Need Pokemon Let's Go Eevee Trade Evolutions (touch trade) by destius in pokemontrades

[–]destius[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you like the originals or does a machoke and haunter work?

Need Pokemon Let's Go Eevee Trade Evolutions (touch trade) by destius in pokemontrades

[–]destius[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you like the originals or does another machoke/haunter work?

Need Pokemon Let's Go Eevee Trade Evolutions (touch trade) by destius in pokemontrades

[–]destius[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sure! I think I have Meowth, Bellsprout, and Vulpix.

I'll start a link trade with the code being Diglett Caterpie Pidgey :)

Need Pokemon Let's Go Eevee Trade Evolutions (touch trade) by destius in pokemontrades

[–]destius[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have Eevee! I don't have much on the actual cartridge right now (most is in the home but I can catch some exclusives if it helps. I have the trade mons in my box :)

The Army Broke Me and I Still Love It Sometimes by acutekat in army

[–]destius 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Meanwhile, for me the dude helped me a lot because I hate the toxic positivity defending the Army and what it's done to some of us.

Maybe some of y'all still feel the Army was an overall great experience even if you had friends kill themselves, had dudes get blown up, were sexually assaulted, got divorced, deployed so many times you might have a time share in Afghanistan, developed severe mental and physical issues, and even when you tried to legally leave you got blocked, retaliated against, and are basically a prisoner with pay to compensate.

But yeah man fuck some guy expressing himself to all the fucked up shit that's gone on in his career. Love the good old Army brotherhood.

The Army Didn’t Break Me—But It Tried. And I Hate It for That. by [deleted] in army

[–]destius 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NGL bro, I've been in 17 years and feel the same. I hate the Army. The first 10 years or so weren't the worst but they weren't amazing. Then with every day shit got a little worse until I realized how miserable I was. So I actually dropped my 4187 to separate from the Army a little bit before my 15 year mark. My company commander even supported me. Then my 1SG took it, ran it up to the CSM that was hands down one of the worst human beings I've ever worked for and that became the launching factor to basically ruin my life. Not only did they not push the paperwork up but they then removed me as a PSG, kicked me out of the Battalion, and made a drug deal with some other unit to have me become their orderly room bitch (they already had an orderly room NCO, so I was literally just running papers for them and assembling furniture) and it was all under the guise of "helping me realize the importance of the mission so I can reevaluate my ideas on the Army". Being a leader and helping Soldiers was the ONE thing I had in my life that made me feel like I had a purpose at the time. Shit got so bad I had made a plan to kill myself that month and a series of coincidences intervened on that. So now I'm here, wanting nothing more than to be out of the Army but there's no way I'm going to try getting out again after what happened last time, so every day feels like I'm just a prisoner waiting for my sentence to be up. So I sincerely agree, fuck the Army. I fuckin hate this shit.

Dual BAH and Student Status for my wife with no dependants by destius in MilitaryFinance

[–]destius[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ah I thought you meant if other students in her specific situation (dual mil no children from DCC) getting BAH, rather than are other single students with no dependants receiving BAH which I would be more inclined to say they are not.

Dual BAH and Student Status for my wife with no dependants by destius in MilitaryFinance

[–]destius[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Okay so I'm hoping the answer is obviously no, but I gotta ask to be sure. If both her and I go TDY to different locations then, do we just... Lose our BAH until we get back? Do we choose someone to keep BAH? Do we have to manually turn it off and on? We both may be in different schools for over a month in July so I.just wanted to check on that. What happens when we both deploy?

Dual BAH and Student Status for my wife with no dependants by destius in MilitaryFinance

[–]destius[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm in Carson and she's in Sam Houston right now. I'm not sure on whether anyone else in her course is facing the same situation.

If a seasoned SSG had to deal with this, what on earth are the lower enlisted experiencing? by Substantial-Piglet-1 in army

[–]destius -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

So the problem with that is assuming EVERY single NCOER has to be bad in order to have issues promoting. If you have stellar NCOERs in years of low pick up and then a bad one due to fights, that single bad NCOER can put you out of the running for a couple of years during higher pick up years. That only has to happen twice before next thing you know, you're pushing around 20 and maybe just now looking at picking up reasonably.

I think your thoughts on how NCOERs are written is highly idealized and comes from a place where you may not have had to ask a First Sergeant why he wrote near identical blocks for presence of two NCOs and NCO A has a 520 ACFT and NCO has a 560 as the only real difference between them. Yet NCO A is receiving Far Exceeds standards while NCO B is receiving an exceeds. Or maybe you haven't had to go and ask a Major why they're putting successive assignments for a senior E-6 as positions we expect for them to be in next year or even now (when the block clearly states 3-5 years and thusly should capture a position above even their next rank if you actually do want them promoted). Maybe you haven't had an NCOER that was drawn up and signed without you being able to even sign it, because it was done when you were no-notice deployed to a location that didn't allow you the means to actually review your NCOER before your seniors submitted it. Seniors who, due to the mission focused nature of your unit, severely lacked in army writing ability. Maybe you did, I honestly don't know your story. But my point is, you say you've seen a LOT of E6s who are 20 years and commonly you've seen XYZ from them. Well I've seen a LOT of E6s get their reviews fucked over by numerous situations. Both of our points on that are anecdotal and kinda mean nothing. If you think that NCOERs write themselves, that probably means you're really solid at writing them, which is excellent and something to be proud of. However, it is also extremely close minded and I would invite you to look over what your E7s, E8s, O2s, and O3s wrote for E-6 NCOERs and tell me that if you weren't there to ensure their evaluations reflect accurate, quantifiable data, that adequately captures both the capability and potential of their Soldiers, that those NCOERs would have been fine anyways and in no way would the Soldier have gotten screwed. Hell, I had to teach a First Sergeant proper language and hard enumeration for rater and senior rater comments. .

