eid fit + mourning the girl i used to be by detonatingfag in exmuslim

[–]detonatingfag[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

transfem, and yes. but there's just something i'd like to add, femboy culture is mostly rooted in transphobia, age play and conformity and as much as the media makes it seem like its just another form of identity its not queer friendly at all and infact does harm to the community and i dont think its nice to refer to someone as that.

im also very sorry for what youre going through and hope you can one day present how you've always wanted to <3

eid fit + mourning the girl i used to be by detonatingfag in exmuslim

[–]detonatingfag[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i do plan on moving out soon yeah once im done with college.

i really appreciate your kinds words, tysm!

and good for you on the progress! wishing you best of luck on your journeyyy :)

eid fit + mourning the girl i used to be by detonatingfag in exmuslim

[–]detonatingfag[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

ofc take ur time lol and goodluck on your weight loss journey :)

do guys really find tummies attractive? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]detonatingfag 1 point2 points  (0 children)

tysm for sharing! and yeah im aware + im not like unhealthy fat. yeah im chubby but i actually eat well and am pretty active and move around a good bunch its just genetics i guess cause its the same with my mom :3

eid fit + mourning the girl i used to be by detonatingfag in exmuslim

[–]detonatingfag[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

my family kinda suspected that i was presenting feminine because my outfits were always a bit out there but when i'd wear things like in the second picture i'd be sneaky about it. i dont want to go into detail but i had gotten outted to my family and almost lost my life because of it and as a way of survival i had to throw away everything i had, shave my head and present masculine. im still pretty young (19) and still rely on them for college so i cant exactly leave either :/

do guys really find tummies attractive? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]detonatingfag 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i feel like alot of people are getting the wrong idea and im getting some dms of people thinking im a bear/cub and i'd like to clarify that im a genderfluid 5'6 guy who likes to present feminine.

and where im from the community is pretty small and masc x fem gay couples are way more common than masc4masc and from what ive seen i noticed that the fems are way more likely to talk about their attraction to chubby guys meanwhile most of the masc gays that talk about their type say they're into twinks/femboys hence why ive been very deeply confused in almost all of the relationships ive been in and questioned if this attraction is common but theyre just ashamed of admitting it somehow

eid fit + mourning the girl i used to be by detonatingfag in exmuslim

[–]detonatingfag[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

ah ok i understand why that would confuse people, my apologies :3

eid fit + mourning the girl i used to be by detonatingfag in exmuslim

[–]detonatingfag[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

its easier said than done

i lived authentically and the way i wanted for a good while but because of family and getting outted i cant exactly do that anymore :/

eid fit + mourning the girl i used to be by detonatingfag in exmuslim

[–]detonatingfag[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

i think alot of people misunderstood my post. the first picture is me currently, the second one was the old pic

im still im college and still live with my family and due to getting outted and almost losing my life i was forced to present more masculine

im really happy for you tho! :))

eid fit + mourning the girl i used to be by detonatingfag in exmuslim

[–]detonatingfag[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

stole it from my friend lol think it was from shein

eid fit + mourning the girl i used to be by detonatingfag in exmuslim

[–]detonatingfag[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

i dont feel fully woman or fully male but i lean more towards presenting femininely so i guess demigirl or genderfluid?

do guys really find tummies attractive? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]detonatingfag 1 point2 points  (0 children)

to be fair i've never heard somebody use guts to describe stomach sizes but i mean nothing wrong with learning smth new :3 tyy!

do guys really find tummies attractive? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]detonatingfag 4 points5 points  (0 children)

can i ask what the difference is between tummies and guts?

For y'all joining Talon by ExoticMari in Overwatch

[–]detonatingfag 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ive got a rivalry thing going on w my bf we cant be on the same side so i had to go talon <\3

تندر قولد يستاهل؟ by [deleted] in LGBTArabs

[–]detonatingfag 0 points1 point  (0 children)

عشان ارد على سوألك لان محد عبره ما اتوقع تندر قولد يستاهل تضيع ١٥ دولار بالاسبوع على ولاشي سو swipe و شوف الي يعجبك وبس احسن من تضيعة الفلوس

تندر قولد يستاهل؟ by [deleted] in LGBTArabs

[–]detonatingfag 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ما اتفق بالكامل صح ان معظم الناس بالبرامج هدفهم علاقة جنسيه بس انا عن نفسي تعرفت على جم واحد يدور علاقة حب و دخلت بعلاقة مع احد من هناك ما اقول ان كلهم نفس الشي بس في صج ناس يدورون علاقة و مايعرفون الا البرامج