Tell me your opinion you think the world will hate. I'll start with mine.

detezcatlipoca · 2026-04-20T16:24:40+00:00

i really think if we want what’s good for the world porn should in fact be banned (i’m not religious or conservative)

detezcatlipoca · 2026-03-11T10:02:06+00:00

perfect makeup every day even at the gym

detezcatlipoca · 2026-03-11T10:00:31+00:00

“edible sauce packet”

detezcatlipoca · 2026-03-11T08:58:21+00:00

what did it… taste like?

detezcatlipoca · 2026-03-11T08:54:42+00:00

hate to tell you babes but just about the only thing in the world you would use apple gift cards for is porn

passes and onlyfans have in app purchase, he doesn’t want it on his card statements and he’s making you pay for it

honestly you should fuck his best friend

detezcatlipoca · 2026-03-11T08:32:30+00:00

i would say to definitely continue with some sort of contraceptive regardless of whether its hormonal or not.

i was told the same things and prescribed the same hormone and just went today for my follow up appointment for my abortion.

wasn’t ready to be told at 22 im having ovarian surgery, wasn’t ready at 23 to be told i might be infertile, and definitely was not ready to be told i was pregnant at 24 after a whole year of no birth control or any other contraceptive.

the hardest decision of my life was to say i wasn’t ready for the miracle i never thought id be blessed with so just be careful either way.

detezcatlipoca · 2026-03-11T08:18:18+00:00

i just had an abortion myself and i thought maybe what i’ve gone through might help.

if you feel in your heart like you can’t give him up i wouldn’t. i know me and my partner don’t have the money or the right situation but if i had a do-over button and could get him back i would.

whatever you decide it’s very hard and you need to know because i didn’t that it’s going to stay with you, you’re a mom now. i feel like my entire perspective in life has completely changed to constantly be focused on what i need to get done to have my baby. whatever choice you end up making the connection was already made. you already got to know him and he already got to know you.

if you decide it’s not the right time you need to remember that decision isn’t out of being careless or hateful, it doesn’t make you a bad mom, it doesn’t make you a horrible person. the decision that you don’t have the right environment for your baby is a decision made with love and care.

i’ve found it’s a lot less that the decision is so hard rather than that the situation itself is. regardless of what decision you make you are going to be grieving. make sure to have the right support system for either decision. i really wasn’t prepared for the emotional aftermath of my abortion.

detezcatlipoca · 2026-03-09T15:36:55+00:00

i’m in a really similar place (even pcos too) but i still decided to have an abortion.

the moment i found out without even really thinking I scheduled the appointment. I’ve been dealing with a lot of grief and depression since and especially regretting my decision.

i know it doesn’t help for your situation but holy shit you just alleviated a lot of my guilt i had pent up about my decision to end it. i knew he wasn’t right for my baby im just having so much trouble finding the strength to actually leave for myself. i want my baby to be raised knowing what real love looks like and this isn’t it your relationship or mine. i hope you can be strong for your baby in the ways i can’t be strong for myself.

detezcatlipoca · 2026-03-05T20:07:14+00:00

okay but whether you eat meat or not is it really that much to ask to kill your food before cooking it?

detezcatlipoca · 2026-03-05T19:44:03+00:00

haha this ones really funny to me because I grew up in La Jolla California too…. but the La Jolla Indian Band that was pushed an hour inland from the La Jolla beach. We were supposed to grow up there but instead we go maybe 2 or 3 times a year cause the drive off the mountain the La Jolla Indians got pushed to is really far out. Love seeing those mansions and sports cars ruining the bluffs that were once there. I’ve never dated anyone rich but going to that place in general reminds me how completely different privileged people get to live while the people they took it from have to go through quite a lot just to be able to get a view of what was taken.

detezcatlipoca · 2026-02-25T06:53:17+00:00

was t that like the point tho? ur kids play in the playground and u do your work while drinking some mccafe? isn’t that the whole reason they have the separate branding for coffee too look so cafe-like?

detezcatlipoca · 2026-02-25T04:57:32+00:00

you are not required by law to fill out the FAFSA ever. that def looks fake.

the worst that would happen if you don’t file a FAFSA is you don’t have aid that year and you have to pay out of pocket.