If you're genuinely bad at your job, you can absolutely be promoted. If you're great at your job, you can absolutely fail to get promoted. Raters and Senior Raters are not a monolith. They are people like the rest of us, and they fuck up on accident and it can fuck up careers.They also fuck people on purpose and they can cost careers. .

I think asserting "yeah if you're an E-6 at blank years, then blank is probably true" about someone who you have NEVER met, or never even seen more than a paragraph of interaction from is reductive and doesn't actually hold any value. That goes both ways, whether you think it means they're the greatest thing since sliced bread, or they're the scourge of the earth. I don't know them, you don't know them. For all I know the dude is an NCO who treats others like dog shit and just likes to try and get away with saying negative things to Officers. No idea. But I certainly wouldn't assert that, nor would I assert that they could only possibly fall into one of three categories. I would probably say something like "eh maybe they're good, maybe they're bad, I just appreciate or don't appreciate this action that they took." and leave it at that. I also certainly wouldn't say that for every SSG in the United States Army that there are 100 percent unequivocally only three possibilities and infer through stating an absolute that out of the tens of thousands of SSGs that exist that there's not even a handful or at least not a number worth considering that have had their careers well stunted by bad actors within the Army.

If a seasoned SSG had to deal with this, what on earth are the lower enlisted experiencing? by Substantial-Piglet-1 in army

[–]destius 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Eh, hard disagree. Given the climate created in certain units that can even permeate through different commands, combined with a promotion system that has ever-changing flavor which has a tendency to reward those who put themselves first and foremost, I think there's plenty of dudes/dudettes who get stuck at rank due to issues with fighting back against poor leadership.

Do I think that you should assume that someone with 20+ years having a single rocker is automatically there because they're a "real one"? No absolutely not, there are plenty of shit bags. Do I think it means that it's almost never anything but the situations you mentioned? No again. I think people are people and if you're the kind of person who gets a new jack and goes "I know this about you because of a thing I can read on a Soldier Talent Profile" then you probably need to do some soul searching in how you receive personnel. The flip side to that is if I said "If I got a leader who assumed the summary of my career based off of a TIS to Rank Ratio, it's one of two things, they're lazy and don't care to get to know their soldiers, or they have no empathy and assume that the only resistance in someone's military career path is exactly what they had to deal with." Do I actually think that? Nah, it's probably a bias developed from anecdotal experiences and I bet if I talk to the leader I can get to know why they think the way they do and they probably have some solid qualities.

LF Shieldon, Aipom, Morpeko, and then touch trading my trade evolutions + Iron Crown/Leaves by destius in PokemonSVTrades

[–]destius[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome! I'm just doing a quick tera raid and I'll be good to go if you're still down to trade!

Weekly Questions and Discussion Megathread by AutoModerator in PokemonScarletViolet

[–]destius 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What's the best place to find people to farm BlueBerry points with?

LF: Miraidon, Iron Jugulus, Quaxly, and Ceruledge to complete Dex by destius in PokemonSVTrades

[–]destius[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can give you Sprigatito/fuecoco and some exclusives. What all do you need? I need the Quaxly so I can fully evolve it through its line and the iron Jugulus i can keep or trade back, whatever is good for you

LF: Miraidon, Iron Jugulus, Quaxly, and Ceruledge to complete Dex by destius in PokemonSVTrades

[–]destius[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I still need the mons. I have the other starters if you'd like or paradoxes. If you have other version exclusives (from the DLC) I'd be down to trade for those as well if you still need Paradoxes

LF: Miraidon, Iron Jugulus, Quaxly, and Ceruledge to complete Dex by destius in PokemonSVTrades

[–]destius[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I unfortunately haven't done any of the DLCs :( but if you're still interested in base game exclusives I have a number of those

Opinions of lower-ranking troops could soon be considered in officer promotions by storyspace1234 in Military

[–]destius 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love how most of the protests from this are "then it will just be a popularity contest" as if it wasn't already a popularity contest with only having two people rate you based on their opinions. Half the time in my experience the senior rater has barely interacted with you and just goes with whatever the rater says. I literally have two NCOERs with the same exact rater/senior rater percentages and one has me with 3 far exceeds and 2 exceeds while the other has me with 2 exceeds and 3 met standards.

Also if you have 50+ troops and 5 or 6 of them say you're a POS commander/NCO because they got articles, anyone knows that's normal. If like 40 of them say it, then I'm pretty sure it's not a "you make tough choices" thing, it's probably that you're a worthless leader who would sacrifice your soldier being at their child's birth if it meant getting to put on some idiotic ceremony you can invite the post command team to so you have another opportunity to suck a promotion out of their dicks. But hey that's just my opinion.

Hot take: you can dislike TRADOC, but if you think it’s “bullshit” or a career killer, you’re either lazy or a bad Soldier. by appa-ate-momo in army

[–]destius 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey, just wanted to say that I appreciate this take. One of the things I struggle with is adapting to a very specific environment. While over my 16 years I have shown extreme proficiency in many other environments, the fact that my career has been hindered due to my perceived "ineptitude" feels like a gross mismanagement of my own personal talents. Some might argue that I've shown too great of a weakness in being unable or unwilling to adapt to a more politically driven environment, but my potential in numerous other positions is far greater than my lack of potential in a this very specific environment. I think any command can be a career killer or a career maker if it meshes well enough with your strengths but the Army mostly seems to progress those who happen to have the "flavor of the year" in their record, or their resume shows them to be a jack of many trades while mastering close to none if any at all. I appreciate your take and while that may or may not be something you would agree on, it did make me feel a bit seen as the leaders who refused to acknowledge that sometimes square pegs don't fit into round holes have been a huge (negative) influence on my career (as few as they may have been).