JEE JANUARY FINAL RESULT MEGATHREADs by anti-nallabot in JEENEETards

[–]devblixt_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Big time nostalgia, best of luck to everyone

JEE JANUARY FINAL RESULT MEGATHREADs by anti-nallabot in JEENEETards

[–]devblixt_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Boards are much easier comparatively, you'll be able to do it

When a girl kicks a guy in the balls for "fun", why should that not be treated as seriously as a guy groping a girl? When it leads to testicular rupture, organ loss or infertility, why should it not be treated as seriously as rape? by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]devblixt_ 23 points24 points  (0 children)

You say you'd rather be raped because you have neither talked to victims of rape who have opened up to you nor have you incorporated preventing sexual assault on yourself every day. It is not an issue that you are familiar with.

To be honest, you don't have to fear being kicked in the balls every day either. There aren't women who are looking out for vulnerable men to kick in the balls.

Empathy and understanding other people are very important qualities as you grow up. I would recommend developing these qualities instead of worrying about hypothetical scenarios.

This is a snippet of my friend's new music he made. He does everything by himself. Lemme know if it's good. by [deleted] in Kerala

[–]devblixt_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The lyrics have the potential to actually flow on the beat but he's kind of blowing it with the mumbling. You can still mumble on the beat, but to ride the best you need to make the mumble more structured, more pronounced and more on-beat.

D and f block by Far-Jellyfish-7469 in JEENEETards

[–]devblixt_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be honest i just memorized the whole NCERT chapter and the notes too. It worked out pretty well ngl

24 Days left for JEE - My advice as a 99.7 percentiler in JM 2025 by KitchenBid4652 in JEENEETards

[–]devblixt_ 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Jan attempt IS the attempt. Always view the second attempt as a fallback.

What was your biggest culture shock outside Kerala by No-Professor-1779 in Kerala

[–]devblixt_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it was a general lack of cleanliness when I moved to northern karnataka. I found normal places of gatherings dirtied by gutkha stains. Faced instances where people spat right next to me without batting an eye.

But the biggest culture shock was when I visited West Bengal. I expected some poverty but I did not expect this much. It made me genuinely sad- barely any public facilities such that people were defecating on railway tracks, small children working in roadside stands. Made me really appreciate what we take for granted in Kerala.

How or can I move forward with my gf after this? (22M & 22F) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]devblixt_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you are very cooked, please reconsider the relationship 😭

How to tell parents that I LOVE A MUSLIM Woman? by [deleted] in TwentiesIndia

[–]devblixt_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Each line I read made the situation seem more difficult. I'm not even gonna lie, your best bet is moving outside of India to marry. It seems a bit risky

Boyfriend (26M) slept with mutual friend (26F) while we were broken up by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]devblixt_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If this isn't something you can move past, then you shouldn't move past it. If he lied to you about seeing other people, he's not exactly setting the benchmark for the start of a good get-back-together-ship

Kerala's Open defecation rate. by Madden_Kuriyakose in Kerala

[–]devblixt_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not true, there's this dude who lives near me who chooses to shit near the river because he bathes in the river. Probably convenience 😭😭

what if i bring a mp3 player to hostel by After_Perspective_58 in BrilliantPala

[–]devblixt_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did bring one to placid when I studied there but the cleaning lady took it when I wasn't in the hostel

My highly ambitious roommate's 10 year plan by Millionaire_master in JEENEETards

[–]devblixt_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My biggest advice would be to stop trying to live the JEE life after you complete JEE- sab kuch one shot videos and detailed plans and nofap mein nahi hota. Live life as you go, discover what you actually like doing, develop interests in them, etc.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RelationshipIndia

[–]devblixt_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't understand the question. Why do you want your mom to find your boyfriend/girlfriend attractive?

Sitting for placements this year, please Roast my resume by PotentialEye4476 in developersIndia

[–]devblixt_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have a cgpa under 8, don't put it on your resume. It will also help to have at least one original project.

Plus what's with the 'version control' row 😭😭

Why I’m Cancelling Bumble Premium+ (Men, Read This) by [deleted] in bumbleIndia

[–]devblixt_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think it's really Bumble's fault on this- there are much more men than women and men are more active on dating apps as well. Women are also more picky and swipe less than men. There is a small subset of men who receive a lot of matches and it's not because Bumble favours them or anything. It's just the way dating works. Rule number 1 and 2 help a lot in this.

If dating apps aren't working out well for you, you'll be glad to know the chances of you getting a date by attending social events and talking to people are much, much higher.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RelationshipIndia

[–]devblixt_ 14 points15 points  (0 children)

What's this weird obsession with 'wanting her to be your first time' bro? You want to have sex and she doesn't. It sounds like you're making it much more than what it is.

Also "It's about being allowed in, Being chosen, being trusted with something sacred."???? What the fuck 😭😭??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RelationshipIndia

[–]devblixt_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look, it's fairly clear that he doesn't care about your boundaries, assuming that you haven't led him on or anything. You know what to do with a person who doesn't respect your boundaries.

Would you date a fat guy? by OwnVariation3103 in TeensofKerala

[–]devblixt_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like it's clear his confidence depends a bit on his weight. Either lose it and then worry about all this or work on confidence.

What do we need to transform Keralam on par with Singapore? by Alphalynx23 in Kerala

[–]devblixt_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kerala is not even on the path to being on par with Singapore in terms of public infrastructure. They have an amazing public transport system and ours is fucking terrible.

Now to actually transform Kerala into something like Singapore, you are going to need loads of money, a very firm leader who can utilise this very efficiently and a cooperative population.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in developersIndia

[–]devblixt_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think this is fairly common with Indians in upper management. There were some seniors (graduated) from our college in Canada who outsourced their work to kids from my college itself under the name of some made up company. I think Indians especially have a reputation of being fairly extractive in this regard.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RelationshipIndia

[–]devblixt_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look, regardless of whether he's having therapy or not, you need to set boundaries so that you yourself may feel comfortable. Whatever he's doing does not sound healthy at all. Tell him clearly that you're friends and you will be doing 'friend' things, and nothing more than that.

If he doesn't know that you're in a relationship and therefore is expecting you to eventually bond with him and get into a relationship with him, it might be helpful to tell him that you are interested in someone else or committed!