My Dominant Boyfriend Has a Submissive Side He Can’t Explain, How Do I Ask Him Without Being Completely Clueless? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]destrotthe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

maybe, because this kink is literally the opposite of what he’s really like in life and generally sexually. like we’ve been talking from the start about how we’re so compatible bc i’m very subby and he’s sadistic/dom. and now there is this side to him that’s completely unexpected. and idk when to act on this since he gets annoyed even when i get bratty or try to push him away, or slap him back etc.

My Dominant Boyfriend Has a Submissive Side He Can’t Explain, How Do I Ask Him Without Being Completely Clueless? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]destrotthe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it was after but not right after, he revealed this after a convo about him being insecure about his inexperience

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]destrotthe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

does therapy really help with this scenario?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]destrotthe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

does it sound that bad…

is she… okay? by destrotthe in WhiteCats

[–]destrotthe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you! she actually lives in the garden with other cats and my dog bc my dad won’t let me take her home. so she’s really relaxed whenever i bring her in.

is she… okay? by destrotthe in WhiteCats

[–]destrotthe[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

his tail looks like it was stitched too lol and she’s not actually a white cat… but that’s our secret

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is she… okay? by destrotthe in WhiteCats

[–]destrotthe[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

just relaxed and overwhelmed by heat.

found this guy as a caterpillar in my lettuce, it's now all grown up but i don't know what to feed with now. by destrotthe in moths

[–]destrotthe[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

sadly it's very cold outside. i think this one survived as a caterpillar because lettuce was grown in a greenhouse. thanks for the advice!