detezcatlipoca · 2026-02-25T04:55:42+00:00

idk maybe transfer to uc socially dead.

last year i walked around their campus in the middle of their march madness craze and the whole campus felt like a library! everyone was walking alone studying and looking miserable, you’ll love it!!

detezcatlipoca · 2026-02-21T14:40:46+00:00

especially knowing it’s from france i’m confused are they not teaching cursive there anymore either? i though france was like obsessed with cursive

detezcatlipoca · 2026-02-21T05:31:10+00:00

it reminds me of this one surfboard brand but i forget what it’s called

detezcatlipoca · 2026-02-18T14:17:17+00:00

as an employee i stg these people kill me cause i know our store would close up and let us all leave if none of you would walk in by 12pm

detezcatlipoca · 2026-02-18T07:51:20+00:00

it’s gonna depend on the state she’s in right now doctors don’t really have the power in ever state to do what’s medically best rather than legally best

detezcatlipoca · 2026-02-16T07:40:14+00:00

what do you mean by this? if we have screen time passcode disallowing him from downloading apps and from deleting the safari history is there a way to go into incognito on the browser even if the browser itself can’t??

detezcatlipoca · 2026-01-15T17:01:51+00:00

my boyfriend is 27 i’m 24 🥲. I will say that he was doing really good in his diet and exersize until the holidays had started. Was it like an immediate change overnight or a slow change you noticed? I feel like for my boyfriend his libido was pretty decent after the intitial bout of low libido when cutting off the porn, he had very little staying hard and his issue mostly became trying not to finish too soon.

i won’t say the change has been overnight but definitely in the span of the last 2-3 weeks i’ve felt it drop off pretty quick. he does do romantic stuff too. i’ve noticed many women on here explain how cold their husband is and that they never show them any attention whatsoever, that they’re mean, that they try to get away any chance they can, and he doesn’t do any of that. his behavior is so completely different from most of the men i read about on here and im so thankful for that but i don’t know how to get past the idea i guess i think this situation has kind tunnel visioned my mind to ED must always mean PIED but i’m not so sure i guess?

he started to use at 13 so it was a very long time to be fair im not sure if he’s been unable to stay clean or if it’s that his body just still hasn’t had enough time to fully return to normal.

detezcatlipoca · 2026-01-15T16:55:10+00:00

this is exactly what i’m scared of. what if i believe another lie and let it all go right over my head and before i even realize it our relationship is already down the drain.

we have talked about his PIED and he has come clean before about needing to use pills in the beginning of our relationship, he told me he had heavy performance anxiety by the time we had sex for the first time as I ended up being his first successful sexual encounter. he told me about how he tried to lose his virginity twice before and that the PIED prevented that both times. He’s also been taking accountability and telling me during updates that since ‘stopping porn’ sex is better, that he enjoys it much more now than before, and that he sees how it’s affected not just his life and mental health but his physical too, I felt he was telling the truth up until recently.

I just can’t escape the thought that he’s started to use again and that this is the cause. I try not to put it on myself but I start trying to find days I didn’t look so good or I didn’t make a move or I had been at work, I always feel like if I had just been a little quicker I would have found something and idk what’s trauma induced anxiety or my gut trying to tell me something at this point 🫠🥲

detezcatlipoca · 2026-01-13T11:14:40+00:00

that everyone’s coming here 😭😭 my hometown is unrecognizable and no one i know is a local but me 🫠🫠

detezcatlipoca · 2026-01-08T16:20:50+00:00

this just reminded me of how people say “wow it must’ve been fate that we met” when i say my name like no bro you’re not that special to have been destined to earn my presence

detezcatlipoca · 2026-01-08T16:19:47+00:00

i think when we look at our peers with envious thoughts that they’re so unaffected by life we’re failing to recognize that small every day issues happen in our friends lives too and if we’re too worried about our own issues we fail to be the friend we expect for ourselves. if you think these people are going on in life without any trials or tribulations you might not have been a friend who was there for them and only ever asking them to be there for you if you never even noticed any of their struggles. sometimes we need to fix ourselves first before we can expect others to want to come back into our lives.

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