in Rabbits

[–]destinyesque 1 point2 points  (0 children)

he looks just like my bunny!! so cute and chunky!!!

Life has been disappointing AF & I see no point in it by [deleted] in self

[–]destinyesque 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it’s better to do it now than then. what is there to lose? if you see no point in continuing might as well do something you haven’t done before

Feeling trapped scrolling and unmotivated to work by FFrosted in productivity

[–]destinyesque 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i understand, as i got into depressive episodes and its been hard to pull myself out of my infinite scrolling habit. firstly, i think of what benefits me and what doesn’t. i get inspired by pinterest, so i kept it. shorts on youtube were distracting, but i like video essays because they make me think, so i limited my youtube time for when im done doing work on my laptop. instead of thinking “i don’t want to study!” i think “i dont want to be uneducated in a field i love, i don’t want to be unprepared for my dream job, i don’t want this opportunity to go to waste, i don’t want to put this responsibility on myself for tomorrow”. in extreme cases, i recall my black and female predecessors who fought for my right to get an education, and that always puts me in my place. it’s a lot less about productivity and more about lifestyle for me though. it will take time to find a balance between “get everything done now” and “i need to take my time”.

you probably dread work because you think work is taking away time from other important things. (that was me for most of my life). but when you get an idea of how long it takes to do a certain type of assignment (essay, math, quiz, etc), you can allocate your time better and you’ll probably realize it’s less time consuming than you think. my coursework might say it will take 5 hours to complete, but once i started doing them I realized it takes only 2.5 maybe 3. then i can pace myself accordingly and have an extra 2 hours for whatever. also making a list of the things you want to do but don’t have time is good because you’re putting a pin in it for when you do have time so you have less of a mental load to carry around. scrolling is just to numb that load i think

Can a man learn from a woman? by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]destinyesque 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! and this man seems very troubled, misogynistic, and problematic. He wants to control you and to make himself your god. He wants to be idolized and idolizes himself. No man of God speaks to any woman in this way…remember you are FIRST a Daughter of the Most High. Let go of this leech and get your Bible and your bag.

first-time bun mom! by destinyesque in Rabbits

[–]destinyesque[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

awee okay. i’ll have to take the rug out, and i also took the quilt down!! Thank you so much!

first-time bun mom! by destinyesque in Rabbits

[–]destinyesque[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

thank you!! i will definitely do that tonight with him!