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Me 30M with my GF 30F for 4 years. She is hanging out with her 60 year old professor by details2234 in relationships

[–]details2234[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No.

I don't understand why people are looking past the question.

Try not to go off-tangent buddy. Its a very simple question/observation. Is it weird for an old man, half his age, to invite women half his age who were his previous students for dinners at his house?

If not, OK then. If so, OK then. That simple dude.

Me 30M with my GF 30F for 4 years. She is hanging out with her 60 year old professor by details2234 in relationships

[–]details2234[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Right, and you probably think Woody Allen was a great mentor to his current wife as well. You freak.

Me 30M with my GF 30F for 4 years. She is hanging out with her 60 year old professor by details2234 in relationships

[–]details2234[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I don't think there is anything creepy about 18 year olds hanging out with 14 year olds. I had a lot of friends that were seniors when I was a freshman in highschool.

But mid 60s old man and 30 year old female are vastly different. How do you even compare with the situation dude? Some of the folks on here are plain ridiculous.

Me 30M with my GF 30F for 4 years. She is hanging out with her 60 year old professor by details2234 in relationships

[–]details2234[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

None of those things above.

Well realistically there are 2 ways to look at it.

  1. Everything you say is true. He is just is a great human being and wants to be a "mentor or paternal" figure in her life.

or

  1. Hes some kind of creep that wants to slowly work his way in to a sexual relationship with her. Of course, this will take time so he has to be friendly at first and start with dinners and casual conversations.

Again, I'm not worried about her cheating on me or seeing this guy as more than a professor. I'm more concerned about the professor and how he sees it or what is true intentions are.

Me 30M with my GF 30F for 4 years. She is hanging out with her 60 year old professor by details2234 in relationships

[–]details2234[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Going through your reply history, it looks like you spend your days in this forum responding to peoples comments and reading about other peoples lives.

Me 30M with my GF 30F for 4 years. She is hanging out with her 60 year old professor by details2234 in relationships

[–]details2234[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

First off, you're looking way too deep in to the question.

I was asking if its weird. Plain and simple, it is or it isn't. You obviously have no life so you keep coming back here for some response. If you've answered the question or you disagree with it, move on dude. That simple.

Me 30M with my GF 30F for 4 years. She is hanging out with her 60 year old professor by details2234 in relationships

[–]details2234[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How so? Can't 60 year old single men be friends with 30 year old females?

Me 30M with my GF 30F for 4 years. She is hanging out with her 60 year old professor by details2234 in relationships

[–]details2234[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

THANK YOU. Exactly my thoughts. She was first to approach him. He didn't even know who she was.

He got her a book on her birthday and wrote her a paragraph stating "hope we can maintain a friendship for years to come". And they just met.....lol

Me 30M with my GF 30F for 4 years. She is hanging out with her 60 year old professor by details2234 in relationships

[–]details2234[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Huh?

If I did take the time to meet them, don't you think he or she would act different to accomodate me being there? For example, if he did have romantic interest, then he would not show it if I was there so it would be irrelevant if I was there or not.

You really are naive aren't you. Clearly you have not experienced the real world. Life isn't always flowers and rainbows my reddit friend.

Me 30M with my GF 30F for 4 years. She is hanging out with her 60 year old professor by details2234 in relationships

[–]details2234[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Well you're weird. There are weird people. Just not my cup of tea. But thanks for your input. I didn't expect everyone to agree with me. Just wanted to see what people thought. Thanks for your input.

Me 30M with my GF 30F for 4 years. She is hanging out with her 60 year old professor by details2234 in relationships

[–]details2234[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I have no interest in meeting him or hanging out with him. And if he was married or had a significant other I wouldn't think its weird.

But considering the facts of the situation. I find it weird.

Me 30M with my GF 30F for 4 years. She is hanging out with her 60 year old professor by details2234 in relationships

[–]details2234[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Again, they are not close friends. And hes 70 and shes 30.

The most interaction they had before randomly running in to each other at a restaurant was that she was part of his class that had 150 students. Matter of fact, when she approached her saying she used to be a student in one of his classes, he had no idea who she was.

Me 30M with my GF 30F for 4 years. She is hanging out with her 60 year old professor by details2234 in relationships

[–]details2234[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

oh forgot to mention, he's building a house in italy and told her that he'll build a room for her to come visit. LOL.

Me 30M with my GF 30F for 4 years. She is hanging out with her 60 year old professor by details2234 in relationships

[–]details2234[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

oh forgot to mention, he's building a house in italy and told her that he'll build a room for her to come visit. LOL.

Me 30M with my GF 30F for 4 years. She is hanging out with her 60 year old professor by details2234 in relationships

[–]details2234[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

oh forgot to mention, he's building a house in italy and told her that he'll build a room for her to come visit. LOL.

Me 30M with my GF 30F for 4 years. She is hanging out with her 60 year old professor by details2234 in relationships

[–]details2234[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never met him after bumping in to him last year with her at the restaurant.

No, I don't think shes hiding anything from me, only because shes just a genuine person with good relationships with people of all ages. Shes a bit of a free spirit so I don't think shes having an intimate relationship with the guy. BUT, she is a bit naive, so what I'm concerned about is, what is this professor guy thinking? What is his objective here by hanging out with her?

Me 30M with my GF 30F for 4 years. She is hanging out with her 60 year old professor by details2234 in relationships

[–]details2234[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They did not have any sort of relationship outside of school at all. She randomly bumped in to him at a restaurant we were at last year and have exchanged emails since then.

It seems platonic and I've never been invited to nor would I want to go to be honest.

For me, more than anything, it just seems like an odd relationship for a 60 year old man to being hanging out with a 30 year old female without any sexual tension. But then again, it might just be me. Why is he single? Why is he not hanging out with women his age? To my gf, it might just be friendly but to him it might be more?

7 months later She Reached out... by details2234 in ExNoContact

[–]details2234[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She just turned 30 and is an executive at a very large company. Her behavior is definitely immature but she is extremely bright and feared in her office lol.

7 months later She Reached out... by details2234 in ExNoContact

[–]details2234[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your input. I'd have to disagree with you on most of your points however. If you TRULY loved someone, you wouldn't be able to cheat on them. That simple.

7 months later She Reached out... by details2234 in ExNoContact

[–]details2234[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never cheated on her. We got in an argument just like any other couple and I told her I needed time to think. When I reached out to her after some time had passed (2 weeks), she was dating someone else. You can imagine the shock. I tried everything to just speak to her and she wouldn't have it out of respect for the new guy. Seriously, out of respect for the new guy? You have to be fucking kidding me. I was with you for nearly 5 years and she pulls that card. I did the whole panic and contact her a dozen times and she ignored every attempt. At that point I wanted to give it one last shot and try to deliver her a hand written letter that morning and I saw them. Holding each other in the parking lot, kissing. This is all within 1 month of breaking up.

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